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Pasanapite nthawi kuchokera kokasangalala, timayamba kunyalanyaza anzathu. Popeza kutanganidwa konse kwamoyo, titha kuyamba kunyalanyaza moto wanyumba. Kuti tithe kupanga banja ndi "mphamvu yokhalabe", ndikofunikira kuti tizilemekeza mphindi iliyonse ngati yopatulika.
Sitingathe kubweza mphindizo
Kuti mulimbikitse kuzindikira kwanu kufunika kolemekeza zochitika zatsiku ndi tsiku, lingalirani nkhani ya Sarah ndi Bill. Olekanitsidwa patali ndi nkhondo, banjali lidazindikira kufunika kwa mphindi iliyonse, ndipo adaphunzira kuyatsa moto wolumikizana ngakhale akukumana ndi kupatukana kwakukulu.
Nayi nkhani:
Sarah ndi Bill adakumana m'misewu ya Milwaukee, Wisconsin mu Ogasiti 1941. Chibwenzi chawo chinali chofulumira komanso chopatsa ulemu, mpaka pamapeto pa chibwenzi cha Novembala. Patatha milungu isanu ndi umodzi, mabombawo adagwera pa Pearl Harbor.
Sarah anali kugwira ntchito yolemba pamakina opanga magalimoto pomwe nkhondo idayamba, pomwe Bill anali woyamba kumene ku University of Wisconsin. Wophunzira wa ROTC, Bill adamva kuyitanidwa kuti akalembetse usilikali, ndipo sanachite mantha ndi zomwe angachite poteteza ufulu. Atatsanzikana ndi a Police Air Corps, Bill adapita kunkhondo pomwe Sarah adalonjeza kuti amuthandiza kuchokera kunyumba. Patatha miyezi 8, Bill anali kuphunzira momwe angayendetsere bomba lalikulu lomwe lingafune kugonjetsa gulu lankhondo la Axis.
Bill ndi Sara amalemberana makalata mlungu uliwonse.
M'masiku angapo maimelo asanafike komanso mafoni am'manja, banjali limadalira njira yolumikizirana yakale kuti moto wanyumba usayake. Bill ndi Sarah amalemberana makalata mlungu uliwonse. Nthawi zina makalata anali kudzazidwa ndi zokopa zokopa za chikondi ndi chikhumbo. Kawirikawiri, makalatawa ankangotchula za mavuto a kunyumba komanso nkhanza za nkhondo. Chifukwa cha mtunda pakati pa okonda ndi kuchepa kwa mayendedwe, zilembo zimangotumizidwa milungu itatu kapena kupitilira apo kuti zilembedwe. Makalatawa adakhala mandala m'mbuyomu. Pomwe mzere uliwonse wamalembawo unkakondedwa ndi omwe amawalandira, Sarah ndi Bill adadziwa kuti zambiri zidachitika kuyambira pomwe adalemba zilembozo. Kwa miyezi ingapo, banjali linayamba kulemba za kufunika kwa chikhulupiriro. M'makalata awo wina ndi mzake, adapempha mphamvu yayikulu yopatsa chiyembekezo ndi mtendere mu inayo. "Mulungu amatichitira zabwino," khalani osasunthika munthawi zonse makalata.
Mu Ogasiti 1944, B-29 ya Bill adawomberedwa pa Nyanja ya Adriatic.
Woyendetsa ndege waluso adatsitsa ndegeyo m'madzi osataya moyo. Dzanja la Bill lidasweka kwambiri pangoziyi, koma adatha kupeza mphamvu zokwanira kusonkhanitsa katundu ndi raft ndegeyo isaname. Kwa masiku 6, Bill ndi omwe amagwira nawo ntchito adathawira ku Adriatic. Pa tsiku lachisanu ndi chiwiri, U-Boat yaku Germany idawona omwe anali mlengalenga ndikuwatenga. Bob ndi abwenzi amamangidwa miyezi 11 ikubwerayi.
Kunyumba, Sarah anazindikira kuti makalata oti “sitima” ochokera kwa Bill adasokonezedwa. Mtima ndi moyo wa Sarah zidamuwuza kuti Bob anali pamavuto koma ali wamoyo. Sarah adapitiliza kulemba. Tsiku lililonse. Pambuyo pake, a Dipatimenti Yankhondo adamuchezera Sarah kuti amudziwitse kuti ndege ya Bill idatsika mu Adriatic, ndikuti asitikali amakhulupirira kuti Bill ndi ena ogwira ntchito mndende anali mndende kundende yaku Germany. Sarah adalandira nkhaniyi ndi chisoni chachikulu, koma sanasiye kulembera wokondedwa wake. Kwa miyezi 11, amalankhula za chisanu ku Wisconsin, kutanganidwa kwake pantchito, komanso chidaliro chake kuti Mulungu apeza njira yobweretsera banjali. Kutali kwambiri, Bill anali kulemba. Ngakhale kuti panalibe njira yoti Bill atumize uthenga wake kwa wokondedwa wake, adawasunga mu malata mpaka tsiku lomwe adzaonane ndi Sarah. Tsiku linafika mu June 1945. Kenako banjali linakwatirana mu October wotsatira.
Kwa zaka pafupifupi 60 tili m'banja, Sarah ndi Bill amalemberana makalata.
Ngakhale amakhala limodzi, amapitilizabe kulemba manambala a tsiku ndi tsiku kuti alimbikitsane ndikuwongolera. Zolemba zambiri zidapezeka ndi ana a Sarah ndi Bill makolo awo atamwalira. Makalata ofotokoza zachikondi, nkhawa, chisangalalo, ndi chikhulupiriro amapangitsa banjali kulankhulana momasuka muukwati wawo wodabwitsawu. Nthawi zina nkhaniyo inali yophweka ngati kuyamika “Zikomo” chifukwa chokomwetulira kapena chakudya chosadya bwino.
Mabanja omaliza ndi mabanja omwe amadziwa kulumikizana
Kuyankhulana sikumangotengera kutumiza kwa "lovey dovey", koma m'malo mwake kumatha kupitilira kutengeka ndi mbiri. Kulowetsedwa pakulankhulana tsiku ndi tsiku ndi mphatso yofanananso yodalirika. Tikakhala achilungamo kwa iwo omwe timakonda, chidaliro chimakulirakulira.
Ngati mukufuna banja lolimba lomwe lingathe kupirira mafunde, khalani ndi kulumikizana kwabwino ndi wokondedwa wanu
Momwemonso, khalani omasuka kumva nkhani zomwe okondedwa anu amalankhula nanu. Komanso, lembani kalata kwa mnzanu. Zolemba pamanja zakukondana sizisintha. Ngati mulembera ndikulandila zomwe zalembedwera, yang'anani ubale wanu ukukula bwino. Pangani danga mumtima mwanu ndi chizolowezi chanu cholimbitsa ubale ndi wokondedwa wanu. Musakhale otanganidwa kwambiri kuti musaseke, kuyimba, kudya, kapena kulota limodzi.
Zonse ndizolemekeza mphindi, abwenzi. Ngakhale zina zathu zimawoneka ngati zodandaula komanso zosaiwalika, zonse zimayenera kuyamikiridwa ngati zosasinthika. Sitikupeza mphindi kubwerera. Onani mphindi iliyonse ndi wokondedwa wanu ngati mphindi yofunika kwambiri pamoyo wanu.