Zamkati
- Zotsatira zalamulo zokhalira limodzi banja litatha
- Zovuta zakukhalira limodzi banja litatha
- Kubwereranso limodzi ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wakale
Si zachilendo kuti anthu osudzulana aganizirenso chisankho chawo ndikuyanjananso. Nthawi zina, anthu okwatirana angasankhe kukhalira limodzi banja litatha. Mabanja awa, omwe banja lawo latha koma akukhalira limodzi, onse amagawana udindo wololera ana awo kunja kwa banja lawo. Nthawi zambiri pamakhala mafunso onena zakuti ngati pali vuto lililonse lokhalira limodzi pambuyo pa chisudzulo ngati awiriwa akukonzekera kukhala limodzi atasudzulana.
Choyamba, nkofunika kunena kuti si zachilendo kuti anthu osudzulana asankhe kuyamba kukhalira limodzi banja litatha pazifukwa zingapo, kuphatikizapo kuchepetsa kusokonekera kwa miyoyo ya ana a banjali kapena mavuto azachuma omwe angaletse banja kusamuka paokha. Zikatero, banja lingasankhe kupitiliza kugawana ndalama, ndipo ngati ali ndi ana limodzi, agawane ntchito yolera ana.
Zotsatira zalamulo zokhalira limodzi banja litatha
Malamulo osudzulana samadziwika bwino pankhaniyi. Koma, mafunso azamalamulo atha kubuka ngati banjali lili ndi ana omwe amafuna kuti m'modzi azilipira ndalama kwa kholo linalo kapena ngati khothi lidalamula kuti yemwe adakwatirana naye azilipira ndalama kwa mnzake. Banja losudzulana likasankha kuyamba kukhalira limodzi pambuyo pa chisudzulo, udindo wothandiziranawo ungasinthidwe kuti uwonetsere kuti amene akulipira thandizo kapena alimony amakhala ndi wolandirayo ndikuchepetsa ndalama zake.
Poterepa, thandizo lililonse kapena maudindo a alimony atha kuchepetsedwa kapena kuthetsedwa ndikufunsana ndi loya wodziwa zamalipiro. Komabe, izi zingafune kuti m'modzi mwa omwe ali ndi chidwi kupempha khotilo kuti lichepetse zomwe akukakamizidwa
Kupatula zomwe zimakhudzana ndi chithandizo cha ana komanso chisamaliro cha ana, monganso banja lomwe banja latha lili ndi ufulu wokhala ndi aliyense amene angafune, atha kukhalanso limodzi. Kukhalira limodzi banja litatha ndi chinthu chovomerezeka chomwe angapange. Ndipo pali maanja omwe akusudzulana koma amakhala limodzi mosangalala.
Funso lokhalo lomwe lingakhalepo limakhudza zochitika zomwe banja limatha pambuyo pa chisudzulo ndipo awiriwo amakakamizidwa kuyanjanitsa nkhani zachuma kapena kuganiziranso ndandanda zoyendera ana popeza kholo limodzi silikhalanso pakhomo. Poterepa, ngati maphwando alephera kuthetsa mikangano iliyonse, khothi liyenera kuchitapo kanthu kuti lithe kuthana ndi mavuto a ana atatha banja.
Woyimira milandu wosudzulana atha kukuthandizani mukaganiza zokhalira limodzi banja litatha, ndikofunikira kusunga munthu waluso popereka upangiri pazinthu zomwe zingachitike banja litatha.
Njira zoperekera misonkho nthawi yosudzulana komanso kupereka misonkho pambuyo pa chisudzulo ndichinthu chinanso chomwe muyenera kudziwa. Kukhala ndi mwamuna wakale mutasudzulana sizitanthauza kuti mudzatha kupereka misonkho momwe mumakhalira muukwati.
Zovuta zakukhalira limodzi banja litatha
Kodi mutha kukhalira limodzi banja litatha?
Kusudzulana, koma kukhalabe limodzi ndi njira yachilendo. Chomwe chimapangitsa kukhala kosavomerezeka kwambiri ndikuti, kusudzulana ndikukhala m'nyumba yomwe mumakhala ngati banja. Chilichonse ndichofanana, kupatula kuti mwasudzulana. Mukakhala okwatirana komanso kupatukana, kusunga ubale pakati pa banja litatha ndi banja lanu, mabanja awo ndi abwenzi zimakhala zovuta kwambiri. Kukhala bwenzi ndi wakale kumakhala kovuta, tsopano taganizirani kukhala ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wakale ndikukhala abwenzi! Izi zisokoneza komanso kutopetsa.
Kusudzulana ndi ana ndizovuta kwambiri. Zimakhala choncho mukamatha banja koma mukukhalabe limodzi ndi mnzanu wakale! Ganizirani momwe mungakonzekererere mwana wanu chisudzulo, pomwe azakuwonani mukukhalira limodzi ndikulumikizana monga mudakwatirana. Zikhala zovuta kuti amvetsetse zomwe zikuchitika.
Makonzedwe okhalira limodzi atha kubwereranso pambuyo pa chisudzulo kapena kuti m'modzi wa inu adzachoka pakapita nthawi pamene mkwiyo udzagwere kwambiri pa inu.
Kubwereranso limodzi ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wakale
Ngati mukuganiza zakubwerera pambuyo pa chisudzulo, ziwerengero ndizokhumudwitsa. Ndi 6 peresenti yokha ya anthu onse omwe amathetsa banja omwe amakwatiranso ndi munthu yemweyo. Komabe, osachepera 6 peresenti ya anthu adakwatirananso ndi akazi awo osudzulidwa, chifukwa chake ngati mungaganize zotero, simukhala woyamba.
Ngati mukufuna kupeza mayankho amafunso onena momwe mungaletsere chisudzulo kapena kuchisintha, sichotheka. Mutasudzulana, simungathe kuzisintha. Ngakhale mutafuna kuyanjananso ndi mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu wakale, muyenera kukwatiranso.
Koma ngati mupanga malingaliro anu, mukakhala limodzi banja litatha, mukufuna kuti mubwererenso, ndiye kuti mutha kuwerenga pamitu yonga- momwe mungabwezeretse mkazi wanu wakale banja litatha komanso malangizo oti muyanjanenso pambuyo pa chisudzulo kuti muthandizidwe.