Zamkati
- 1. Kumbukirani zinthu zazing'ono
- 2. Kuyamikira sikutha mwa kalembedwe
- 3. Muzipatula nthawi yocheza ndi usiku
- 4. Musalole kuti ndewu zisokoneze madamu okhudzika
- 5. Kumbukirani kuti ndichinthu chofananira
Kumbukirani momwe mudawonera zikwangwani zoyambirira, zochenjeza pomwe anali pasukulu yapakati? Mwadzidzidzi, mwana wanu anayamba kukukunyozani pang'ono. Chidwi chawo kwa inu chinazimiririka pamene anali pakati pa chinthu chomwe amalingalira kuti chinali chofunikira kwambiri.
Zinali zitayamba.
Ulendo wokhala wachinyamata unali utayamba.
Pamene kutha msinkhu kugunda, zomwe kale zinali matumba a chisangalalo a kerubi zimasanduka mahomoni osasinthika. Pokhala ndi zolinga zabwino, inu ndi mnzanuyo mukugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zanu zonse pothandiza ana anu.
Kukhala kholo kudzapitilizabe kukhala kovuta. Munazipeza kumayambiriro.
Koma, simuyenera kuyika chidwi chanu chonse pa iwo ndikusiya wokondedwa wanu atagona. M'malo mwake, kuchita izi kumachepetsa zomwe ana awa amafunikira: makolo awiri achikondi, otchera chidwi omwe angawapatse chikondi, kuwakonda, komanso kuwalangiza mofatsa.
Nawa maupangiri 5 olimbitsira banja lanu ndi mnzanu pomwe mukulimbana ndi zovuta zakulera.
1. Kumbukirani zinthu zazing'ono
Kodi mukukumbukira mnzanuyo akutchulapo monyansidwa kuti amakonda chinthu chaching'ono koma chofunikira kwa iwo? Mwina anali switi kapena chotupitsa. Onetsetsani kuti mwasunthira iwo kutali tsiku lamvula. Mwina mukuyenda nawo pautumiki ndikuwona mwayi woti musangopatsa wokondedwa wanu mphatso yomwe angakonde, koma muwonetsanso kuti mumamumveranso.
2. Kuyamikira sikutha mwa kalembedwe
Zimatenga masekondi ochepa kuti wina azimva bwino. Pambuyo pogwira ntchito tsiku lovuta ndikulimbana ndi kusinthasintha kwamaganizidwe a mwana wanu, ndikosavuta kuti mudzipezeke m'malo otaya. Zaperekedwa kuti mnzanu akukumana ndi zovuta zomwezo.
Mphindi yosavuta yothokoza yopangitsa moyo kukhala wosavuta kutali ndikhoza kukuthandizani kulimbitsa banja lanu.
Kuyamika ndi njira ina yoti mubwererenso kuti simukulephera kuzindikira zoyesayesa za wokondedwa wanu pa tsitsi latsopano kapena chowonjezerapo posungira zovala zawo.
3. Muzipatula nthawi yocheza ndi usiku
Chikondi chimasinthika ndikukhalabe chamadzimadzi. Izi zati, nthawi zonse mumakhala nthawi yamasana ngakhale mutakhala zaka zingati. Achinyamata anu amatha kudzisamalira okha madzulo pomwe inu ndi mnzanu mumadzichitira nokha kanthu. Itha kukhala yophweka ngati chakudya chamadzulo ndi kanema, kutenga kalasi yophika yomwe nthawi zonse mumafuna kukhala limodzi, kapena kuvala bwino ndikukhala ndi tawuni usiku.
4. Musalole kuti ndewu zisokoneze madamu okhudzika
Kukumbukira kukhala wabwino kumatha kutenga khama, koma kusamugwetsa mnzako pomwe zovuta zikuvuta sizovuta kuchita. Ngati mukupeza kuti mukungokhalira kumangokhalira kuda nkhawa mnzanuyo, tengani mwayi wopita kutali ndikubwerera kumbuyo ndikutuluka kwakanthawi kovomerezeka.
5. Kumbukirani kuti ndichinthu chofananira
Dziwani kuti banja lililonse ndi mgwirizano weniweni. Chifukwa cha ichi, nonse mukhozanso kupereka limodzi phindu la 100%. Masiku ena m'modzi wa inu azitha kupita pa 70 peresenti pomwe winayo amangogwira 30.
Pa masiku ena, padzakhala kugawanika pafupifupi 50-50. Muyenera kukumbukira kuti kulankhulana ndikofunikira. Khalani okonzeka kuchita zinthu tsiku limodzi panthawi.
Ngati mutha kupitilira pomwe mnzanu amakakamizidwa nthawi zina, tengani mwayiwo kutero. Ubwino udzabwezeredwa pamzere.
Tengera kwina
Chifukwa chakuti achinyamata anu akukumana ndi mavuto komanso mavuto omwe sanakhale nawo kale, sizitanthauza kuti banja lanu liyenera kuvutika. Kusunga kulumikizana kwabwino tsiku ndi tsiku komanso kuleza mtima ndi wokondedwa wanu ndichinsinsi cha mgwirizano wolimba ndi mnzanu. Pamodzi mudzatha kuthana ndi zovuta zakulera popanda kutengera kukakamizidwa.