Zamkati
- Ubwino wake wokwatiwa ndi mtsikana ndi uti?
- Kodi ndi zovuta ziti zomwe zimachitika chifukwa chokwatira mtsikana?
Mwakumana ndi chikondi cha moyo wanu. Ndiye chilichonse chomwe umalota mwa mnzako: wamphamvu, wokongola, wanzeru, woseketsa ndipo koposa zonse, amakuyang'ana mwachikondi ndi kusirira.
Alinso wachichepere kwambiri kuposa iwe.
Masiku ano, kudutsa zaka sikumabweretsa nsidze zambiri. Anthu azolowera kuwona amuna achikulire akukwatirana ndikukwatira akazi achichepere mokwanira kuti akhale mwana wawo wamkazi. Donald Trump ndi Melania, Tom Cruise ndi Katie Holmes, Catherine Zeta-Jones ndi Michael Douglas. Kaya chifukwa cha chikondi kapena chitetezo chachuma, kapena zonsezi, maubwenzi a Meyi mpaka Disembala tsopano ndiwofala.
Ubwino wake wokwatiwa ndi mtsikana ndi uti?
1. Phindu lodziwikiratu: Mnyamata wake wamphamvu komanso wamphamvu
Mphamvu zake ndi chilakolako chake cha moyo, mosakayikira, zidzasamukira kwa inu, bambo wachikulire. Izi zimakhudza thanzi lanu komanso thanzi lanu. Mkazi wanu wachichepere sadzakhala wokhutira kuti azingodya kunyumba akuwonera nkhani zaposachedwa kwambiri pa Netflix. Akukweza ndikutuluka pampando wako ndikubwerera kudziko lapansi. M'mbuyomu, kumapeto kwa sabata mumakhala mukuyenda modyera ndi gulu lanu la Akuluakulu-Okha. Tsopano, akufuna kuti mupite naye limodzi ku Coachella, bwanji osayika ulendo ku Himalaya? Changu chake chofufuza ndikupeza dziko lapansi ndichopatsirana, kukupangitsani kuwona ndikuwona zinthu ndi maso atsopano.
2. Ndi wokongola kwambiri
Mudzakhala nsanje ya anzanu onse (abwenzi anu achimuna, osachepera!) Ndipo mudzachita nawo chidwi. Libido yanu, yomwe mumaganizira kuti simugona nthawi yayitali, yadzuka ndipo mukukumananso ndi zomwe zinali ngati kukhala zaka 14.
3. Mukusunga zochitika zatsopano
Mukafika nthawi yogwiritsa ntchito kompyuta, mkaziyu adabwera. Tsopano mukulemba tweeting, instagramming ndi Snapchatting. Muli ndi moyo womwe umakhala wowirikiza nthawi 100 kuposa moyo womwe mumakhala musanakumane ndi mkazi wanu. Ana anu-heck, adzukulu anu-sangakhulupirire kuti muli ndi zatsopano zamakono. Mukusunga ubongo wanu ndikugwira nawo ntchito momwe mumadziwira mapulogalamu ndi mapulogalamu aposachedwa kwambiri a 21st.
4. Udzakhala ndi mwayi wokhala bambo
Ndi mkazi wachichepere wachonde, mudzakhala ndi mwayi wokhala abambo (kachiwiri, ngati muli ndi ana kale). Mpata uwu wokhala kholo limodzi ukhoza kukhala wopambana pamoyo komanso kukulitsa ubale. Kukhala bambo ukalamba ungakupatsenso mwayi wokhala wachinyamata komanso wokangalika.
Kodi ndi zovuta ziti zomwe zimachitika chifukwa chokwatira mtsikana?
