Zamkati
- Ngati mukuwona kuti mulibe chibwenzi, musataye mtima
- Mutha kuyiwala kuwonetsa chikondi kwa munthu ameneyo kukhala thanthwe lanu
- Mkwiyo ukhoza kukhala wakupha chibwenzi
- Chinsinsi chaching'ono - mukhozabe kukonda mnzanu popanda kuwonetsa zachikondi
- Dziwani zomwe mukufuna
Sizimachitika mwadzidzidzi. M'malo mwake, kutsikako kumatenga zaka zochepa. Mwina simukuzindikira kuti zikuchitika mpaka mutadzuka ndikudzifunsa zomwe zachitika. Tsiku lina mukayang'ana wokondedwa wanu ndipo mumazindikira kena kake: mukukhala ngati anthu ogona limodzi kuposa omwe mumakonda. Chibwenzi chidapita kuti?
Ngati ndinu ofanana ndi mabanja ambiri omwe akhalitsa maukwati ataliatali, masiku oyambilira aukwati wanu amawoneka osiyana kwambiri ndi zochitika za tsiku ndi tsiku. M'masiku omwe mwangokwatirana kumene, simunadikire kuti mufikire kunyumba wina ndi mnzake. Usiku wanu komanso kumapeto kwa sabata mumakhala ndi zokondana zambiri, osanenapo zopsompsona, kukumbatirana komanso kukhudzana. Koma popita zaka, panali zolembera zochepa za chikondi ndi zolemba zachikondi, ndipo mndandanda wa "honey do" wambiri ndipo diso loyang'ana pambali lidatha zinyalala zomwe sizinatulutsidwe popanda kufunsa kwanu.
Ngati mukuwona kuti mulibe chibwenzi, musataye mtima
Pali zinthu zingapo zomwe mungachite kuti mubwererenso m'maso mwawo, ndikuwonjezera kukondana pakati panu. Ngati simukufuna kuti banja lanu likhale lofanana, khalani ndi izi. Tiyeni tigwire ntchito kuti tibwezeretse chikondi!
"Chifukwa" chotani kutha kwa chibwenzi mu chibwenzi. Sikovuta kudziwa chifukwa chomwe chibwenzi chimatsika muubwenzi wokhalitsa. Zambiri zimachitika chifukwa cha zochitika zina m'moyo zomwe zimapikisana ndi nthawi ya chibwenzi. Zinthu monga banja lomwe likukula, kapena malonjezo aukadaulo, zosowa za mabanja ambiri (apongozi, makolo okalamba, abale omwe akudwala), malo omwe mumakhala nawo (usiku wamasewera ndi oyandikana nawo, zochitika zampingo), zosowa za ana anu kusukulu (homuweki, kudzipereka mukalasi , limodzi ndi ophunzirawo pamaulendo akumunda). Mndandandawo ulibe malire ndipo sizosadabwitsa kuti kwatsala nthawi yochepa kuti inu ndi mnzanuyo mupereke kukondana limodzi.
Mutha kuyiwala kuwonetsa chikondi kwa munthu ameneyo kukhala thanthwe lanu
Palinso funso la chizolowezi. Pamene banja lanu likupita patsogolo, mwachibadwa chizolowezi chodziyika chokha ndipo mwina mumayamba kutengana. Gawo labwino la izi ndikuti mukudziwa kuti muli ndi wina yemwe mungamudalire, tsiku ndi tsiku. Gawo loyipa la izi ndikuti mungaiwale kuwonetsa chikondi ndi kuthokoza chifukwa cha munthu ameneyo kukhala thanthwe lanu. Chibwenzi chanu chimatha kulowa pachizolowezi, chifukwa mumakonda kutsatira zomwe mumachita kuti zitheke zonse. Popanda zosayembekezereka kapena zodabwitsa, mutha kuzindikira kuti palibe chilakolako chatsalira, palibe chofanana ndi masiku anu oyambilira pomwe zonse zinali zatsopano komanso zosangalatsa.
