Zamkati
- 1. Kukwiya chifukwa cha zomwe wachitazo, osati munthuyo
- 2. Fotokozerani zoyembekezera zanu ... Pazonse
- 3. Chitani zinthu zabwino popanda chifukwa
- 4. Pangani miyambo
Ukwati ndichinthu chosangalatsa, koma izi zisasokonezedwe ngati zosavuta.
Zokwera ndizosapeweka, monga tsiku lomwe munena kuti "Ndimachita" kapena kulandira mwana wanu woyamba. Zotsika zimadziwikiratu. Mutha kumenyera pamalire omwe wina adadutsa, kapena momwe m'modzi mwa inu sanalemekezere mnzake.
Ndizokongola komanso zosokoneza nthawi zonse.
Ndiye izi zimafunsira funso kuti: mumazipanga bwanji? Kukwatirana ndikosavuta, koma kukhala okwatirana ndimasewera osiyanasiyana.
Gwiritsani ntchito malangizowa m'banja lanu ndipo mudzakhala ndi moyo wachikondi, wosekerera, komanso wovuta pang'ono momwe mungathere.
1. Kukwiya chifukwa cha zomwe wachitazo, osati munthuyo
Monga ndidanenera, mikangano ndi kusagwirizana ndizosapeweka. Mukadzipereka kucheza ndi munthu m'modzi yekhayo kwa moyo wanu wonse, mudzasemphana njira yolakwika.
Kukanganako kukachitika, chitirani zabwino inuyo ndi mnzanuyo ndikuchotsani zomwe akuchititsani kuti akhumudwitseni, osati munthuyo. Zikuwoneka kuti palibe kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa ziwirizi, koma ndikofunikira kuzindikira kuti pali kusiyana kwakukulu.
Mukaloza mnzanuyo chala ndikuwamenya ngati munthu, atha kudziteteza ndikukhazikitsa makoma awo. Ngati, komabe, musankha kuti mufufuze ndikuyankhula nawo zochita, atha kukhala ofunitsitsa kubweretsa mutu wazomwe akukambirana.
Ndi zachilengedwe kwa ife kukwiya ndikufuna kuimba mlandu munthu, koma potero timachita zovulaza koposa zabwino.
Mnzanu siopusa, amangoti anachita chinachake kumeneko kunali kupusa. Kupeza kusiyana kosazindikirika m'mawu amenewa kumatha kupewa kukwiya kwambiri mbali zonse.
2. Fotokozerani zoyembekezera zanu ... Pazonse
Njira yabwino yopewera kusagwirizana ndiyo kukhala omveka pazomwe mukuyembekezera.
Amayi, ngati mukuyembekezera kuti abambo anu azithandiza nawo ntchito zapakhomo, muuzeni. Simukuloledwa kukwiya kapena kumukwiyitsa ngati simunawonekere kuti mukufuna kuti akuthandizeni.
Amuna, ngati mukuyembekezera nthawi ya "ine" yowonera mpira kapena kugwira ntchito pagalimoto yomwe mwakhala mukukonzekera, muuzeni mkazi wanu kuti mukufuna kupatula nthawi kuti izi zichitike.
Pazochitika zonsezi, ndiloleni ndikhale womveka: sindikukuuzani kuti mupange amafuna pamene mukukambirana izi ndi mnzanu. Ingoikani zambirizo kuti zimveke. Chifukwa chimodzi chomwe chimayambitsa mkangano kapena kusamvana ndichakuti winawake waphwanya zomwe amayembekezera kapena lamulo. Monga banja (ndikhulupilira kuti), simungamapangitse wina ndi mnzake kukhala omvetsa chisoni. Mwayi wake, simukudziwa komwe munthu winayo adayimilira pamutu wina ndikuwapukusa molakwika chifukwa chakusadziwa kwanu.
Lambulani mpweya mwachangu podziwitsa zomwe mukufuna pachibwenzi chanu.
3. Chitani zinthu zabwino popanda chifukwa
Chinyengo cha "kutengera mkazi wako maluwa popanda chifukwa" chakhala chovuta pakadali pano, koma ndiroleni ndikuuzeni china chake: zikugwira. Zozizwitsa zazing'ono zimaganizira komanso zosayembekezereka. Mnzanu akuyembekezerani kuti mupeze china chabwino patsiku lanu lobadwa kapena tsiku lawo lobadwa, koma Lachiwiri masana masana? Mwina ayi.
Tsopano, chinyengo ichi si cha amuna okha. Amayi, pali manja ang'onoang'ono omwe mungapatse amuna anu kuti awadziwitse kuti mumasamala. Anthu ambiri sangayamikire maluwa khumi ndi awiri atagwira ntchito tsiku lonse, koma sindingaganize za ambiri omwe angadye chakudya chabwino. Muphikireni chakudya chamadzulo pomwe samayembekezera. Msiyeni agone pabedi tsiku lonse ndikuwonerera mpira pomwe mukutsuka mnyumba. Muloleni iye agone pamene inu mukusamalira ana pa tsiku lanu lopuma.
Zilibe kanthu kuti ndinu ndani, zizindikilo zazing'onozi zachikondi zimapita kutali. Mukakhala ndi wina nthawi yayitali, ndimomwe amazolowera machitidwe anu. Mwa kusokoneza kachitidwe kameneka modabwitsa komanso modabwitsa kudzawapangitsa kuti aziwongolera.
4. Pangani miyambo
Ndikofunika kuti chikondi chanu chikhalebe chamoyo mukatha zaka zanu limodzi. Kaya ndi kuthawa chaka chilichonse, mwambo watchuthi, kapena tchuthi chamabanja ambiri, pangani china chake chomwe mungafune kubwerera.
Akatswiri ambiri azamaubwenzi amalimbikitsa chidwi ndikuchita zinthu zatsopano kuti zinthu zizikhala zatsopano, koma si njira yokhayo yosungira chikondi chanu kukhala chamoyo. Mwa kupanga miyambo, mumapereka ubale wanu kapena banja lanu chifukwa cha zikondwerero pachaka kapena pamwezi. Ngakhale zitha kungobwereza zakale, zikukumbutsani za chikondi chomwe chilipo.
Mukapulumuka tsiku lililonse, mutha kukumbukira za gule wanu woyamba kapena malonjezo omwe mudagawana nawo. Ndi miyambo yonse ya tchuthi, mutha kuyang'ana pazithunzi za zaka zapitazo ndikuwona momwe mwakulira limodzi. Ziribe kanthu miyambo yomwe mungasankhe kupanga ndikubwereranso, malingaliro adzakwaniritsidwa ndikubwezeretsanso chikondi pakati panu nthawi iliyonse.
Chifukwa chake, pamenepo muli napo. Malangizo anayi omwe angakuthandizeni kuti mukhale limodzi ndi mnzanu mpaka mutakwaniritsa malonjezo anu. 'Mpaka imfa ititenge gawo lingawoneke ngati chovuta, koma ngati mungasunge zinthu zinayi izi, ulendowu ubwera ndi zopindika zochepa komanso mphindi zambiri zachisangalalo. Zabwino zonse!