Zamkati
- 1. Pezani zomwe mungagwirizane kudzera mu kulumikizana momveka bwino
- 2. Pangani malire
- 3. Muzipeza njira zolankhulirana
- 4. Khalani olumikizana ndi maloya anu
- 5. Khalani ndi udindo pa wokondedwa wanu watsopano
- Makhalidwe a makolo otetezeka, ogwira ntchito kwambiri
- Ikani dongosolo logwirira ntchito
Palibe amene ayenera kulimbana ndi mkazi kapena mwamuna wake wakale kapena wakale chifukwa cha chikondi cha ana awo. Ndipo, izi ndi zomwe zimachitikira mabanja masauzande tsiku lililonse. Ngati mnzanu kapena mnzanu wapamtima akuchita zachinyengo, atha kutenga njira imodzi yowonongera ubale wanu wamakolo ndi ana anu pogwiritsa ntchito mabodza kapena zina.
Makhalidwe omwe angapangitse wina kukhala wosangalatsa kukhala pachibwenzi samamasulira bwino polera ana. Ndipo anthu amasintha pakapita nthawi, osati nthawi zonse kukhala abwino.
Ngati mungapeze kuti mnzanu wakale akuyesa kuwononga ubale wanu wamakolo ndi ana anu, Nazi njira zingapo zomwe mungachite kuti muthane nawo.
Njira zomwe makolo amawonongera tsogolo la ana awo ndi momwe angaziletsere kuti apulumutse ubale wanu wamakolo ndi mwana-
1. Pezani zomwe mungagwirizane kudzera mu kulumikizana momveka bwino
Gawo loyamba ndikufunsa zomwe inu ndi mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu wakale mungachite mosiyana kuti mulimbikitse kulumikizana kwabanja. Yesani ndikufunsani wakale wanu zomwe nonse mungachite kuti mupange malo abwino kwa ana.
Mwachidziwikire, aloleni avomereze kuti kuwononga ubale pakati pa makolo ndi ana mbali zonse pamapeto pake kumavulaza ana. Kungakhale kofunikira kufunafuna thandizo kwa wothandizira mabanja kuti athe kuyanjanitsa.
2. Pangani malire
Ngati bwenzi lanu lakana kubwera kudzagwira ntchito limodzi, ndiye nthawi yoti mupange malire ena kuti muchepetse ubale wamabanja ndi ana. Osatengeka ndi zizolowezi zawo zomwe zimawononga mgwirizano wamakolo ndi mwana.
Zitsanzo zimaphatikizapo kuyendera ndikunyamula m'malo opezeka anthu okha, ndikuletsa ubale wamakolo ndi mwana kuwononga mwayi wopita kunyumba kwanu.
Popeza kutengeka kumakulirakulira, kungakhale bwino kulumikizana mosamalitsa kudzera pa imelo kapena imelo (osanenapo kuti muli ndi zolemba zazomwe munganene mukamapita ku khothi).
3. Muzipeza njira zolankhulirana
Tekinoloje ikuthandizirani, ndipo pali mapulogalamu ambiri abwino kunja uko omwe angakuthandizeni kuthana ndi vuto lolumikizana ndipo makamaka akukonzekera ndandanda ndiumoyo wa ana anu.
4. Khalani olumikizana ndi maloya anu
Mnzanu wakale kapena kholo lanu lobadwa akhoza kuyeserera kukhothi nthawi yomwe mwasudzulana kapena mutatha kuti akupatseni chilango. Izi zitha kukupweteketsani pachuma, m'maganizo, komanso kukhala nthawi yayikulu pa nthawi yanu yopuma. Poterepa, mufunika loya wabanja. Amatha kukangana pamaso pa khothi kuti afotokoze njira zosavomerezeka zomwe angakhale akugwiritsa ntchito ndikuziletsa, kapena kupempha kubweza kukhothi.
5. Khalani ndi udindo pa wokondedwa wanu watsopano
Ngati wokondedwa wanu abwezera kwambiri wokondedwa wanu, ndiudindo wanu kuwateteza momwe mungathere, ngakhale kukhazikitsa malamulo ngati zingafunike, komanso kuteteza ubale wa kholo ndi mwana.
Ngati mnzanu wapamtima akunamizira mnzanu watsopano, muthane naye. Mungafunike kuletsa malo ochezera, maimelo, komanso manambala amafoni m'malo mwa mnzanu. Inuyo, monga kholo, muyenera kutenga udindo wolumikizana ndi ana ndi wakale wanu. Izi zikuthandizaninso kuteteza wakale wanu kuwononga ubale wanu wamakolo ndi mwana.
