Zamkati
- 1. Kugawana ntchito zapakhomo
- 2. Landirani kalembedwe ka kholo la wina ndi mnzake
- 3. Khalani ndi usiku wamasana ochulukirapo komanso nthawi yapamtima
- 4. Yesetsani kupewa nkhani zachuma
Anthu ambiri amayembekezera kukhala makolo akangokwatirana. Ana amawerengedwa kuti ndi amodzi mwamadalitso akulu m'moyo. Ndi omwe amamaliza banja. Makolo ndi makolo okha omwe ali ndi mwana. Ngakhale kulumpha kuchokera ku coupledom kukhala kholo ndikosangalatsa komanso kosangalatsa, ndizotopetsa komanso nthawi zambiri kumakhala kovuta. Pali nkhani zaukwati ndi zaubereki zomwe zimachitika nthawi zambiri mabanja akangobereka mwana. Pali maudindo atsopano, ntchito yambiri komanso nthawi yocheperako ndi mphamvu pazonsezi. Zatchulidwa pansipa ndi njira zingapo zomwe mungagwiritse ntchito kuti makolo asasokoneze ndikupangitsa mavuto m'banja lanu.
1. Kugawana ntchito zapakhomo
Ntchito zapakhomo zimachulukitsa mwana akangobadwa. Inde panali ntchito zapakhomo kale, koma tsopano zovala zambiri ndizochulukirapo, mwana amafunika kudyetsedwa, apo ayi amangokhalira kuyamba kulira, ndipo pali ntchito zina zambiri zomwe zimafunika kuchitidwa koma pali isn yokha 'T nthawi yochuluka. Simungazengereze, ntchito yomwe mukuyenerayi ikuyenera kuchitidwa nthawi yomweyo, kapena mukugona mochedwa kuti mumalize.
Zomwe zingakhale zothandiza panthawiyi ndikugawana ntchito zonyansa zonsezi. Nyamula dongosolo la tit-tit monga ngati mumatsuka mbale, mnzanu akuyenera kupukuta zovala. Ngakhale izi zitha kuyambitsa mkwiyo pakati pa banjali, njira yabwinoko ndikupanga mndandanda wazomwe aliyense ayenera kuchita tsiku lonse. Muthanso kusintha maudindo nthawi ndi nthawi posintha. Njira iyi ndiyotsimikiza kuthana ndi mavuto aliwonse omwe angakhalepo paukwati ndi kholo.
2. Landirani kalembedwe ka kholo la wina ndi mnzake
Sizachilendo kutengera njira za makolo za kulera. Mmodzi wa iwo nthawi zambiri amakhala wopepuka komanso wopanda nkhawa kuposa momwe mnzake angafunire. Ngakhale mutha kukhala ndi nkhawa komanso kusiyanasiyana kwamakolo anu, ndikofunikira kuti muzikambirana ndi wokondedwa wanu. Mkwiyo ungayambike pakati pa awiriwo ngati zokambirana sizingachitike zomwe zimabweretsa mavuto m'banja chifukwa chokhala kholo.
Kusamvana kuyenera kuchitika, koma nonse muyenera kuthandizana ndikukhalitsa kuti alere bwino ana anu. Phunzirani kuvomereza momwe nonse mumachitira ana anu ndikumvetsetsa kuti nonse mungafune zabwino zokha.
3. Khalani ndi usiku wamasana ochulukirapo komanso nthawi yapamtima
Nthawi yamaanja ndiyofunika. Pakubadwa khanda, maanja ambiri amachititsa kuti mwanayo akhale malo owonekera kwa iwo ndikuyika okondedwa awo kumbuyo. Izi, komabe, ndizowopsa m'banja lawo. Tonsefe timasangalatsidwa makamaka kuchokera kwa yemwe timakonda. Kukhala ndi mwana sizitanthauza kuti simungasangalale kucheza nanu nokha.
Amuna ndi akazi nthawi zambiri amawoneka akusowa moyo wawo asanabadwe komwe amakhala nthawi yayitali limodzi, amakhala ndiusiku usana komanso moyo wogonana. Tsiku lausiku ndilofunika kwambiri kuti ubale wanu ukhalebe wamoyo. Ganyu munthu woti azilera ana kuti mupite kukadya chakudya chamadzulo. Zimathandizanso kuyika zokambirana zonse zokhudzana ndi ana pambali ndikuyang'ana wina ndi mnzake mukakhala kunja, kukambirana za ntchito, miseche kapena mutu uliwonse womwe mumakonda kukambirana musanakhale ndi mwana.
Kuphatikiza apo, kugonana nawonso kuyenera kuphatikizidwanso m'moyo wanu kuti nonse mukhale ogwirizana komanso okondana kwambiri monga kale. Ngakhale mumadzimva kuti mulibe mlandu wophatikizira mwana wanu pazomwe mumachita, kucheza nthawi yayitali limodzi kumatha kuyanjanitsa nanu, kuchepetsa nkhawa komanso kulimbitsa banja lanu.
4. Yesetsani kupewa nkhani zachuma
Nkhani zandalama zitha kubweretsanso mavuto akulu. Ndi mwana kuwonjezera pa banja, ndalama zimawonjezeka. Izi zikutanthauza kuti nonse muyenera kunyengerera, kusiya zina zomwe mumafunikira ndikugwiritsa ntchito ndalama zochepa poyerekeza ndi zomwe mumakonda kuchita nawo makanema, kugula zovala zodula, tchuthi, malo odyera, ndi zina zambiri. Mavuto azachuma atha kubweretsa nkhawa ndi mikangano yowonjezera pakati pa banjali. Wina akhoza kukwiyira mnzake chifukwa chowononga ndalama zambiri kapena kusasamala ndalama zawo.
Ndalama ziyenera kupangidwa kwa nthawi yayitali ngakhale mwanayo asanabwere ndipo ndalama zonse zimayenera kukonzekera. Kupeza bajeti yakunyumba kumatha kukhala kothandiza kwambiri kuti muzisunga ndikuwonetsetsa ndalama zanu zonse popewa mavuto aliwonse okwatirana ndi kholo.
Mapeto
Mavuto am'banja amatha kuyambitsa mavuto m'banja lonse. Kutsika kwaukwati sikungakhudze okha okwatiranawo komanso kumakhudzanso luso lawo laubereki lochititsa mwana kuvutika. Ndikofunikira kuti onse awiri azithandizana polera mwana wawo wamtengo wapatali. M'malo mokwiya wina ndi mnzake, yesetsani kumvetsetsa njira zawo ndikulankhulana. Phunzirani kuvomerezana zolakwa zanu ndikudzikumbutsa zinthu zonse zomwe mumakonda za wokondedwa wanu. Nonsenu muyenera kugwira ntchito limodzi kuti mukhale ndi banja losangalala komanso banja labwino.