Malangizo 15 Othandizira Kuthana Ndi Maulendo Akutali Ndi Kukangana

Zamkati

• Zifukwa zakumenya maubwenzi akutali
• Malangizo 15 othetsera kulimbana kwa ubale wamtunda wautali
• 1. Dziwani zoyenera kukambirana
• 2. Gwiranani manja
• 3. Pezani njira yothetsera mavuto
• 4. Mverani
• 5. Njira Yosagwirizana
• 6. Lembani zolemba zachikondi
• 7. Khalani otakataka
• 8. Sankhani nthawi yoyenera yokambirana mavuto
• 9. Sungani zolemba zanu
• 10. Tumizani tchati chamavuto ndi mayankho
• 11. Yesetsani kumvera ena chisoni
• 12. Sungani mfundo zofunika pafupi
• 13. Pewani kusagwirizana
• 14. Muzicheza limodzi
• 15. Kondwerani zochitika zofunika
• Tengera kwina

Ambiri aife sitingasankhe kuti tidzagwa naye liti, pati, motani, komanso ndi ndani. Ndipo nthawi zambiri timadabwa!

Mwachitsanzo, mutha kuyamba kukondana ndi wachikulire kapena wamkulu kuposa momwe mumayembekezera. Kapena, mumadabwitsidwa kuti mwakumana ndi munthu amene amakhala pafupi nanu pa ndege-ndipo amene adadzakhala wanzeru kwa inu!

Maubwenzi onse ali ndi zovuta zapadera, ndipo chimodzi mwazovuta kwambiri pachibwenzi ndi chimodzi chomwe ndi mtunda wautali. Komabe, kwa mabanja ena, maulendo akutali amayenera malingaliro awo ndi ntchito amafunikira bwino.

Mwachitsanzo, kwa maanja omwe munthu aliyense amayenera kupita pafupipafupi kukagwira ntchito ndipo pamene akukhala limodzi ndizosatheka, ubale wapakati ndi njira yawo yokhayo yokhala banja.

Zifukwa zakumenya maubwenzi akutali

Imodzi mwazinthu zovuta kwambiri pamaubwenzi akutali ndikulimbana ndi ndewu komanso mikangano. Mabanja onse amakhala ndi kusagwirizana, koma maanja a LDR nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi mavuto akulu azibwenzi.

Ndichoncho chifukwa chiyani? Ayenera kuthana ndi izi:

• Kulephera kugwirana manja pokambirana nkhani zovuta
• Kulephera "Kupsompsona ndi Kupanga" munthawi yake
• Kusakhoza kuwerengetsa chilankhulo cha wina ndi mzake mokwanira komanso molondola
• Kusakhala ndi nthawi yokwanira kapena yoyenera pakadali pano yoti tikambirane.

Zowonjezerapo mavuto, mitu ina ndi yovuta kuyisamalira muubwenzi wamtunda wautali chifukwa mumakhala ndi nthawi yantchito yosiyana, mumakhala munthawi zosiyanasiyana, simungathe kuthana ndi mavuto omwe amakukhudzani nonse awiri, ndipo osatero khalani ndi zikalata zonse, makalata, ndi mapepala ena omwe mukufuna.

Mitu yankhani yotentha ndi monga:

• Kuchotsa mabilu pazolakwika pamakadi anu a kirediti kadi
• Sitikufuna kapena kusungitsa njira yotsatira yandege kapena njanji kuti tiwonane
• Kulephera kukonzekera kapena kupita kumisonkhano yofunikira ya mabanja ndi abwenzi limodzi
• Osagwirizana pazomwe mukufuna kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu yamtengo wapatali limodzi
• Kusakhala ndi nthawi yokwanira kapena yabwino kuthana ndi m'modzi wa inu akudwala kapena kusowa upangiri.

Malangizo 15 othetsera kulimbana kwa ubale wamtunda wautali

Ndiye, mungatani kuti mukhale achimwemwe limodzi? Kodi mungatani kuti muthandize kumenya nkhondo zautali?

Nawa maupangiri oyesedwa kuti muthane ndi ubale wautali.

