Zamkati
M'kulingalirabe kosalekeza, anthu awiri omwe amakhala nawo limodzi amakumana, kukwatiwa, ndikukhala mosangalala mpaka kalekale mogwirizana kwathunthu pazinthu zazikuluzikulu m'moyo.
Ndiko kutanthauzira komwe kwa "soulmate," sichoncho?
Chowonadi - monga chingatsimikiziridwe ndi aliyense pachibwenzi kwa nthawi yayitali - ndikuti anthu sangagwirizane. Ndipo ngakhale awiri akhale ogwirizana, mitu ina yomwe sagwirizana imatha kukhala yogawanitsa. Izi zikachitika, ndikofunikira kupeza njira zosungira umodzi wanu ngakhale mukugwirizana. Nazi njira zinayi zokambirana mitu yovuta m'njira yomwe imakupangitsani kuti mukhale ogwirizana m'malo mokankhana kutali.
Dziwani pasadakhale
Palibe amene amayankha bwino mukaukiridwa, ndipo ngakhale sichingakhale cholinga chanu, kubweretsa mutu wovuta popanda kudziwiratu mverani monga chimodzi kwa mnzanu. "Chenjezo" siliyenera kukhala lolemera kapena lolemera - kungotchulapo mutu mwachangu, kudzathandiza kuti adziwe kuti mukuyesera kupeza njira yoti mukambirane mwakuya polemekeza zomwe angafune nthawi ndi malo kukonzekera. Anthu ena atha kukhala okonzeka kuyankhula nthawi yomweyo, pomwe ena atha kufunsa kuti adzayendere mutuwu m'maola ochepa. Lemekezani pempho lawo.
Yesani: “Hei, ndikufuna ndikhale pansi ndikakambirana za bajeti posachedwa. Chingakugwireni ntchito?”
Sankhani nthawi yoyenera
Tonsefe timakhala ndi nthawi zina patsikuli pomwe malingaliro athu - ndi mphamvu zathu - zimakhala bwino kuposa ena. Mumamudziwa bwino mnzanuyo kuposa wina aliyense; sankhani kuwafikira nthawi yomwe mukudziwa kuti ndi yabwino. Pewani nthawi pamene inu mukudziwa atopa ndipo kutopa kwawo kwa tsikuli kwatha. Ndibwinonso ngati nonse awiri mungavomereze nthawi yoti mukambirane mutuwo motero kumangokhala ngati gawo limodzi.
Yesani: “Ndikudziwa kuti sitimagwirizana pazotsatira za ana, koma pakadali pano tonse tatopa komanso takhumudwa. Bwanji ngati tizinena izi m'mawa tikumwa khofi kwinaku akuwonerera zojambula? "
Yesetsani kumvera ena chisoni
Kuchita zachifundo kumatumiza uthenga kwa mnzanu kuti simukufuna kuchita nawo nkhondo, koma kuyesera kuthana ndi vuto lanu ndi zofuna zanu zonse. Atsogolereni kukambiranako pozindikira malingaliro awo kapena udindo wawo. Izi sizingothandiza kokha inu pomumvera chisoni mnzanu, koma ziwathandizanso kudziwa kuti sayenera kudzitchinjiriza.
Yesani: “Ndikumva kuti mumakonda makolo anu ndipo muli pavuto lalikulu pakali pano, kuyesera kudziwa momwe mungakwaniritsire izi ndi zosowa za banja lathu. Pepani mukukumana ndi izi. Tiyeni tizilingalire limodzi. ”
Lemekezani ufulu wawo
Nthawi zina, ngakhale atayesetsa kwambiri, anthu awiri sagwirizana. Makamaka mbanja, zimakhala zovuta kugwirizanitsa mfundo yoti mnzathu ali ndi malingaliro osiyana; Zingapangitse anthu ena kukayikira ngati mgwirizano wawo ndi wovomerezeka.
Kumbukirani izi, ngakhale: ngakhale banja ndi ubale wopambana modabwitsa, anthu awiri omwe ali m'banjamo nthawi zonse khalani odziyimira pawokha. Monga momwe mumayenera kuyankhulira malingaliro anu, momwemonso mnzanu. Ndipo pakhoza kukhala mfundo zazikuluzikulu zotsutsana zomwe zimabwera aphindu mobwerezabwereza, sayenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito kunyoza kapena kunyoza mnzanu.
Pamapeto pa tsikulo, ukwati suyenera kulamulira mnzanu kuti akhale ndi malingaliro ofanana. Ndi ubale wovuta womwe umafuna ulemu waukulu komanso kulumikizana momasuka. Nkhani zovuta zikakugawanitsani, pezani njira zolumikizirana; ngakhale zitanthauza kuti nonse awiri musankhe kuchita upangiri waubwenzi ndipo ngakhale mgwirizano sungakhale wotheka.
Koposa zonse, dzipereka kuthana ndi kusiyana kwanu mwaulemu. Chifukwa kuti Ndiko tanthauzo lenileni la ma soulmate: kubwera kopitilira limodzi kwa miyoyo iwiri ... ngakhale zinthu zovuta zikawagawanitsa.