Zamkati
- Sukulu Yapamwamba Yokondedwa
- Anakumana pa intaneti
- Kuyambira kuthamanga mpaka kulira pansi pa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi
- Kodi pali njira yabwino yopezera mnzanu wamtsogolo?
Pogwiritsa ntchito banja lanu komanso anzanu monga zitsanzo, muyenera kuzindikira kuti momwe mabanja okwatirana amakumana ndizosiyanasiyana monga zakumwa zosakaniza za tiyi kapena khofi zomwe zimapezeka m'sitolo yomwe mumakonda.Kawirikawiri, nkhani za "momwe tidakumana" zimafotokozedwera pamisonkhano ndi zokumbukira. Amatikumbutsa za zakale. Kwa mabanja ena, nkhanizi zimagwiritsidwanso ntchito popereka upangiri wosakwatirana m'banja kumibadwo yamtsogolo.
Komabe, ndi ochepa omwe amalingalira ndi "momwe tidakumana" ndi momwe amathandizira kuyika mabanja omwe akukambidwa. Momwe kuyika maziko ndi mwala wapangodya womangirira kwatsopano kudzatsimikizira momwe angaukitsire - kulimba kwake - momwemonso momwe mabanja amakumanirana zimakhudza ukwati wawo.
Sukulu Yapamwamba Yokondedwa
Tonsefe timadziwa banja limodzi lomwe linakumana ali aang'ono kwambiri. Mwina adayamba kuchita zibwenzi kusekondale kapena ngati anthu oyamba kumene kapena ophunzira kusukulu yasekondale. Mabanja amenewa amakonda kukhala omangika ndi okondana kwambiri kuposa maanja ena omwe "adathamangira" kulowa m'banja. Ambiri amakonda kugawana mawu achikondi, Omwe akuwona chibwenzicho awona kuyanjana kwa anzawo za machitidwe awo. Zitha kumveka pang'ono, koma chitsanzo choyambirira cha izi ndikumaliza ziganizo za wina ndi mnzake.
Maukwati awa amakula momwe amachitiramo chifukwa choti awiriwo - mwapangidwe kapena mwanjira - adakhala ndi chibwenzi chotenga nthawi yayitali. Izi zidapangitsa kuti banjali lifanane mofanana ndi zikhalidwe zawo. Zikuphatikizaponso nthawi yotalikilana yopatukana. Izi zidapangitsa kuti banjali lilemekezane kwambiri. Zinawapatsa nthawi kuti adziyese pawokha kufuna kwawo kuti apange moyo limodzi. Maubwenzi awo achikondi adasamalidwa, osati kuthamanga.
Anakumana pa intaneti
Panali nthawi ina pamene kukumana ndi mnzanu wamtsogolo pa intaneti kunali kwachilendo. Pakadali pano, zikukhala zachizolowezi. Anthu okwatirana omwe amakumana pa intaneti - kaya ndi mawebusayiti aulere, mapulogalamu apafoni, kapena malo ochezera - amawonetsa kumvetsetsana wina ndi mnzake. Mwanjira ina, izi zikufanana ndi mtundu wa wokondedwa wa kusekondale, koma munthawi yovuta kwambiri.
Sizachilendo kuti anthu omwe adakumana pa intaneti azikwatirana pasanathe chaka. Zachidziwikire, zotsatira zamtunduwu sizichitika kwa onse ogwiritsa ntchito intaneti. Zimafunikira kuti onse omwe akutenga nawo mbali azifunafuna kapena kutsegulira lingaliro laukwati.
Onse awiri, ngakhale ali okonzeka pazokhumba zawo zokwatirana, mphamvu zamasamba ochezera pa intaneti zimatha kukhala nazo. Ambiri mwa mapulatifomuwa amapereka zida zamphamvu zopangidwa makamaka kuti zithandizire anthu kukumana ndi anzawo omwe ali ndi zibwenzi. Amakulolani kuti muwone momwe mungakhalire mogwirizana ndi umunthu, moyo, komanso mawonekedwe. Izi zikutanthawuza kuti anthu awiri akakumana pa intaneti atha kukhala njira zingapo patsogolo pa maanja omwe amakumana kudzera munjira zina “zachikhalidwe”.
