Zamkati
- 1. Khalani okoma mtima
- 2. Pezani nthawi yocheza
- 3. Pangani kukhudza kosagonana kofunika kwambiri
- 4. Imani ndi wokondedwa wanu
- 5. Dzisamalire wekha
- 6. Onetsani kuyamika wina ndi mnzake
O, lingakhale dziko labwino bwanji ngati tonsefe titha kusangalala momasuka komanso mwathanzi ndi zodabwitsa zakukondana kwambiri m'banja. Maukwati athu amakhala osangalatsa komanso olimba, timakhala tikuyenda ndi kasupe woyenda, ndipo tonse timamva kuti timakondedwa komanso kuthandizidwa.
Tsoka ilo, malingaliro oterewa amasungidwa kwa ochepa, ndipo nthawi zina amatha. Monga momwe banja limafunira khama komanso khama kuti mukhale olimba komanso amatsenga, momwemonso kukondana kwakuthupi m'banja.
Chifukwa chake kukuthandizani kuti mukhale ndiubwenzi wapamtima, tapanga mndandanda wa malangizo abwino kwambiri osungirana banja.
1. Khalani okoma mtima
Ndikosavuta kwambiri mukamakumana ndi zovuta tsiku ndi tsiku kuiwala kukhala okoma mtima komanso okonda Mwamuna kapena Mkazi wanu. Nthawi zina timapereka mphamvu kwa okwatirana, osazindikira ngakhale pang'ono kuti tikuchita izi ndipo ndiye njira yofulumira yopangira mtunda muukwati!
Mukamayesetsa kuchitira zabwino mnzanu, ndiye kuti mukudzikumbutsa kuti muziwakonda komanso kuwathokoza. Ndipo mukakhala achikondi komanso okoma mtima, ndipo mumakondana ndi mnzanu mumakhala ndi malo osaneneka oti chibwenzi chikule kwambiri tsiku lililonse.
2. Pezani nthawi yocheza
Kung'ung'udza mwachangu pakati pa mapepala musanamalize kugwira ntchito yolemetsa tsiku lanu kumatha kukhala tikiti nthawi zina, koma ngati ikhala chizolowezi, malingaliro okondana m'banja mwanu atha kupita kolakwika. Ndipo musanadziwe, kung'ung'udza kumeneku kumakhala ntchito (ndipo ndani akufuna zimenezo?!).
Khalani ndi nthawi yocheza wina ndi mnzake, ngakhale zitakhala za maola ochepa tsiku limodzi pa sabata. Pangani nthawi imeneyo kukhala yopatulika ndikudzipereka kuti muganizirane pa nthawiyo. Gwiranani manja, yang'anani m'maso mwawo, sangalalani. Kuti lingaliro lakukondana m'banja likhalebe lamphamvu mwa inu.
3. Pangani kukhudza kosagonana kofunika kwambiri
Kukhudza kuli ndi njira yolankhulirana muubwenzi. Itha kukulitsa kukondana, kapena itha kupanga mtunda (ngati palibe kusowa kwachikondi). Yesetsani kugwiranagwirana mwachikondi, ndipo mutengera ubale wanu mwachangu komanso mosavuta.
Sizitenga nthawi yochuluka komanso kuyesetsa kumpsompsona wokondedwa wanu pamutu, kuwakumbatira, kugwirana manja, kapena kuyang'anitsitsa m'maso mwawo. Ngakhale kupanikizika paphewa kwa mnzanu pomwe m'modzi wa inu akukumana ndi zovuta kumakhala kolimbikitsa komanso kosangalatsa.
Tengani nthawi kuti muphatikize mawu ocheperako m'banja lanu. Cuddle musanagone, khalani pafupi limodzi, gwiranani ndi kupitilizabe. Kugonana kosagonana kumalimbitsa chidziwitso chakukondana m'banja chifukwa kumapereka chikondi chosalimbikitsa mawu komanso chitsimikizo. Ndipo chinthu chabwino kwambiri ndikuti zitha kuchitika masiku otanganidwa kwambiri!
4. Imani ndi wokondedwa wanu
Yamikani mnzanu pamaso pa ena, ndipo khalani ndi nsana wawo nthawi zonse. Ngati simukugwirizana ndi zomwe anena kapena kuchita, kambiranani zachinsinsi ndipo musagawana zaubwenzi wanu, kapena zinsinsi za mnzanu ndi aliyense. Pomwe zingatheke musakambirane za ubale wanu wapamtima ndi ena, sungani izi kukhala zopatulika ndikupangitsa mnzanu kukhala wopatulika. Izi zipangitsa kuti ubale wanu ndi kukhulupirirana kukwere kwambiri, ndipo kulimba mtima kwa kukhulupirirana ndi kukhulupirirana mosakayikira kumalimbikitsa ubale wapakati panu.
5. Dzisamalire wekha
Kumbukirani kuyesetsa komwe mudachita mukangoyamba kumene kuchita zibwenzi ndi mnzanu? Munatenga bwanji nthawi yosamalira zosowa zanu? Momwe mudasankhira mosamala zovala, ndi momwe mumawonetsera nthawi zonse kuti mumavala mafuta onunkhira kapena mafuta onunkhira?
Khama limeneli silinaphule kanthu; zinapanga kusiyana.
Sitikutanthauza kuti mumatha maola ambiri mukudzipangitsa kuti muwoneke ndikununkhira modabwitsa kwa Mwamuna kapena Mkazi Wanu, koma tikukupemphani kuti musamalire. Ndipo mumalola wokondedwa wanu kukuwonani mukuwoneka ndikumva bwino pafupipafupi, ngakhale sikuli nthawi yonseyi. Zisungitsa mzimu ndi zokopa kukhala zogwirizana muukwati wanu ndipo zithandizira kuti mukhale ndiubwenzi wolimba m'banja lanu.
6. Onetsani kuyamika wina ndi mnzake
Tikudziwa kuti ndikosavuta kunyalanyaza wina ndi mnzake, makamaka patatha zaka zambiri tili m'banja, ntchito zotanganidwa, ndi ana ochepa. Koma ndikofunikira kukumbukira kuti mupeze kuyamikirana wina ndi mnzake komanso ubale wanu komanso moyo wanu limodzi.
Mukakhala othokoza chifukwa cha china chake, simukufuna kudziyika pachiwopsezo, ndipo mukakhala munthu amene mumamuthokoza, chikondi ndi ma vibes abwino azitha ngakhale osalankhula. Ndipo polankhula za kulumikizana kosanenedwa, kuyamikiraku kudzawonjezera kukondana kwakuthupi m'banja lanu ngati loto!