Zamkati
- 1. Kodi timathana nawo bwanji mikangano ndi mavuto monga banja?
- 2. Kodi timayembekezera kuti zinthu zisintha?
- 3. Kodi timawaona motani nkhani zikuluzikulu - Ana, ndalama, zibwenzi, kuledzera?
- Mapeto
Zimakhala zovuta kulingalira za zinthu zomwe muyenera kuchita pokonzekera ukwati mukamatsala pang'ono kuyenda pamsewu, ndipo malingaliro anu akukangana pakati pakukondwera ndi kupsinjika kosaneneka pamaluwa achikwati. Komabe, kudzifunsa nokha ndi mnzanu mafunso oyenera panthawi yoyenera kungakhale chisankho pakati pa chisangalalo mpaka kalekale ndi ziwerengero zomvetsa chisoni za kusudzulana. Nazi zinthu zitatu zofunika kwambiri kuchita kuti muyambe moyo wanu pamodzi kukonzekera.
1. Kodi timathana nawo bwanji mikangano ndi mavuto monga banja?
Kupsinjika ndi kukakamizidwa kumangokulira m'kupita kwa nthawi, tiyeni tikhale owona mtima pankhaniyi. Mudzakhala ndi mavuto monga panokha komanso ngati banja, ndi ena komanso nonse awiri. Kukhala oyenerana pankhani yamomwe mumachitira mukasemphana ndi nkhawa ndi luso lofunika kwambiri kuti mukhale muubwenzi wokhalitsa.
Masiku ndi miyezi yoyambirira yachikondi imatilimbikitsa kuwonetsa chikhalidwe chathu m'njira zambiri. Timadziletsa, kuwonetsa kulolerana ndi kuthandizana, timasunga mkwiyo mkati mwathu, osafuna kusokoneza nthawi yomwe timagawana limodzi. Ukwati usintha izi, ndipo malingaliro anu onse pamapeto pake adzawonekera.
Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndikofunikira kulingalira momwe nonse mumakhalira ndi nkhawa komanso momwe mumachitira mukasemphana maganizo. Kodi mumathawa, mumakhala okakamira, mumakuwa, mukukwiya kapena kukhumudwa? Kodi mumadziwa kulankhulana modekha? Ndipo, kukonzekera banja losangalala - mungatani kuti muwongolere maluso amenewa ngati banja?
Zalangizidwa - Asanakwatirane
2. Kodi timayembekezera kuti zinthu zisintha?
Funso lina lofunika kudzifunsa nokha ndi mnzanu - kodi pali aliyense wa inu amene akuyembekeza kapena akufuna kuti zisinthe pakadali pano? Ndi chiyani? Chifukwa chiyani? Ndipo, chofunikira - kodi mnzakeyo akumva bwanji za chiyembekezocho? Kodi muli patsamba lomwelo?
Ambiri aife timakhala ndi chiyembekezo chodzindikira kuti yemwe tikukwatirana naye asintha zamatsenga akangonena kuti "Ndichite". Amatha, kapena mwina sangatero. Koma, chofunikira mtsogolo la ubale wanu ndi banja lanu ndichakuti nonse mudalire izi, kuti palibe aliyense wa inu amene angasinthe.
Muyenera kukhala okonzeka kukhala moyo wanu wonse ndi munthu amene mudzakwatirane naye monga zilili panthawiyi. Kuyembekezera kuti munthu angodzidalira kapena kukhala wodalirika, kapena kusintha pang'ono kapena kwakukulu komwe kulipo, zonsezo ndizodzikonda komanso sizowona. Kusayina chidutswa cha pepala nthawi zambiri sikumatsenga kwa matsenga ndipo mwina mungakhale okhumudwitsidwa komanso zaka zomenyera komanso kusakhutira ngati mukudalira lingaliro limenelo.
3. Kodi timawaona motani nkhani zikuluzikulu - Ana, ndalama, zibwenzi, kuledzera?
Anthu ambiri okwatirana amapewa kukambirana zinthu izi asanakwatirane, chifukwa amaganiza kuti zitha kuwononga chibwenzi. Chowopsa kwambiri chomwe amapita ndikusinkhasinkha za ana angati omwe mungafune kukhala nawo. Komabe, muyeneranso kukambirana zenizeni komanso zosafunikira za zonsezo.
Ganizirani bwino mafunso amenewa ndipo kambiranani ndi bwenzi lanu / e. Kodi malingaliro anu ndi otani polera ana, mungalole chiyani ndipo muletsa chiyani? Mudzawalanga motani? Kodi ndalama zanu mungaziike bwanji? Mumagwirizana bwanji pankhani yopeza ndalama ndikuwononga ndalama? Kodi chibwenzi chimasokoneza, kapena chitha? Kodi mungayembekezere chiyani kuchokera kwa mnzanu ngati chibwenzi chachitika? Kodi mungatani ngati mnzanu wayamba kumwa mowa? Kodi mungayang'ane pamodzi kapena mungayembekezere kuti akonza okha?
Ukwati ukhoza kupitilizabe kukondana kwanthawi yayitali, koma mavuto amabuka. Ndipo ndipamene kukonzekera kwanu kwaukwati kudzawonetsere kukhala kofunikira kuti nkhani zazikuluzi ziwononge ubale wanu, kapena kukulimbikitsani kuti muchite bwino. Musaope kukambirana za mavutowo asanawonekere - chimenecho ndi chizindikiro chosamala za mkazi wamtsogolo kapena mwamuna wanu komanso kufuna kuchita zonse zomwe zingachitike mtsogolo mwanu.
Mapeto
Kukhala pamalo amenewo m'moyo wanu mukamakonzekera keke yaukwati ndikusankha mtundu woyenera wa madiresi a akwati ndizosangalatsa. Ndipo muyenera kusangalala nawo mphindi iliyonse! Koma ndi nthawi yabwino kutenga kanthawi ndikulingalira mafunso onse ofunikira okhudza banja. Kupuma kwakanthawi pakukonzekera kudzabwezera mzaka zambiri zamasiku achimwemwe m'banja ndipo ndikofunika.