Zamkati
- Zimitsani zamagetsi zanu zonse
- Tsopano popeza muli ndi chidwi cha wina ndi mnzake, lankhulani
- Pezani thupi koma osagonana
- Kambiranani zogonana kunja kwa chipinda chogona
- Osanyalanyaza kunyengerera kwamagetsi
- Khazikitsani maziko achikondi
- Musaiwale zaubwenzi wapambuyo paubwenzi
Kugonana kwabwino kumayamba ndiubwenzi wabwino, wapamtima, pomwe mumakhazikika nthawi zina mpaka mutangopita kuchipinda. Nkhaniyi ili ndi malangizo amomwe mungakhalire ogonana ndi chibwenzi chanu.
Ngakhale mutu wankhaniyi, uwu sindiwo kalozera mwatsatanetsatane kogonana ndi bwenzi lanu.
Limenelo lingakhale buku lophunzitsira kwambiri ndipo sangapangitse kuwerenga kosangalatsa. Pali zoyambirira zokondana zambiri zakukhala pachibwenzi ndi chibwenzi chako, chifukwa chake tiwona zina mwazo.
Kugonana kwabwino si matupi okhudza matupi okha. Kugonana kwabwino kumayamba ndiubwenzi wabwino, wapamtima, pomwe mumakhazikika nthawi zina mpaka mutangopita kuchipinda.
Tiyeni tiwone momwe izi zimachitikira.
Zimitsani zamagetsi zanu zonse
Chinthu choyamba muyenera kuchita mukamakonzekera chibwenzi ndikutenga foni yanu yam'manja, piritsi, pc ndi wailesi yakanema ndikuzimitsa.
Ndichoncho.
Palibe ma buzz, ding-dings kapena mawu ena kapena zithunzi zomwe zingakupangitseni chidwi ndi bwenzi lanu labwino.
Mukufuna kupezeka kwathunthu pazomwe zichitike, ndipo ngati chinsalu chanu chikupitilira kuyatsa ngati mtengo wa Khrisimasi usiku wonse, mudzakhala ndi nthawi yovuta kuyang'anitsitsa munthu wanu. Dziko lingadikire pamene mukukonzekera chikondi.
Tsopano popeza muli ndi chidwi cha wina ndi mnzake, lankhulani
Kusinthana kwamawu ndi gawo lofunikira pakuwonetseratu.
Palibe amene akufuna kuti azigonana popanda kukambirana nkhani zolimbikitsa, sichoncho? Choncho konzani wina ndi mnzake. Mufunseni kuti tsiku lake linali bwanji. Ndi chiyani chomwe chinali chabwino kwambiri chomwe chidachitika? Choipitsitsa?
Mverani mwakhama mayankho ake; yang'anani maso, kugwedeza mutu, ndikuti "Wow. Zikumveka zodabwitsa (kapena zoyipa)! ” Fufuzani naye za zomwe mudalankhula posachedwa; adzakhudzidwa ndikukumbukira kuti adatuluka kuntchito kapena nkhondo yake ndi amayi ake.
Zonsezi zimakuthandizani kuti mukhale ogwirizana.
Pezani thupi koma osagonana
Yambani kupita patsogolo pakupanga chikondi ndikumverera kosavuta. Kukumbatirana kwanthawi yayitali. Nthawi yochuluka yakupsompsonana pasofa. (Osamachepetsa kupsompsonana kwanu mpaka mukamapanga zibwenzi ... muzichita nawo momasuka mkati ndi kunja kwa chipinda chogona.)
Nanga bwanji khosi lokongola ndi kutikita phewa?
Ngati nsana wake uli womangirira, m'vuleni malaya ake kuti muzitha kugwira ntchito m'malo omwe amafunikira chisamaliro.
Cholinga ndikutenga izi pang'onopang'ono, osati kungothamangitsa gawo ili lamasewera kuti mufike ku "zabwino." Zonse ndi zinthu zabwino, ndipo gawo limodzi labwino, lokulirapo pakugonana.
Kambiranani zogonana kunja kwa chipinda chogona
Ngati aka ndi koyamba kugonana ndi chibwenzi ichi, ndizothandiza komanso zosangalatsa kukambirana zomwe mukuyembekezera. Sikuti zidzangotenthe ma libidos anu, koma zidzawunikira zomwe mumakonda komanso zomwe mungayankhe.
Ikuthandizani kuti mumufunsenso zomwe amakonda ndi zomwe sakonda. Zachidziwikire, uku ndikulankhulana komwe kuyenera kupitilirabe pakama, koma kuyamba kusinthana ndikadabvala ndikotentha kwambiri.
Ndikulankhulanso kofunikira kuti muwonetsetse kuti zilakolako zanu zogonana ndizofanana.
Sipangakhale chilichonse choyipa kuposa kudziwa kuti mochedwa bwenzi lanu likufuna kuchita zachiwerewere zomwe mumamunyansa kuti azisangalala nazo. Chifukwa chake khalani omasuka, oona mtima, ndipo khazikitsani malire asanawoloke.
Ngati simukukhulupirira ndi chilichonse chomwe mnzanuyu akukuuzani zosowa zake, muyenera kunena zovutazi, ngakhale zitanthauza kuti musagone pakadali pano.
Osanyalanyaza kunyengerera kwamagetsi
Mukudziwa kuti mukukonzekera kukhala pachibwenzi ndi chibwenzi chanu madzulo amenewo.
Nanga bwanji kusinthana malembo masana (onani: osati zithunzi, koma mauthenga) kuti phwandolo liyambike?
Zidzakupatsani nonse awiri mkwiyo, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mukadzakumana limodzi, zidzakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri! "Ndikukufuna": mawu atatu osavuta omwe amakhudza kwambiri malingaliro a bwenzi lanu.
Khazikitsani maziko achikondi
Kodi bwenzi lanu likubwera kwanu usikuuno? Khalani kanthawi asanafike kuti muwonetsetse kuti chipinda chanu ndi chaukhondo.
Sakusowa kuwona zovala zanu zamkati zikuuma panjanji yakusamba, ngakhale zitakhala zokongola bwanji.
Ikani nsalu zokongola, zatsopano pabedi panu ndikuchotsani nyama zomwe mwadzaza. Nanga bwanji makandulo onunkhira pang'ono (kapena makandulo onyenga okhala ndi mababu owala, omwe ndi otetezeka ngati mungagone limodzi mutapanga chikondano)?
Lembani nyimbo zanu zabwino kwambiri kuti zisungunuke, ndipo mwakhala mukukhazikitsa madzulo amodzi!
Musaiwale zaubwenzi wapambuyo paubwenzi
Tiyeni tikambirane za kukhala pachibwenzi mutakhala pachibwenzi.
Mudagonana kwambiri ndi bwenzi lanu, tsopano onjezerani kudzimva kophatikizana. Akhoza kukhala akugona atagwirana mwamphamvu. Koma bwanji ngati simukutopa? Bwanji osadzuka ndikuphika limodzi?
Onetsetsani kuti mwadzaza firiji yanu ndi zinthu zina zofunika zomwe mungakwapule pambuyo pakupanga chikondi. Kuphika, kudya, kucheza, kuyamikirana wina ndi mnzake, kumuwuza mwayi womwe mumakhala nawo chifukwa chokhala naye m'moyo wanu.
Komabe osatopa?
Kuyenda kwabwino ndikugwirana manja ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yolimbikitsira kumva kwanu kulumikizana.
Ndipo mukangobwerera kwanu, mungamve ngati mukufuna kuyambiranso zonsezo!