Zamkati
- Chowonadi chaukwati
- Makhalidwe oyenera kufunafuna mwamuna wamtsogolo
- Momwe mungapangire zinthu zing'onozing'ono zokoma mtima moyo wanu wokwatirana
Nthawi zambiri amalangizidwa nthabwala, kukwatiwa ndi mnyamata yemwe amatsuka kukhitchini kapena amakukonzerani chakudya cham'mawa pabedi, chabwino, nthawi zina!
Kumbuyo kwa dzina lovuta ili kubisala nzeru yayikulu kwambiri - kukwatiwa ndi munthu amene angakuthandizireni, yemwe angadziwe zomwe mukufuna kwa iye ndikukhala wofunitsitsa kuyesetsa kuti moyo wanu ukhale wosavuta.
Momwe izi zimakhudzira khitchini yomwe yanenedwayo, mwina mungadabwe?
Monga mukukayikira, si kukhitchini kwenikweni komwe kumakhala kofunikira, koma zonse zomwe zimapangitsa kuti mwamunayo azitsuka modabwitsa kuti athandize mkazi wake.
Chowonadi chaukwati
Ukwati siophweka. Mwina ndi imodzi mwazinthu zovuta kwambiri zomwe munthu angachite, atha kutsutsa.
Pali maukwati akulu, komanso omwe angayese malire anu. Koma chomwe chimakhala chofala m'mabanja onse, ndichakuti mufunika kugwira ntchito molimbika, kuti muchite zonse zomwe mungathe, komanso kukulitsa malingaliro anu, kulolerana, ndi kumvera ena chisoni kuti zitheke.
Padzakhala zokwera ndi zotsika. M'mabanja ena, zovuta zimakhala zochuluka kuposa zakukwera. Zina zidzakhala zanu zokha, zina zidzayamba chifukwa cha zochitika zomwe simukanatha kuzilamulira. Padzakhala zochitika zomwe inu kapena amuna anu mudzakwiya, ndipo padzakhala ndewu zomwe mungakonde kuyiwala. Padzakhalanso, mwachiyembekezo nthawi zambiri, zokongola momwe zovuta zanu zonse zimakhala zomveka.
Ndiye bwanji mukuvutikira, mwina mungafunse? Ukwati siophweka. Komanso chitha kukhala chinthu chofunikira kwambiri chomwe mungachitepo.
Ukwati umakupatsirani chitetezo, cholinga, kumvetsetsa, komanso chikondi chomwe chimapatsa miyoyo yathu yaumunthu tanthauzo. Mwa kulumikizana ndi munthu wina pamlingo wotere monga m'banja, titha kuzindikira kuthekera kwathu konse.
Makhalidwe oyenera kufunafuna mwamuna wamtsogolo
Ndi zonse zomwe zidanenedwa m'gawo lapitalo, zikuwonekeratu kuti amene mudzasankhe kukhala amuna anu atha kukhudza moyo wanu wonse. Chifukwa chake, sipanakhalepo chisankho chofunikira.
Simungakhale wosankha kwambiri mukafika pamikhalidwe yomwe mumayang'ana mwamtsogolo.
Ngakhale kulolerana ndi kumvetsetsana zili pachimake pa ukwati wabwino, pali zofooka zomwe zingaloledwe, ndipo zomwe ziyenera kukhala zophulika zazikulu. Tiyeni tiyambe ndi omaliza. Mwakutero, palibe banja lomwe lingakhale ndi moyo wathanzi (kukhala wathanzi), nkhanza, zosokoneza bongo, komanso zochitika mobwerezabwereza.
Ikani kukhala okonzeka kuthandizira mukamamufuna (ngakhale simufunsa) pamwamba pamndandanda wanu.
Sikuti uwu ndi mkhalidwe wothandiza wokhala nawo mwamwamuna, ndikuwonetsa mawonekedwe abwino ambiri amunthu.
Wina amene amathandiza ena, mosasamala kanthu kuti amakangana apa ndi apo, ndi munthu yemwe sangakhale wosadzikonda, wachifundo, woganizira ena. Ndi munthu yemwe angaike zosowa za ena ndi thanzi lawo patsogolo ndikudzipereka pakafunika kutero.
Mwa manja ang'onoang'ono, monga kutsuka kukhitchini m'malo mwa mkazi wake, mwamunayo akuwonetsa umunthu wosamala ndi woteteza.
Ndipo ichi ndichinthu chomwe mkazi aliyense angayembekezere.
Momwe mungapangire zinthu zing'onozing'ono zokoma mtima moyo wanu wokwatirana
Mpaka pano, tidakambirana za momwe mwamuna ayenera kukhalira ndi mkazi wake. Komabe, zomwezo zimapita kwa akazi.
Kukoma mtima, mmanja pang'ono kapena kudzipereka kwakukulu, kuyenera kukhala muzu wa zochita zanu zonse. Chifukwa chake, muyenera kuyesetsa kulimbikitsa amuna anu (ndi inueni) kuti azikusamalirani nthawi zonse.
Zomwe zimadetsa nkhawa zazing'onozi zomwe zimabwera mosavuta pachiyambi cha chibwenzi ndizolakwika.
Anthu amakhulupirira kuti zolimbitsa thupi, monga kuyeretsa kukhitchini, kugula maluwa, kupanga zojambulidwa, kapena nthawi zina zabwino zomwe sitimasiya tikangoyamba chibwenzi, zimangokhala pachibwenzi.
Kuphatikiza apo, anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti izi sizingachitike, ndipo amaganiza kuti ngati akuyenera kuchita zachikondi, ndiye kuti china chake chalakwika ndi ubalewo. Sizili choncho. Chikondi ndikufunitsitsa kuchita khama chifukwa cha winayo komanso ubale, osati kusowa kwa chidwi choterocho.
Yendetsani, ndipo yang'anani nthawi yomwe mungachitire zabwino amuna anu. Mugulireni matikiti aku konsati (china chomwe amakonda) kapena masewera, muloleni agone momwe mukukonzekera kadzutsa, kukonzekera nthawi yapadera ndi malo azisangalalo zake.
Chilichonse chimapita. Ingopitilizani kupatsa, ndipo mudzawona momwe banja lanu limasandulikira malo osamalirana ndi achikondi.