Mkwiyo ukhoza kukhala wakupha chibwenzi
Kukondana kumatha kufa chifukwa mutha kusungira chakukhosi mnzanu. Mkwiyo, wosafotokozedwa kapena kufotokozedwa, ukhoza kukhala wambanda weniweni. Ndikosavuta kumva kukhala wachikondi komanso wokonda munthu yemwe amakukhumudwitsani nthawi zonse kapena akugwirani ntchito mopikisana ndi banja lanu. Umenewu ndi mkhalidwe wovuta kwambiri kwa anthu okwatirana kuti azisamalira paokha kotero kufunafuna wothandizira mabanja ndikothandiza pano kukuthandizani kuti muyambenso kuyenda bwino, kukhazikitsa njira zoyankhulirana, ndikuphunzira kukambirana pazomwe zikukupweteketsani mtima kotero kuti chisankho chitha zimachitika ndipo malingaliro achikondi amatha kubwerera.
Chinsinsi chaching'ono - mukhozabe kukonda mnzanu popanda kuwonetsa zachikondi
Kodi izi zimakudabwitsani? Pali mabanja mamiliyoni ambiri omwe safunika kuchita zibwenzi, zazikulu kapena zazing'ono, kuti adziwe kuti chibwenzi chawo ndi chachikondi. Amadalira kwambiri zowonadi zotsatirazi zomwe ubale wawo umawapatsa ndi Chikondi. Amakhala olimba mtima kuti pali mgwirizano wachikondi pakati pawo, ndipo safuna maluwa, zolemba zachikondi kapena zovala zamkati kuti zikumbukire izi. Amasamalirana moona mtima. Mabanjawa amakhala odekha komanso osasinthasintha osamalirana omwe amatsimikizira banja lawo. Pangakhalebe kusakondana tsiku lililonse, koma angasangalale kusinthanitsa izi chifukwa chakumva mwachikondi komanso chisamaliro chomwe amakhala nacho muubwenzi wawo. Kulandilana wina ndi mnzake momwe aliri. Anthu okwatirana omwe amalandilana mu umunthu wawo wonse (zolakwika ndi zina zonse) atha kukhala okondana kwambiri osafunikira muyeso wachikondi.
Chiyambi cha chimwemwe. Mabanja awa amapita patsogolo ndikumangokhalabe osangalala pokhala limodzi. Kaya akungodzazidwa mchipinda chimodzi kapena kugula zinthu, ali osangalala, osafunikira mayendedwe achikondi. Ubwenzi. Pakhoza kukhala osapambana, odyera ndi achikondi, koma nthawi zonse pamakhala lingaliro laubwenzi ndipo "ndikupezeka nanu" ndi mabanja awa.
Dziwani zomwe mukufuna
Ndikofunika kuti muzindikire zosowa zanu zachikondi muubwenzi wanu. Mutha kukhala nawo pagulu lomwe silikusowa zowonetsa zachikondi tsiku ndi tsiku kuti mumve kuti ndinu ofunika komanso otetezeka m'banja lanu. Kapenanso, mungafune kuti wokondedwa wanu azingopanga zochepa pazachikondi. Ngati ndi choncho, lankhulani ndi mnzanu ndikufotokozera zosowa zanu. Sikovuta kukweza masewera mu dipatimenti yazachikondi, ndikungoyeserera pang'ono kuti mubwezeretse chikondi choyamba. Koma kumbukirani: kukondana sikofunikira kuti chikondi chenicheni chikhalepo.
Pali maanja ambiri omwe amasangalala kusambitsirana ndi ma tokeni achikondi okwera mtengo, ndipo pamapeto pake amathetsa banja lawo. Chofunikira ndikuti chilankhulo chanu chachikondi chimamveka kwa wina ndi mnzake, ndipo ndinu omasuka pazomwe mukufuna kuti mumve kuti ndinu wokondedwa, wokondedwa ndi kuyamikiridwa ndi wokondedwa wanu.