Mwina simusowa malingaliro onsewa, ndipo mungafunikenso kuwasintha kuti agwirizane ndi vuto lanu. Ndi maupangiri awa pakumenya ubale wakutali, popita nthawi, mudzakhala othetsa mavuto komanso othandizana nawo!

1. Dziwani zoyenera kukambirana

Momwe mungathetsere mikangano mu chibwenzi?

Poyamba, lembani mndandanda wazinthu zofunika kuzikambirana pamasom'pamaso.

Pali zinthu zambiri zomwe sizingakumbukire mukakumana pamasom'pamaso. Ndibwino kuti muzisunga mndandanda kuti musayiwale zinthu zofunika mukakumana nawo patapita nthawi yayitali.

2. Gwiranani manja

Makamaka mukakhala limodzi ndipo mukuasemphana, nthawi zonse gwiranani manja kapena kukumbatirana. Inu nonse mukhala mukukumana pakapita nthawi yayitali. Sitiyenera kukhala malo aliwonse okangana.

3. Pezani njira yothetsera mavuto

POPANDA kudandaula popanda kupereka yankho!

Mikangano siimatha. Ndipo kumenyera maubale akutali kumatha kukhala kovuta chifukwa nonse simuli pafupi.

Chifukwa chake, m'malo mongoyang'ana pamavuto ndikusewera pamasewera olakwika, samalani ndewu zaubwenzi wamtali pofunafuna yankho.

4. Mverani

Imodzi mwamaupangiri okangana paubwenzi ndikumvera mnzanu popanda zosokoneza zilizonse. Kulankhulana sikutanthauza kungolankhula ndi kufotokoza mbali yanu pankhaniyo. Zimatanthauzanso kuchita luso lakumvetsera.

Chifukwa chake, mverani, mvetsetsani ndikumvera chisoni.

5. Njira Yosagwirizana

M'malo mongomuneneza kapena kumuneneza mnzanu pamene mukuyesera kuthetsa vuto, yesani Njira Yosagwirizanitsayi kuti muthane ndi zibwenzi zazitali m'malo mofotokozera kapena kutsutsana pazomwe mukugwirizana.

Lankhulani za momwe mumamvera ndi nkhani zanu ngati kuti ndinu mnzanu. Lankhulani mwa munthu woyamba pogwiritsa ntchito mawu oti "I." Njira imeneyi imayamba kukhala yovuta poyamba, koma mumvetsetsa za mnzanu-komanso yankho labwino.

6. Lembani zolemba zachikondi

Musalole kuti tsiku lidutse osatumiza zolemba zachikondi kapena imodzi mwazithunzi zapadera kwa mnzanu. Cholemba chanu chitha kukhala chachidule.

Mwachitsanzo, mutha kulemba zinthu monga:

• Ndikudziwa kuti muchita bwino pazokambirana zanu!

• Ndakusowa ndikuganiza za iwe m'mawa ndi chinthu chomaliza usiku.

• Ndimakonda kukhala nanu. Ndipo mukapanikizika, ingoganizirani za nthawi yapadera ija yomwe tidakhala limodzi!

• Nachi chithunzi changa mu chovala changa chatsopano (kapena chomwe mudandigulira.)

• Nazi zina mwazinthu zapadera zomwe ndimakonda za inu!

Izi zithandizanso kukukumbutsani za mwayi womwe muli nawo limodzi.

7. Khalani otakataka

Musalole zinthu kukula. Yesetsani kudziwa chifukwa chake inu ndi mnzanu mudachitapo izi.

Gwirizanani kuti mukakhala limodzi, mukambirana mfundo zazikuluzikulu.

Ngati ndi kotheka, kambiranani nawo mukakhala ku cafe kapena paki yomwe mumakonda kapena malo ena aliwonse ofunika kwa inu. Kulankhula m'malo omwe mumakhala mwina sikungakutetezeni kuti mukhale oyenera.

8. Sankhani nthawi yoyenera yokambirana mavuto

Pazolimbana zonse zakutali, osayesa kuthetsa mitu yovuta pamene wina wa inu watopa, watha tsiku lovuta, kapena muli ndi ntchito yoti muchite.

Ngati mukulimbana kwambiri mu chibwenzi, khalani anzeru kuyimbira foni kapena kutumizirana mameseji ndi kukambirana za vutolo pamene nonse mumakhala odekha komanso mwamtendere.