Makhalidwe a makolo otetezeka, ogwira ntchito kwambiri
Kodi mungadziwe bwanji ngati muli ndi vuto lomwe likufunika kuti mulitengere nthawi yomweyo? Taganizirani mindandanda yotsatirayi yomwe imasiyanitsa pakati pa maubwenzi ogwirira ntchito limodzi ndi ena.
- Kusintha
- Mwaulemu
- Chilungamo
- Ganizirani zaumoyo wamwana
- Kuthandiza
- Otetezeka
- Amalemekeza malire
- Njira yolankhulirana yolingalira komanso yomveka
- Kulemekeza abwenzi atsopano komanso makolo opeza
Zotsatira zakusonyeza izi m'miyoyo yanu yolera ana? Kukhala ndi ana omwe amakwanitsa kusintha bwino, amakhala olimba mtima ndipo amakhala olimba mtima kuti atenge zoopsa. Alibe m'modzi, koma achikulire ambiri m'miyoyo yawo omwe amawasamalira ndikuwapatsa zofunikira: ndalama, nthawi, kuwongolera, komanso koposa zonse, CHIKONDI.
Izi zimakhudza thanzi lawo komanso thanzi lawo: ana omwe amakhala m'malo otere amakhala ndi chitetezo chamthupi cholimba komanso mawonekedwe otetezedwa. Izi zimapanga ubale wabwino pakati pa makolo ndi ana pakati pa inu ndi mwana wanu.
Makhalidwe a makolo omwe sagwira bwino ntchito, otanganidwa kwambiri komanso owononga
- Mpikisano
- Kutsika kapena kunyoza
- Amapampu ana kuti mumve zambiri za wakale ndi mnzake
- Kudzimva kosakhazikika komanso kuwopsa (ziwopsezo zathupi)
- Pakhomo "amayenda pamaoko a mazira" kuti apewe mikangano
- Kusintha
- Simalipira chithandizo cha ana / chisamaliro cha ana panthawi yake (kapena ayi)
- Kusagwirizana pakuchezera
- Amasunga zidole za mwana, zovala, ndi zina zambiri.
- Amazunza makhothi
- Gwiritsani ntchito ana kulankhulana
- Amapereka mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo wokhudza wakale ndi ana
Zotsatira zakubadwa kwa ana omwe amakhala ndi makolo owopsa ngati awa? Amatha kukhala ndi zilonda zam'mtima moyo wawo wonse ndipo amakhala ndi nkhawa yayitali.
Kuphatikiza apo, kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti ana awa amakonda kuzolowera ndipo amatha kukumana ndi zovuta pokwaniritsa moyo wachikondi. Chitetezo chamthupi chawo chimasokonekera chifukwa chokhala ndi nkhawa nthawi zonse komanso kusakhazikika.
Pomaliza, chimodzi mwazotsatira ziwiri zitha kuchitika: atha kukhala osatetezeka kwambiri kuti atenge zoopsa zoyenera, kapena atha kusankha zoopsa zosayenera zomwe zingabweretse zovuta.
Ikani dongosolo logwirira ntchito
Kumbukirani: mutha kungoyang'anira zomwe zikuchitika mnyumba yanu. Kuchita bwino kwambiri momwe mungathere kumapanga ndikusunga malo otetezeka, othandizira ana anu omwe ali pamavuto. Kumbukirani kuti ana anu adzakula ndikumvetsetsa kuti mumawathandiza. Ngakhale simungasinthe zomwe zimachitika mnyumba yamwamuna wakale, MUTHA kuganizira zoyesayesa zanu pakupanga malo abwino.
Ngati abambo a mwana wanu akuchita zonse zomwe angathe kukunamizirani ndi kukusiyanitsani ndi ana anu, osalimbana ndi moto, pewani moto ndi madzi.
Phunzitsani ana anu kufunika kokhala oona mtima, komanso momwe angayang'anire umboni kuti adziwe zomwe zili zoona komanso zabodza. Akatsika, inunso mumakwera.
Yesetsani kuchita zonse zomwe mungathe kuti ana anu azikhala nawo nthawi zonse. Mfundo yaikulu ndi yakuti MUSATAYE MTIMA. Muli ndi ngongole ndi ana anu kuwadziwitsa ndikumva kuti mwamenya nkhondo ndi darndest wanu kuti mukhale ndi ubale wabwino, komanso kuti mukuchita zonse zomwe mungathe kuti muchite bwino.