1. Akhoza kuyamba kukunyasani
Zachidziwikire, mumapereka chitetezo chachuma. Koma nthawi zina mumayenera kugona msanga kuposa momwe amafunira. Simungathamange mpikisano womwe akupikisana nawo, ndipo mulibe chidwi chotsatira ma Kardashians. Mutha kuda nkhawa kuti sakukondwera kuchita zina mwazinthuzi mwamphamvu, kapena kuda nkhawa kuti sali yekha. Inu mwakuthupi simungamupatse iye zomwe bambo wazaka zake angathe.
2. Mutha kutopa naye
Ngakhale izi sizingakhale zomveka kwa inu, mtsogolomo, mutha kudzitopetsa ndi mkazi wanu wachichepere. Zomwe mumagawana zachikhalidwe sizofanana. Nyimbo zomwe mumakonda zimasiyana kwambiri. Amakhala pa iPhone nthawi zonse ndipo alibe chidwi chowerenga buku lakuthupi. Mwina sakudziwa momwe angagwiritsire ntchito ndalama zake. Kusakhwima kwake kumatha kukhumudwitsa. Mutha kukhala kuti mumalakalaka wina wa m'badwo wanu omwe mungakumbukire za "masiku akale" komanso momwe zimakhalira mutatenga pepala la Lamlungu ndikupanga mawu ozungulira pamodzi.
3. Simungakhale omasuka ndi malingaliro a ena za ubale wanu
Kodi anthu akuyang'ana nanu awiri ndikudzifunsa ngati ali mwana wanu? Kodi akuganiza kuti muli naye limodzi chifukwa ali m'nyamata ndipo akuwoneka modabwitsa? Kodi mumaopa kuti akuganiza kuti ndinu bambo ake a shuga, kuti amangokhala nanu pa ndalama zanu?
4. Achinyamata ali pachiwopsezo
Ngakhale mukudziwa kuti akazi anu amakukondani, mumakhala ndi mawu pang'ono mumutu mwanu kukuuzani kuti tsiku lina adzakunamizani ndi munthu wina wabwinobwino, wolimba mtima, yemwe tsitsi lake silimvi ndipo amene asanu ndi mmodzi pack abs amatha kuwona kudzera mu t-shirt yake yolimba. Kwa nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wanu, simukudziwa kuti mutha kusangalatsa mkazi wanu. Mumapezeka kuti mukuchita nsanje, ndipo izi zikukhudza ubale wanu.
5. Kukhala ndi mkazi wachichepere kumakupangitsa kumva kukhala wamkulu
Mumafuna mkazi wachichepere kuti mumveke achichepere. Koma kwenikweni, zimakupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu okalamba. Okalamba kwenikweni. Pomwe munali pachibwenzi koyamba, mphamvu zake zazikulu komanso mawonekedwe ake adakunyamulani, ndipo zinali zosavuta kuyanjana naye mukakwera kuthamanga kwa adrenaline. Anakupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu achichepere, ndipo mumakonda kumverera koteroko. Koma tsopano padutsa nthawi ndipo zizindikiro zosapeweka zakukalamba sizinganyalanyazidwe. Mumapita kunja ndi abwenzi ake ndipo mukuzindikira kuti ndi inu nokha m'gululi omwe mumakumbukira komwe mudali pomwe JFK adawomberedwa, chifukwa abwenzi ake anali asanabadwenso nthawi imeneyo. Pakadali pano, anzanu akukonzekera zopuma pantchito, akudandaula za kulipirira ana awo koleji, komanso akuganiza zodzala ndi tsitsi. Zimapezeka kwa iwe kuti kukwatiwa ndi mtsikana sikunachititse mwamatsenga kuti nthawi ibwerere. Kukhala ndi mtsikana kumakupangitsani kuzindikira kuti simuli osafa.
Ponseponse, mosasamala zaka zakusiyana, maubale onse ndi ofanana. Ngati ubale wanu ndiwokhazikika pa chikondi, kukhulupirirana komanso kulumikizana bwino, inu ndi mkazi wanu wachichepere mukhala ngati banja lina losangalala. Sangalalani wina ndi mnzake; ndiye chinthu chofunikira kwambiri.