Zamkati
- Kugonana kwakukulu kumayamba ndi kulumikizana kwabwino
- Pewani chizolowezi
- Chiwonetsero: kutambasula
- Musaope nkhani zokopa
- Zoseweretsa: osati mtundu wa ana
- Gawani zokonda zanu
- Khalani GGG
Sitinabadwe ndi chibadwa chofuna kugonana kwambiri kuyambira pomwe timagonana. Ganizirani nthawi yoyamba yomwe mumagonana ndi mnzanu. Mwina sizinapangitse kuti dziko lapansi liziyenda pamzere wake, sichoncho? Izi ndizabwinobwino. Ngati mukuganiza zakugonana bwino ndi mkazi kapena momwe mungakhutiritsere mwamuna pabedi dziwani kuti kugonana kwakukulu kumaphunziridwa. Tiyeni tiwone momwe tingadziphunzitsire tokha, tonse tikusangalala ndi kugonana kwabwino!
Kugonana kwakukulu kumayamba ndi kulumikizana kwabwino
Omwe amagonana sangawerengere anzawo malingaliro awo kotero kuti maupangiri amomwe mungakwaniritsire mwamuna wanu ali pabedi onse amangoyankhula kwambiri. Inde! Kugawana zomwe mumakonda komanso zomwe simukuzikonda ndizofunikira kuti mnzanuyo akhale nazo kuti athe kudziwa zomwe mukufuna kuti mufike kumwamba kwachisanu ndi chiwiri cha kugonana kwabwino. Ndipo simuyenera kudikirira mpaka mutagona kuti mufotokoze zokhumba zanu ... kuyankhula zakugonana pamaphwando odyera kapena chakudya chamadzulo chitha kukhala gawo lamasewera; ndikutseguka kwenikweni, ngakhale simungakwanitse kuchita zonse zomwe mukunena nthawi yomweyo. Mukamapanga chibwenzi, musachite manyazi kuuza mnzanuyo mawu, m'malo mongomuyamikira, zomwe zimamveka bwino. "Ndimakonda mukandigwira kumeneko," kapena "o inde, pitirizani kutero," ndiwothandiza kwambiri kulumikizana ndi mnzanu zomwe mukufuna pazakugonana. Kodi akuchita zomwe simukusangalala nazo? M'malo mongosisita dzanja lake nthawi zonse ndikuganiza momwe mungakhutiritsere munthu wanu, muuzeni ndi mawu kuti: "O, mungayang'ane pang'ono apa osati apo?"
Amuna ndi akazi amasangalala kwambiri anzawo akamawauza kuti ali pafupi ndi zolaula. “Ndatsala pang'ono kufika, osayima!” Zitha kukhala zothandiza kwambiri kuti mwamunayo amve, chifukwa nthawi zina samayang'aniridwa ndi akazi momwe angakhalire (popeza zizindikirazo sizowonekera) kotero amakonda kudziwa zomwe zikuchitika (ndipo izi zimawadzutsa kwambiri ).
Pewani chizolowezi
Ngati inu ndi mnzanu mwayamba kuchita zachiwerewere, kugona usiku womwewo sabata iliyonse kapena nthawi zonse mumakhala pamalo amodzi, posakhalitsa mupeza kuti kugonana kotere kulibe vuto. Kuti mukondenso kugonana, sinthani zinthu kuti muwone momwe zimakukhutiritsirani.
Momwe mungakwaniritsire mwamuna wanu ngati amakonda kuchita zofananira mobwerezabwereza? Kugonana modzidzimutsa — chitani m'mawa musanapite kuntchito, kapena Loweruka masana mugone mukufufuza. Nanga bwanji mbali ina ya nyumbayo (onetsetsani kuti ana palibe)! Bwanji osasiya zovala, titi, siketi yanu kapena bulauzi, ndikupangitsa kuti ziwoneke ngati kuti mukulephera kudikirira? Yesani maudindo osiyanasiyana kapena maudindo angapo nthawi yamadzulo kuti mugonane bwino kuti mudzodabwitse mnzanu. Kodi nthawi zambiri mwamuna wanu ndi amene amayang'anira ntchito yopanga zachikondi? Sinthani izi! Mumayambitsa, mumawongolera, ndipo mumayimba kuwombera. (Adzakonda izi!)
Chiwonetsero: kutambasula
Kugonana kwabwino sikuti kumangomukwaniritsa bwanji mwamuna wanu pabedi koma kumayesetsa kuchitapo kanthu kuti chisangalatse kotero kuti mumangopenga ndikungoganiza za nthawi ina! Tsopano amuna akuwoneka kuti amatha kusintha nthawi yomweyo kukhala "machitidwe azakugonana," koma kwa akazi, amafunikira nthawi yochuluka yosinthira. Njira yabwino yothetsera kusakhazikika ndikulingalira za ziwonetserozo, ngakhale zisanachitike "zisanachitike". Ngati mukudziwa kuti mugonana usikuuno, tumizanani mameseji achiwerewere masana kuti muyambe kusewera bwino musanafike kunyumba kuti mupange njira yogonana. Uzani wina ndi mnzake zomwe mukufuna kuchitira matupi anu mukamenya mapepala. Malembo anu amatumiza uthenga kuti mumayang'ana kwambiri zomwe usiku ubweretsa, zomwe zidzakulitsa chikhumbo chanu polemba meseji.
