Zamkati
- Chikondi ndi ntchito yamkati
- Luso ndi matsenga opanga chikondi
- “Masewera Olimbitsa Thupi”
- Lembani mndandanda wazinthu khumi zomwe mumakonda za munthuyu kapena momwe zimakhalira
- Kodi mumatha kumva kuti "mukuyamikira" kapena mwina chikondi?
- Lembani mndandanda wazinthu zosachepera 10 zomwe mumakonda za inu
- Zomwe timayang'ana zikukula
Ambiri aife tikulakalaka kukhala ndi chikondi chochuluka m'miyoyo yathu, kaya tili ndi mnzathu kapena okondedwa athu omwe ali pafupi nafe, kapena ayi.
Nthawi zina timatha kukhala ndi anthu pafupi nafe, komabe osamva kuti Chikondi chikuyenda pakati pathu.
Ndipo, nthawi zina titha kukhala ndi chikhulupiliro mu Mphamvu Yapamwamba yamtundu winawake motero timadziwa kuti ndife oyenera kukhala achikondi, komabe timavutikabe kumva kulumikizana ndikukondedwa kwambiri mwanjira yotisamalirira.
Kaya tikudziwa, kapena ayi, mavuto athu ambiri ndikumverera kuti china chake sichili cholondola pamoyo wathu chimakhudzana ndi chikondi - ndimomwe timadzikondera tokha ndikudzivomereza tokha komanso momwe timamvera kulumikizidwa, kukondedwa ndi kukonda anthu ena.
Ngati tikusowa chikondi titha kumva ngati tili kutali, kapena ngati sitili, kapena, titha kudwala mavuto akulu akulu amisala, malingaliro ndi thupi monga kukhumudwa, nkhawa, zosokoneza bongo ndi matenda ena. Ndiye yankho lingakhale lotani?
Chikondi ndi ntchito yamkati
Timakonda kuganiza kuti chikondi ndichinthu chomwe chimachokera kunja kwa ife, chifukwa pomwe tidali makanda ang'onoang'ono, tinkapeza mphamvu zamtundu uliwonse, makamaka mphamvu ya chikondi - kapena, tidazindikira kuti palibe.
Tidakali ochepa kwambiri komanso opanda thandizo, kaya chikondi chimasinthidwa kwa ife kuchokera kwa akulu omwe adatizungulira zidasintha kwambiri momwe timadzimvera tokha, ndikukhala mu Moyo wamba.
Tinalibe mphamvu zambiri panthawiyo, chifukwa chake timakhulupirira kuti tilibe mphamvu pazochuluka za chikondi chomwe tili nacho m'miyoyo yathu, ngakhale tili akulu. Timakonda kuganiza kuti kuchuluka kwa chikondi chomwe tili nacho m'miyoyo yathu chimatengera ngati tili ndi mwayi "wopeza", ngati makanema achikondi, kapena zomwe anthu ena amachita kapena samachita.
Koma sizili choncho. Titha kuphunzira kukonda ndikuwonjezera mphamvu za chikondi m'miyoyo yathu, kuyambira ngakhale mphindi ino. M'malo mongokhala chabe zomwe "timalandira" kuchokera kwa anthu ena, tili ndi mphamvu yodzipangira tokha chikondi, chifukwa chake timakulitsa kupezeka m'miyoyo yathu.
Ndipo - kuchuluka kwa chikondi chomwe titha kulandira kuchokera kwa anthu ena kumadalira kwambiri momwe tingamverere ndikudzipangira tokha; Ichi ndichifukwa chake tiyenera kuchita mitundu yonse yachikondi - kwa ena komanso zochitika mmoyo wathu, komanso, koposa zonse, kwa ife eni.
Luso ndi matsenga opanga chikondi
Dziganizireni kuti ndinu waluso komanso Wamatsenga, yemwe akuphunzira luso latsopano komanso matsenga atsopano - luso ndi matsenga opanga chikondi!
Zimatenga kanthawi pang'ono, koma ndikutsimikiza kuti ngati mupatula mphindi zochepa chabe zanthawi yanu ndikuyang'ana tsiku lililonse, mudzawona zotsatira mwachangu kwambiri.