9. Sungani zolemba zanu

Kulemba nkhani ndi njira yabwino yokuthandizani kuganizira za inu nokha ndi ubale wanu.

Phatikizani chilichonse kapena zotsatirazi:

Chifukwa chiyani sindinachite bwino kapena ndimakwiya kwambiri?

Ndichifukwa chiyani ndikuganiza wokondedwa wanga adathetsa vutoli momwe amachitira?

Kodi ndinganene chiyani ngati njira yabwinoko?

10. Tumizani tchati chamavuto ndi mayankho

Pangani yankho limodzi mwachangu-m'malo mokhala ndi mikangano yampikisano.

Pangani tchati pazovuta kwambiri zomwe muyenera kukambirana. Lembani malingaliro anu, zifukwa zanu, ndi mayankho anu. Afotokozereni osakwiya kapena kumuneneza wokondedwa wanu.

M'malo molimbana ndi lemba, mutha kusankha kukambirana kapena kutumiza mnzanu malingaliro anu.

11. Yesetsani kumvera ena chisoni

Dzikhululukireni nokha ndi mnzanu pazolakwika.

Ngati muli ndi nkhani yoti mukambirane, ganizirani momwe mnzanuyo angayankhire. Ndi "mabatani" ati omwe angakankhidwe mwa mnzanu?.

Gwiritsani ntchito ndewu za ubale wautali pokhazikitsa dongosolo lamomwe mungathetsere "mabatani" awa mokoma mtima komanso momvetsetsa.

Onani kanemayo wolemba Mary Jo Rapini momwe mungalimbikitsire wokondedwa wanu powonetsa kumvera ena chisoni:

12. Sungani mfundo zofunika pafupi

Onetsetsani kuti muli ndi chidziwitso chofunikira cha wina ndi mnzake, monga manambala azachitetezo cha anthu, maakaunti aku banki omwe agawana, ndi nambala zafoni za abwenzi apamtima, ana, banja, abwana ndi ogwira nawo ntchito, maloya, asing'anga, ndi ena onse omwe mungalumikizane nawo.

Chomaliza chomwe mukufuna kuchita ndikukumana ndi vuto lomwe simukudziwa choti muchite.

13. Pewani kusagwirizana

Kusamvana ndikwabwino, koma zochulukazo zimangotanthauza kuti chibwenzicho chitha kukhala chowopsa. Komabe, izi zitha kuwongoleredwa ndikungokambirana nkhani modekha.

Mfundo yofunika: Musayambitse nthawi yanu pamodzi ndi kusagwirizana, ndipo musamalize kukambirana ndi kusagwirizana.

14. Muzicheza limodzi

Pali mapulogalamu ndi mawebusayiti ambiri omwe angakupatseni mwayi wosewera makanema kapena nyimbo zenizeni nthawi yomweyo, monga momwe mungakhalire mukadakhala nonse limodzi.

Mukakhala limodzi nthawi yabwino, mutha kuthana ndi maubwenzi ambiri akutali. Chifukwa chake, penyani zotulutsidwa zaposachedwa kapena kugunda kwapadera "palimodzi" mukakhala nanu mosavuta.

15. Kondwerani zochitika zofunika

Pangani “nthawi yakunyumba” limodzi mukakhala limodzi komanso mukasiyana. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kuyimba makulitsidwe kuti musangalale ndi banja lanu. Chakuti nonsenu ndinu otalikirana sikuyenera kukhala chifukwa chokhalira ndi chikondwerero chadothi.

Izi zidzangowunjikira ndikutsutsana.

Tengera kwina

Kodi sizachilendo kumenya nkhondo mtunda wautali tsiku lililonse muubwenzi? Pakhoza kukhala masiku oti nkhondo zanu zazitali zitha kukhala zovuta kuposa masiku ena. Komabe, ngati zakhala zikuchitika muubwenzi wanu wonse, izi zikuyenera kuwongoleredwa.

Kumbukirani kuti kusamvana, kusamvana, ndi zolakwa zimachitika mu banja lonse. Chifukwa chake, kumbukirani kutsatira malangizo omwe atchulidwawa omenya nkhondo zakutali.