Mukakhala kunyumba, palibe chifukwa chothamangira kuchipinda. Cholinga ndikuti muchepetse mphindi yakutsogolo ... mwina kuvula zovala zanu pabalaza, kapena kuyamba ndikukupikirani m'mapewa panjira, kusunthira manja anu kumalo osangalatsa kwambiri pathupi la mnzanu pomwe mulibe chilili. Nyozana wina ndi mnzake. Pitani kumagonana pang'onopang'ono, ndikudziletsa momwe mungathere. Mudzawona kuti malowedwe akachitika, sikungokhala kugonana kwabwino. Zidzakhala zosangalatsa!
Musaope nkhani zokopa
Kugwiritsa ntchito mawu achigololo popanga chikondi ndikutseguka kwakukulu, makamaka kwa amuna. Ngati mukuchita manyazi kugwiritsa ntchito mawu ena, yambani nawo omwe mumakhala nawo bwino. Mukamaganizira momwe mungapangire kuti amuna anu azisangalala pabedi, mutha kuganiza kuti kuyankhula kocheperako ndi ntchito yambiri ndi yomwe ingakhale njira koma yesani zokambirana zina ndikuwona kusiyana.
Zoseweretsa: osati mtundu wa ana
Zoseweretsa zachiwerewere ndi njira yabwino yokwaniritsira kukhutira ndi kugonana. Tsopano popeza ali kunja, mabanja ambiri akuwaphatikiza pamasewera awo ogonana kuti akwaniritse zogonana. Yambani poyang'ana m'ndandanda kapena webusaitiyi palimodzi, ndikugawana zomwe mukuganiza kuti ndi zabwino kuyesa, komanso chifukwa chomwe mumakopeka ndi chidolecho osati china. Kuyang'ana pakusankhidwa kwa zoseweretsa ndi njira yabwino kwambiri kuti mnzanu adziwe zomwe mumakonda ndi zomwe mukufuna kuti mumveke, kuphatikiza pazomwe mnzanu akuchita kale. Amayi nthawi zambiri sangaganize zogwiritsa ntchito zoseweretsa ngakhale atakhala kuti samvetsetsa momwe angakhutiritsire amuna awo zogonana koma zomwe zimangofunika ndi malingaliro omwe ali ndi mwayi wambiri.
Gawani zokonda zanu
Hei koma mwamuna wanga sakonda zoseweretsa kapena zolankhula zonyansa momwe angakondweretse amuna anga pogonana, mkazi amadabwa. Ntchito yolimba koma osatheka kumuchotsa m'malo abwino. Kumvetsera zokhumba za mnzanu, ndikugawana zanu, kungathandize kuwonjezera kukhutira ndi kukhutira ndi kugonana kwanu. Kumbukirani: malingaliro ndi momwemo. Sizitanthauza kuti inu kapena mungafune kuchita zinthu izi m'moyo weniweni. Zowona kuti sizingachitike ndichimodzi mwazokonda zomwe zikuchitika pambuyo pouza wina ndi mnzake zomwe mumaganizira mukamaganiza zogonana.
Khalani GGG
Kodi mumadziwa bwino GGG? Zimayimira zabwino, kupereka ndi masewera. Ngati mukufuna kukhutitsa wina ndi mnzake, mudzafunika kukhala cholinga cha GGG. Zabwino = uli bwino pabedi, umakondwera ndi kugonana ndipo umayembekezera nthawi zapabanja ndi mnzako. Kupatsa = ndiwe wowolowa manja pabedi, kuyang'ana chidwi cha mnzako. Game = mukukonzekera zinthu zatsopano ndikukhala omasuka pamaganizidwe a mnzanuyo komanso zopempha zomwe zingapangitse moyo wanu wogonana kukhala wokhutiritsa, wotentha komanso wosangalatsa. Khalani okonzeka kuyesa zinthu zatsopano kamodzi (bola ngati muli omasuka nawo). Simudziwa kuti "chinthu chimodzi" chimenecho ndi chiyani chomwe chimakupindulitsani kwambiri kuti chikhale gawo lanu nthawi zonse pakupanga chikondi.
Kugonana kwabwino si sayansi ya rocket. Zimangotengera anthu awiri kuti akhale munthawiyo, kudula zododometsa modabwitsa ndikuganiza kunja kwa bokosilo (ndi kama!). Ndizomwezo! Ndikudabwabe momwe mungakondweretsere mwamuna pabedi kapena kusesa mkazi kumapazi ake ndikugonana kwabwino, kenako kuyamba pang'onopang'ono ndi malangizowa ndikuwona kusiyana kwake.