Ndizowona kuti nthawi zambiri timafunikira njira zambiri zotithandizira kuchira tikakhala ndi mavuto akulu okhudzana ndi kusowa chikondi, ndipo ndikofunikira kuphunzira kufikira ndikupempha thandizo, tikakhala ndi zowawa zambiri .
Titha kuchira mwa kuphatikiza kosintha momwe tikumvera mkati, ndikuchitapo kanthu "kunja", mwachitsanzo pakupeza chithandizo cha akatswiri ndikulankhula ndi ena omwe angatithandizire kudziwa zomwe zikuchitika, pophunzira njira zatsopano zosamalira tokha kudzera zolimbitsa thupi ndi zakudya, etc.
Ndipo tikhozanso kuchita zinthu zina zazing'ono patokha zomwe zingatithandize kuyamba kumva bwino ndikukhala ndi mphamvu zambiri pakufunafuna moyo wachimwemwe, wokhutiritsa, komanso wodzala ndi chikondi.
Ndimayitanitsa "masewera" ang'ono awa ndikuchita "Love Magic", ndipo ndine wokondwa kukhala ndi mwayi wogawana nanu pano ku marriage.com!
Yoyamba yomwe ndikuwonetseni ingawoneke ngati yosavuta, ndipo mwina mungadabwe kuti ingathandizire bwanji, koma ndikukulimbikitsani kuti muyese, ndikuwona zomwe zikuchitika!
Zimafunikira "ntchito" pang'ono, ndipo ngati mukumva kuwawa kwambiri ndikulimbikitsaninso kuti mupeze chithandizo chonse chomwe mungafune kuti muthandizire kufuna kwanu kuchira ndikumva bwino.
Koma "masewera" osavuta omwe ndikhala ndikugawana nawo pano atha kuthandizanso, ndipo, popeza safuna chilichonse kupatula nthawi yanu ndi chidwi chanu, mutha kuzichita kulikonse, nthawi iliyonse, ndipo ali mfulu kwathunthu!
Chifukwa chake - tiyeni tichite choyamba ichi, kuti ndikudziwa kuti mukonda!
“Masewera Olimbitsa Thupi”
Pezani cholembera ndi pepala (kapena bwinobe, pezani kope lapadera lomwe mungapereke pazochita zanu za "Love Magic").
Lembani mndandanda wa maubale kapena zochitika zomwe zikukupweteketsani mtima ndikukhumudwitsidwa, pomwe mukuwona kuti kusowa chikondi, komanso komwe mungafune kuti pakhale zambiri.
Mukakhala ndi mndandanda wanu, sankhani yemwe kapena zomwe mukufuna kuyang'ana poyamba.
Sankhani anthu m'modzi kapena awiri kapena nthawi iliyonse yomwe mungakhale "kusewera" masewerawa.
Mukakhala okonzeka ndikusankha munthuyo kapena mkhalidwe womwe mungafune kubweretsa Chikondi.
Lembani mndandanda wazinthu khumi zomwe mumakonda za munthuyu kapena momwe zimakhalira
Sakuyenera kukhala zinthu "zazikulu".
Ngati mukuganiza za munthu, mutha kulingalira zazing'ono monga:
Ndimakonda momwe Joe amamwetulira akakhala wosangalala.
kapena
Ndimakonda mtundu wa tsitsi la Louise.
Ngati mukulemba za momwe zimakhalira komwe mumakhala, kapena ntchito yanu yovuta, mutha kulemba:
Ndimakonda momwe dzuwa limayendera pazenera.
kapena
Ndikuyamikira kuti ntchito yomwe ndili nayo pano yandilola kuti ndizitha kudzisamalira.
Chofunikira ndikuti mulembe zinthu zomwe MUKUDZIKHULUPIRIRA kapena kuziyamikira za munthuyo kapena mkhalidwe womwe mwasankha kuuwona.
Simungathe kunamizira "masewera" awa .... ndipo, phindu lake pakuchita izi ndikuti zikuthandizani kudziwa zomwe mumakonda, komanso zomwe simumakonda!
Ambiri aife sitikudziwa kwenikweni zomwe timasangalala nazo m'miyoyo yathu, zomwe timakhulupirira, zomwe tikufuna ....
