Zamkati
- 1. Kulankhulana
- 2. Kupatsana malo
- 3. Muzidalira ena
- 4. Kulemekezana
- 5. Khalani ndi nthawi yabwino limodzi
- 6. Chikondi
- 7. Khalani oleza mtima ndi ololera
Ukwati ndi mgwirizano wokongola wa anthu awiri omwe amasankha kuti akufuna kukhala limodzi mogwirizana. Komabe, msewu wotsatira mzerewu si maluwa onse.
Ngati mukufuna kulowa m'banja, ndikofunikira kuti muzindikire izi ndikukhala okonzekera m'maganizo mwanu zamtsogolo.
Ngati mwakwatirana kale, mwina mukudziwa kale kuti ukwati ndi ntchito yovutirapo.
Nazi mfundo zisanu ndi ziwiri zomwe muyenera kutsatira nthawi zonse kuti zinthu zitheke
1. Kulankhulana
Kwa anthu awiri omwe ali pachibwenzi, kufunikira koyankhulana sikungatsindike kokwanira. Nthawi zambiri kulankhulana kosayenera kapena kusalankhulana kwathunthu komwe kumawononga maubale.
Chosavuta koma champhamvu kwambiri polumikizana bwino chitha kuchita zodabwitsa paubwenzi wanu. Nthawi zambiri, anthu amakonda kunyalanyaza zomwe zachitika posakambirana.
Khalidwe lotere limangopangitsa kuti zinthu ziwoneke bwino kwakanthawi kuti iwo adzawonjezeke pambuyo pake. Nthawi zambiri kulangizidwa kuthana ndi mavuto asanafike pachimake.
Kusintha kulumikizana ndi wokondedwa wanu nkofunikanso kuzindikira mtundu wamakhalidwe omwe amatsogolera kulumikizana momasuka.
Kuti muchite izi, lembani mndandanda wazomwe muyenera kuchita ndi zomwe simuyenera kuchita. Pambuyo pake, onetsetsani kuti mukuchita zinthu zomwe zingathandize mnzanu kumasuka nanu.
2. Kupatsana malo
Lingaliro lakupatsana malo muubwenzi lingawoneke lachilendo kwa anthu ambiri. Koma, kwa anthu angapo, danga lamunthu ndilofunika kwambiri chifukwa chake ndichinthu chomwe sangalekerere.
Danga lanulanu siloyipa ayi.
Ndipo simuyenera kuzitengera pamtima mnzanu akapempha. Ndi ufulu wawo nawonso, monga wina aliyense. Kupatsa mnzako kanthawi pang'ono kuchoka kwa inu kudzakhalanso kothandiza pachibwenzi chanu. Sizingokuthandizani inu ndi mnzanu kumasuka komanso zipatsanso nonse awiri nthawi yoti muphonye wina ndi mnzake.
Kuti muchite izi, konzekerani tsiku lanulo ndikumauza mnzanu kuti apite kokacheza ndi anzawo. Mudzadabwa kuwona mphamvu zomwe amabwerera nazo.
3. Muzidalira ena
Kukhulupirirana kuyenera kukhala maziko aubwenzi uliwonse m'moyo wanu ndipo koposa zonse, maubwenzi apabanja. Anthu ambiri amakhulupirira kuti popanda kukhulupirirana, maubwenzi alibe chifukwa chopitilira. Zowonadi, kudalira ndi mzati wofunikira kwambiri womwe ungapangitse kapena kuswa mgwirizano.
Kudalirana kumamangidwa pakapita nthawi ndipo kumatha kusweka pakangopita masekondi.
Ndikofunikira kuti inu ndi mnzanu mukambirane za malire aubwenzi kuti mumvetsetse zomwe sizingalephereke.
Nonse awiri mukakhala patsamba limodzi, kumakhala kosavuta kudziwa momwe mungachitire zinthu.
4. Kulemekezana
Kulemekeza mnzanu ndikofunikira. Kupanda kulemekezana kumatha kubweretsa maubale omwe amathera movutikira.
Ulemu ndiye ufulu woyenera wa munthu aliyense. Chifukwa chake muukwati uliwonse, okwatirana akuyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti akupatsana ufuluwu. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala chifukwa cha kulemekezana komwe okwatirana ambiri amatha kuwunika momwe amachitira akamakangana.
5. Khalani ndi nthawi yabwino limodzi
Onani momwe tidalemba nthawi yabwino osati nthawi yokha?
Kukambirana moyenera pa kapu ya tiyi kudzakuthandizani inuyo ndi banja lanu kuposa nthawi yomwe munathera mukuwonera nkhani pa wailesi yakanema ndi mnzanu, osakambirana.
Kupatula nthawi yoti mukhale pachibwenzi ndikofunikira monga kupatula nthawi yoti mukhale nokha. Mukapatsa wina gawo la nthawi yanu, zimawonetsa kuti mumamuyamikira komanso kumusamalira.
Chifukwa chake, tsiku lililonse mukamabwera kuchokera kuntchito, yesetsani kukhala pansi ndi mnzanu kuti mukambirane zomwe zachitika tsikulo m'malo mongodutsa pafoni yanu.
Kachitidwe kakang'ono aka kukuthandizani kulumikizana ndi mnzanu komanso kuwapangitsa kudzimva kuti ndi ofunika.
6. Chikondi
Chikondi mwina ndichifukwa chachikulu chomwe anthu amasankhira kuti akufuna kukwatirana koyambirira. Chikondi chimapangitsa anthu kuchita zinthu zachilendo ndipo ndi chikondi chomwe chimapangitsa anthu kufuna kukhala limodzi mosasamala kanthu za kusiyana komwe angakhale nako.
Komabe, monga china chilichonse padziko lapansi, chikondi nachonso chitha kuzirala ndi nthawi ndipo ndikofunikira kuti mupitirize kugwira ntchito kuti moto ukhalebe wamoyo.
Manja ang'onoang'ono amatha kupita kutali.
Mudzadabwa kuwona momwe meseji yochokera kubuluu yonena kuti, 'Ndimakukondani', ingapangitse mnzanuyo kudumpha ndi chisangalalo.
7. Khalani oleza mtima ndi ololera
Ngati mukukwatirana ndipo mukuganiza kuti nthawi zonse zinthu zidzakwaniritsidwa ndi zomwe simukuyenera kunyengerera, chonde ganiziraninso.
Palibe ubale wabwino kwambiri ndichifukwa chake onse awiri akuyenera kuyesetsa kuti ukhale wabwino.
Kunyengerera, motero, sikungapeweke.
Simungathe ndipo simudzapeza zomwe mukufuna nthawi zonse. Chifukwa chake, nthawi zina mumayenera kungokhala oleza mtima pakusintha kwanthawi ndipo nthawi zambiri, kunyengerera, chifukwa cha mnzanu kapena chifukwa cha ubale wanu. Kupirira pang'ono kudzakutengerani kutali.
Ngati mukuvutikira m'moyo wanu wapabanja, komabe mukufuna kuwunikiranso, chonde mvetsetsani kuti banja ndi ntchito yovuta. Pamafunika kuyesayesa kokhazikika kuchokera kwa onse awiri ndipo zoyesayesazi nthawi zambiri zimatenga nthawi kuti zibweretse zotsatira zawo.
Musayembekezere zotsatira zapompopompo. Ingokhalani oleza mtima ndikupatsani zonse.