Mabanja omwe adakumana pa intaneti amatha kufikira pamlingo wovuta muubwenzi mwachangu komanso molimba mtima chifukwa chofananira kwawo "kudakonzedweratu" ndimphamvu yolinganiza ma algorithms. Izi zimapangitsanso maukwati omwe ali ndi kuthekera kokulira kopambana ndi mitengo yocheperako yosudzulana poyerekeza ndi avareji yadziko.
Kuyambira kuthamanga mpaka kulira pansi pa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi
Sitikukana kuti pali maukwati angapo opambana omwe adayamba ngati mabanja achangu komanso othamanga. Komabe, sizingakane kuti maukwati amtunduwu nthawi zambiri amabweretsa mavuto ndi mikangano.
Ukwati wokhazikika ungafotokozedwe kuti ndi womwe umachitika mkati mwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yoyambirira wokumana. Nthawi yayifupi ngati imeneyi - makamaka ngati anthu awiri omwe adakumana nawo adakumana kunja kwa madera awo - zitha kubweretsa njira yovuta.
Maanja onga awa nthawi zambiri amafika paguwa osadziwitsana wina ndi mnzake. Komanso, ngakhale kuti sitinachite dala kunyenga, ambiri aife timakhala ndi nkhope yabwino kwambiri momwe tingathere tikangoyamba chibwenzi ndi munthu wina. Izi zikutanthauza kuti palibe mbali yomwe yawonapo moyenera momwe winayo amakhalira, amachitirabe, ndikusamalira.
Pamene "kupezeka kwachidziwikire" kumatsalira mutangonena kuti "Ndikutero," zosayembekezereka, kuyembekezera zosayembekezereka, ndikukhumudwitsidwa. Izi sizitanthauza kuti ukwati watha. Komabe, zimapangitsa miyezi ndi zaka zoyambirira kukhala zopanda pake. Ngati mungawonjezere zovuta zina, monga mavuto azachuma, mimba zosakonzekera, ndi zovuta pantchito, mudzakumana ndi banja losasangalala.
Omwe amatha kupulumuka pamiyala amatha kutuluka mwamphamvu mbali inayo. Tsoka ilo, si onse omwe amatha kutuluka mumsewu wovutawu. Maukwati ena omwe amayamba mwakachetechete amangomenyedwa pamiyala ndi m'mphepete mwa nyanja.
Kodi pali njira yabwino yopezera mnzanu wamtsogolo?
Zitha kumveka ngati zochulukirapo, koma zikafika pokomana ndi munthu woyenera wokwatirana naye, zimadalira kwambiri inu. Inde, upangiri kuchokera kwa abale, abwenzi komanso ngakhale zoletsa zolemba zitha kuthandiza. Komabe, nthawi zonse muyenera kukhala mukuyendetsa tsogolo lanu.
Izi zikutanthauza kuti muyenera kuzindikira kuti ndinu ndani - komwe muli m'moyo wanu komanso komwe mukufuna kukhala. Momwemonso, muyeneranso kuyesetsa kuti muwerengetse zofunikira ndi zabwino za munthu amene mukufuna kukhala mnzake.
Muyeneranso kukumbukira kuti kukonzekera mosamala komanso mosamala nokha sikungakuthandizeni kuti mupeze mnzanu wamtsogolo mwachangu kapena bwino koposa kusiya zinthu mosaganizira komanso mwangozi. Chowonadi ndichakuti mnzanu woyenera adzapezeka kwinakwake pakati.
Chofunikira ndikudziletsa mopupuluma kwambiri osataya mwayi wakukonzekera mukamafunafuna mnzanu. Izi ziwonjezera mwayi wanu wokumana ndi mnzanu pansi pazikhalidwe zomwe zingakupatseni mwayi wabwino wokwatirana bwino.