Masewera ochepawa ndi njira yamphamvu yoyambira kudzifotokozera tokha za zomwe timawona kuti ndizofunikira kwa ife, chomwe ndi gawo loyamba.
Mukamalemba zinthu zomwe mumayamikira, onetsetsani m'maganizo mwanu munthuyo kapena momwe zinthu ziliri ndi zomwe mukuyamikira.
Yesetsani kumva zomverera m'thupi lanu mukamaganizira mbali yomwe mumakonda ndikuyamikira.
Kodi mumatha kumva kuti "mukuyamikira" kapena mwina chikondi?
Mumazimva kuti mthupi lanu? Kodi kumamva kuzizira, kapena kutentha? Kodi zimakupangitsani kumva kuti mulibe kanthu, kapena kukhuta? Mwina simumva kalikonse, koma mukukhala ndi malingaliro kapena zithunzi zina zomwe zikuyenda m'mutu mwanu?
Yesetsani kuweruza zomwe mukumva kapena "mukuwona", ingowazindikirani. Ndikukulangizani kuti mulembe mtundu wanji wazomverera zomwe muli nazo, kapena osachepera lembani malingaliro kuti mutha kuyamba kuyesa "kupanga" izi tsiku lonse.
Momwe mukumverera ndikumverera kokoma, onani ngati mungathe kukulitsa pang'ono. Ikani mphamvu pang'ono mwa iwo, ndikuwona ngati akukula. Onaninso momwe zimamvekera, inunso!
Zingamveke zachilendo poyamba kuchita izi, ndipo mwina mungadzifunse kuti "Kodi izi zipanga kusiyana kotani?!?!" koma ine ndikufuna inu mutenge mawu anga pa izi, ndi kungoyesera kuchita izo.
Mukamaliza kuzichitira munthu wina kapena vuto lina, ndikufuna kuti inunso muzichita chimodzimodzi pazinthu 10 za inu.
Lembani mndandanda wazinthu zosachepera 10 zomwe mumakonda za inu
Ndipo "mverani" njira yanu ndikuwakulitsa.
Mutha kuzindikira kuti ndizovuta kwambiri kupeza zinthu zokhudza inu zomwe mumakonda ndikuyamikira, ndipo zili bwino. Ingoyang'anirani izi, ndipo chitani zomwe mungathe.
Mukamaliza, ikani kope lanu pambali, ndikupita tsiku lanu.
Bwererani ku tsiku lotsatira, ndipo muzichita tsiku lililonse kwa milungu iwiri kapena inayi ikubwerayi. Mukadumpha tsiku limodzi kapena awiri kapena atatu, musadandaule za izi. Ingotenga ndikuchitanso.
Mwachidziwikire, ichi chikhala chizolowezi chomwe mumayamba kugwiritsa ntchito pazinthu zamtundu uliwonse m'moyo wanu, makamaka mukakhala kuti mukusokonezeka ndi china chake, kuphatikiza inunso.
Patsiku lanu, mukadzipeza mukukhala pazinthu zoyipa za inu nokha, wina, kapena zina, yesani kukumbukira zinthu zomwe mumayamikira, ndikubwezeretsanso kumverera kwa chikondi mthupi lanu ndikukulitsa.
Pamene mukuyeserera "kusewera" masewera osavuta awa, zindikirani zomwe zimachitika mkati mwanu komanso mozungulira.
Mutha kuyamba kuwona kusintha kosazindikira kwenikweni, momwe mumadzionera nokha, za Moyo wamba, komanso za anthu okuzungulirani! Muyamba kuwona kuti muli ndi mphamvu yosintha momwe mumaganizira ndikumverera, chifukwa chake mumakumana ndi moyo watsiku ndi tsiku.
Lembani zinthu zazing'ono / zazikulu zomwe zingakuwonetseni - chifukwa mukamakula mumamvekera anu ndikudzikonda nokha ndi ena, mudzawona kuti mumakopa zochulukirapo zomwe zingakupangitseni kumverera kotereku!
Zomwe timayang'ana zikukula
Ndikuyembekezera kumva kuchokera kwa inu za zomwe mwakumana nazo, ndipo fufuzani pano posachedwa kuti mupeze njira zina zotsatirazi popangira Love Magic kwa inu nokha ndi ena!