Zamkati
Ndiye tsopano ukwati ndi wa ma gay ... tidalimbana, tidalimbana, pamapeto pake tidapambana! Ndipo tsopano Khothi Lalikulu litaloleza kukwatirana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha pafupifupi chaka chimodzi chapitacho lero, likutsegulira mafunso atsopano kwa anthu a LGBT mdziko lonselo.
Kodi ukwati umatanthauzanji kwenikweni?
Kodi ndili ndi chitsimikizo kuti ndikufuna kukwatiwa? Kodi kukwatira kumatanthauza kuti ndikungotsatira miyambo yosagwirizana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzanga? Kodi kukhala muukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kungakhale bwanji kosiyana ndi ukwati wowongoka?
Kwa nthawi yayitali pamoyo wanga, sindinaganize kuti ukwati ungakhale mwayi kwa ine ngati amuna ogonana amuna okhaokha, ndipo mwanjira ina, ndidapeza mpumulo. Sindinkafunika kuda nkhawa kuti ndipeze bwenzi loyenera kukwatira, kukonzekera ukwati, kulemba malonjezo abwino, kapena kubweretsa abale osiyanasiyana m'malo ovuta.
Chofunika koposa, sindinadzivutitse ndekha ngati sindinakwatire konse. Anandipatsa chiphaso chaulere kuti ndipewe zinthu zambiri zomwe zingakhale zovuta chifukwa sindinkawonedwa ngati wofanana pamaso pa boma.
Tsopano zonsezi zasintha.
Panopa ndili pachibwenzi ndi mnyamata wodabwitsa ndipo tikukwatirana ku Maui mwezi wa Okutobala. Tsopano ukwati uli patebulopo, wakakamizidwa anthu mamiliyoni ambiri, kuphatikiza inenso, kuti aunike zomwe zikutanthauza kukwatira ngati munthu wa LGBT, komanso momwe mungayendere malire atsopanowa.
Pamapeto pake ndidaganiza zokwatiwa ngakhale ndimakhala ndi malingaliro oyamba chifukwa ndimafuna kumvetsetsa za mwayi woti ndiwoneke ngati ofanana pamaso pa malamulo, ndikuwonetsa kudzipereka kwanga kuubwenzi wachikondi ndi mnzanga, pomwe ndimagawana chisangalalo ndi anzanga ndi banja. Ndinkafunanso kupezerapo mwayi pa maufulu ena okwatirana ngati ndikufuna, monga misonkho kapena ufulu woyendera zipatala.
Chimodzi mwamavuto omwe anthu omwe ali ndi LGBT amakhala nawo akakhala pachibwenzi amakhala kuti akukakamizidwa kuti azitsatira miyambo ina yomwe kale idali yokhazikitsidwa ndi ukwati
Ndikofunikira kuti munthu amene amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha akwatire kuti azidziyang'anira nokha kuti awonetsetse kuti ukwati wanu womwe ukubwera umamveredwa bwino. Chifukwa chinali chikhalidwe kutumiza makalata oyitanira anthu, sizitanthauza kuti muyenera kutero. Chibwenzi changa ndi ine timatumiza maimelo amaimelo ndikupita ku "digito", chifukwa ndi ambiri. Tidaganiziranso kukonzekera chakudya chamadzulo pagombe pambuyo pa mwambo wawung'ono wakutsogolo panyanja, osavina kapena DJ pambuyo pake, popeza tonsefe ndife omvera. Kusunga ukwati wanu ngati wowona mtima momwe mungathere ndichofunikira. Ngati simukukonda kuvala mphete pa chala chanu chakumanzere, musamavale! Monga amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, takhala tikukondwerera kudzipatula kwathu komanso kwathu kwathu padziko lapansi. Kupeza njira yosungira izi kudzera muukwati wanu komanso ukwati ndikofunikira kwambiri.
Vuto lina lomwe okwatirana amakumana nalo akakwatirana ndikugawana udindo
M'mabanja achikhalidwe amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, nthawi zambiri amakhala banja la mkwatibwi omwe amalipira ndikukonzekera ukwatiwo. Muukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, pakhoza kukhala akwatibwi awiri, kapena palibe konse. Ndikofunikira kwambiri kulumikizana ndi wokondedwa wanu momwe mungathere pochita zonsezi. Kufunsa mafunso okhudza zomwe zimakukondweretsani nonse, komanso amene ati achite ntchito ziti, zitha kuthandiza kuchepetsa nkhawa. Mnzanga akuchita zambiri pakukonzekera chakudya chamadzulo, ndipo ndikuchita zinthu monga kupanga tsamba lathu laukwati. Munthu aliyense ayenera kusankha zomwe angachite bwino, ndikukambirana pazakukonzekera.
Cholinga china chachikulu musanakwatirane ndikulankhula ndi wokondedwa wanu pazinthu zilizonse zomwe mukuganiza kuti zitha kubwera m'banja mwanu
Monga amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, nthawi zambiri timachitidwa ngati ochepera nthawi ina m'miyoyo yathu. . Izi ndizowona pakuphatikizanso m'banja, ndipo kulumikizana mwamphamvu ndikofunikira pofotokozera momwe zimawonekera. Kodi zikutanthauza chiyani kwa aliyense wa inu kuti mukupanga lonjezo laukwati? Kodi kudzipereka kumatanthauza kukhala ndi chidwi ndi inu nokha, kumaphatikizaponso kukhala ndi mkazi mmodzi, kapena mumawona bwanji banja? Pamapeto pake, banja lililonse limatha kukhala losiyana, ndipo zomwe zimatanthauza kukhala wokwatirana zitha kukhala zosiyana. Ndikofunika kuti zokambirana izi zikhale patsogolo.
Pomaliza, kulowa m'banja ngati munthu wa LGBT, kuyeneranso kuthana ndi manyazi amkati omwe amabwera mukakwatirana.
Kwa nthawi yayitali, anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amachitidwa ngati ocheperako, chifukwa chake nthawi zambiri timakhala ndikudzimva kuti sitikwanira. Osadzigulitsa wekha pankhani yaukwati wanu. Ngati pali china chake chomwe mumamvako bwino, onetsetsani kuti mwamva kwa inu ndi okondedwa anu. Tsiku lanu laukwati liyenera kukhala lapadera. Ngati muwona kuti mukumverera kuti mukubweza, yesani kuzizindikira ndikuzindikira. Kuwona othandizira kungathandizenso kwambiri.