Zamkati
- Akuyamwa mpweya wonse mchipinda
- Anzanga, banja lokha
- Mlandu wotsutsa
- Mawu achipongwe, nkhanza kapena malingaliro
- Lemekezani mnzanu mokwanira kufunsa m'malo mongoganiza
Ubwenzi uliwonse, kaya wachikondi kapena wopanga zambiri, umakhazikika pakumvana ndi kulemekezana. Wina ayenera kudalira wokondedwa wawo ndikukula ndi chithandizo chawo ndi chitsogozo.
Ubale ulipo kotero kuti anthu atha kukhala okha pafupi ndi anzawo, palibe zodzinamizira. Anthu omwe ali paubwenzi wabwino komanso wathanzi amasangalala ndikupita patsogolo. Okondedwa awo amawadziwa ngati kumbuyo kwa dzanja lawo.
Kukhala muubwenzi uliwonse ndikukhala ndi mphamvu zomunyamula mnzanu ndikuwathandiza kuyimirira pomwe sangathe. Munthu aliyense mdziko lino lapansi ndiosakwanira munjira ina iliyonse; mwatumizidwa kuti mukapeze mnzanu wamoyo yemwe pomaliza adzakumalize.
Monga zongomvera chabe zikuwoneka kuti mawuwa ndiowona pokhudzana ndi ubale uliwonse wathanzi. Kusasowa chilichonse pamwambapa mwanjira yayikulu kumatanthauza kuti pali china chosowa pachithunzichi.
Nthawi zambiri wina amamva zakutha, kusudzulana, kapena kutha kwaubwenzi uliwonse ndipo nthawi zisanu ndi zinayi mwa khumi amakhala osokonekera nthawi zonse. Kodi mungadane bwanji ndi munthu amene mumati mumamukonda kwambiri? Nthawi zambiri yankho limakhala kuti, "Wofunika uja wasintha."
Ndi ulemu wonse, inunso munatero. Anthu amasintha ndi nthawi, chifukwa amapeza zokumana nazo, kuphunzira, ndikuwona. Chisinthiko ndiye chifukwa chopulumukira kwa anthu. Komabe, ndi ntchito ya anthu kuyang'anira mbendera zofiira pazikhalidwe zoyipa zomwe zibwenzi.
Zotsatirazi ndi zinthu zochepa zomwe siziyenera kusokonezedwa ndi onse omwe ali pachibwenzi ndipo nthawi zambiri zimawerengedwa kuti zimapanga aura yoyipa pachibwenzi chilichonse.
Akuyamwa mpweya wonse mchipinda
Izi ndizofala kwambiri ku Asia; Amuna nthawi zambiri amawerengedwa kuti ndiopezera banja chakudya komanso membala wofunikira kwambiri wabanja, mutu wabanja nthawi zina. Ena ofunika, ngati ali ndi ntchito zawo, samaganiziridwa kuti ndioyenera kuwonekera bwino.
Ntchito zawo nthawi zambiri zimawerengedwa ngati zosangalatsa, zomwe zimayenera kuchitika munthawi yopuma kapena kungodzitangwanitsa. Amuna otere amalakalaka kutchuka komanso chidwi, amafuna kuti azikhala anthu wamba mtawuniyi ndipo sangayang'anire kuwayatsa bwino.
Anzanga, banja lokha
Amayi apanyumba a amuna otere nthawi zambiri amadzimangirira mdziko la amuna awo. Amadzichekacheka ndi mabanja ndi abwenzi chifukwa apangidwa kuti akhulupirire kuti amunawo ndiye amphamvu komanso okhawo ofunika mokwanira pachibwenzi, mwachilengedwe anzawo ndi nkhani zamabanja.
Mwanjira imeneyi, azimayiwa amakhala opanda chithandizo cha zero ndipo palibe amene angamuthandize akafuna. Mwanjira ina, alibe wobwerera.
Mlandu wotsutsa
Aliyense ndi munthu. Anthu amalakwitsa; timakumana ndi zolephera tsiku ndi tsiku nthawi zina. Izi ndizomwe zimatithandiza kuphunzira ndikupeza chidziwitso; komabe, wamantha amaimba mlandu wina aliyense mmalo mowadzudzula okha chifukwa cha zolakwa kapena zolephera zawo.
Amalephera kumvetsetsa kuti akufuna thandizo, kusintha, ndi kusintha. Monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, kusintha ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti munthu akhale ndi moyo. Munthu sangakhale ndi moyo wopanda icho.
Mawu achipongwe, nkhanza kapena malingaliro
Kuzunza ndi mawu osakanikirana. Ili ndi mitundu ingapo ndipo imatenga mitundu yambiri.
Nthawi zambiri, zomwe anthu amazinyalanyaza monga zoseketsa zimadzakhala nkhanza pang'ono ndipo zimayenerera kukhala mkhalidwe woyipa pachibwenzi.
Anthu, pachibwenzi chilichonse, nthawi zonse ayenera kuyang'anitsitsa nkhanza. Chinachake chopanda chilema monga kuyamikirira kukongola kwa wina kapena chinthu china chabwino m'njira yovulaza kunyoza mnzawoyo chitha kuonedwa ngati nkhanza pang'ono.
Kuzunzidwa kwamaganizidwe ndi malingaliro ndikofunikira kwambiri pano chifukwa cha manyazi omwe amapezeka chifukwa cha matendawa, anthu amakonda kubisala matenda amisala ndipo samadandaula za nkhanza zomwe anzawo akuchita, zomwe omwe amazunza anzawo amasangalala nazo.
Lemekezani mnzanu mokwanira kufunsa m'malo mongoganiza
Ngakhale mnzanu amadziwa zambiri za inu kapena inu, musataye ufulu wanu wosankha.
Musalole kuti mnzanu apangire chisankho m'malo mwanu kapena angokulamulirani m'malo mongokufunsani kanthu. Zilibe kanthu kuti mutha kuchita chilichonse chomwe mnzanu akuuzani kuti muchite chifukwa akudziwa kuti mungathe. Ndi ufulu wanu monga munthu kufunsidwa ngati mukufuna kutero kapena ayi.
Osataya ufuluwo.
Palinso mbendera zofiira zambirimbiri zomwe muyenera kuziyang'anira, koma zomwe zatchulidwazi ndizofunikira kwambiri zomwe zimawerengedwa ngati zoyipa zomwe zili pachibwenzi zomwe siziyenera kupezekapo.