Zamkati
- Mavuto akachitika - Kodi mwakonzeka?
- Ulendo wazokwera ndi zotsika
- Kuthetsa mavuto ndi zomwe tingaphunzire
- Mavuto amthupi
- Mavuto azachuma
- Mavuto am'mutu
Anthu omwe ali pabanja kale amadziwa kuti moyo waukwati si nthabwala. Khalani okonzeka kugunda zovuta zina mmoyo wanu limodzi ndipo sizachilendo kukhumudwa kapena kukhumudwitsidwa nthawi zina.
Kuthetsa mavuto m'banja mwanu ndi vuto lomwe aliyense angakumane nalo. Ngakhale zovuta zina zitha kuthetsedwa mosavuta ndi zizolowezi zolemekezana, kumvetsera, kutenga nthawi kuti mugwire ntchito pazolakwitsa zanu palinso zovuta zomwe zingafune kuyesetsa kwambiri.
Tiyeni timvetsetse mavuto omwe mungakumane nawo pachibwenzi chanu komanso maphunziro omwe amatsatiridwa.
Mavuto akachitika - Kodi mwakonzeka?
Vuto likachitika — banja lanu likakhala ndi vuto lalikulu, mumayamba liti kulithetsa? Kodi mwakonzeka motani pankhani yolimbana ndi kuthana ndi zovuta?
Chowonadi ndichakuti, titha kukhazikitsa malingaliro athu pazomwe zikubwera, titha kukambirana momwe tingathanirane ndi mavuto athu limodzi komanso momwe tingalimbitsire ubale wathu zisanachitike koma sitingakhale okonzeka 100%. Mungadabwe kudziwa mayesero omwe angadze pamoyo wanu komanso momwe angakuyeseni ndi chifuniro chanu.
Mukakumana ndi mantha anu akulu, kusintha kosayembekezereka kwa zochitika kapena kuzindikira kowawa kuti moyo wanu wabanja simuli wangwiro monga mumaganizira, mumatani? Kodi mungakonde kusiya kapena kumenya nkhondo?
Ulendo wazokwera ndi zotsika
Ukwati umakupatsani zokumbukira zosangalatsa komanso mayesero ovuta kwambiri. Zomwe zimapangitsa banja kusudzulana sizitanthauza kuti ndizofanana ndi maanja ena.
Maukwati osweka amachokera ku zovuta zingapo, mayesero komanso kulephera kuthana ndi vutoli. Sizovuta kuchita ndichifukwa chake maanja ena amangotaya, koma ena satero. Ndicho chifukwa chake kuthana ndi mavuto m'banja sikungotipangitsa kukhala olimba; zitipangitsa ife kuphunzira maphunziro ofunikira kwambiri osati mu maubwenzi okha komanso ndi moyo weniweniwo.
Kuthetsa mavuto ndi zomwe tingaphunzire
Pansipa mupeza mndandanda wamavuto omwe mabanja omwe amakumana nawo nthawi zambiri amakumana nawo; gawo lirilonse liri ndi maphunziro ake ndi malangizo omwe tonsefe tingaphunzirepo.
Mavuto amthupi
Kulemala kwakuthupi komwe kumachitika mwangozi ndi chitsanzo chimodzi cha zomwe timatcha zovuta zamthupi. Palibe amene akufuna kugwidwa pangozi kapena kudwala chifukwa chakulemala. Mavuto amtunduwu atha kukhudza kwambiri banja lanu. Wokondedwa wanu yemwe kale anali wokhoza tsopano akhoza kukhala ndi nkhawa, kudzimvera chisoni komanso kuwonetsa zipsinjo zokwiya chifukwa cha kupunduka komwe kumachitika. Kusintha komwe nonse awiri mudzakhale nako sikungakhale kovuta ndipo nthawi zina kumatha kukupatsani mwayi wosiya.
Ngati simungathe kuwongolera zomwe zidachitika pamoyo wanu, onetsetsani zomwe mungathe. Pitilizani ndikuvomereza zomwe zidakuchitikirani kapena kwa mnzanu.
Gonjetsani ndikudzipereka kuti pamavuto aliwonse omwe mungakhale nawo, simusiya wokondedwa wanu. Atsimikizireni kuti mudzakhala komweko ndipo limodzi mudzatha kupitilira.
Dziwani kuti chikondi chanu chimaposa chilema chilichonse kapena chilema chilichonse. Kuti zilizonse zomwe zingachitike mwadzidzidzi ndi zovuta izi zingakugwedezeni koma sizingakusokonezeni. Phunzirani kuvomereza zomwe simungathe kuzilamulira ndikuphunzira kusinthasintha.
Mavuto azachuma
Mavuto azachuma atha kukhala amodzi mwazifukwa zomwe anthu okwatirana amatsogolera kusudzulana chifukwa moona mtima, mukakhala ndi mavuto azachuma, zonse zimakhudzidwa makamaka mukakhala ndi ana komanso ngongole zambiri zoti mulipire. Chomwe chimapangitsa izi kukhala chovuta kwambiri ndi pamene mukufuna ndikuyesera kukhala moyo winawake wosagwirizana ndi zomwe mumapeza. Apa ndipomwe vuto lenileni limabwera.
Phunzirani kunyengerera. Palibe njira yachidule yopambana ngakhale chuma. Khalani ndi moyo womwe mungakwanitse ndipo m'malo molimbana wina ndi mnzake, bwanji osapangana kuti mudzathandizana?
Kumbukirani, moyo wanu sikuti umangokhudza ndalama zokha. Pali zambiri zomwe muyenera kuthokoza m'malo mongoyang'ana pazachuma.
Gwiritsani ntchito limodzi osalimbana wina ndi mnzake, kuti mukwaniritse zolinga zanu m'moyo.
Mavuto am'mutu
Chomwe muyenera kumvetsetsa ndikuti kukhazikika kwamalingaliro kumachita gawo lalikulu m'moyo wanu wabanja komanso m'banja. Titha kuwona milandu yambiri yothetsa banja yokhudzana ndi kusakhazikika kwamalingaliro ndipo ichi chitha kukhala chifukwa chomvetsa chisoni kuti ukwati wanu uthe. Munthu akamakhala wosakhazikika pamalingaliro pazifukwa zingapo monga kusilira kwambiri, kusatetezeka, kukwiya komanso kudzimva wopanda pake - kumakhala kovuta kuwongolera ndipo posakhalitsa, kumatha kukhala chizolowezi chowononga chomwe chingakhudze osati ukwati wanu wokha komanso ntchito yanu.
Funafunani thandizo. Kuvomereza kuti mungafunike kuthandizidwa sichizindikiro cha kufooka, koma chisonyezo choti mukufuna kuchitapo kanthu kuti mukhale bwino.
Lolani anthu kuti akuthandizeni ndipo musalole kumangoganizira zomwe mukudziwa kuti zingangobweretsa chisokonezo.
Phunzirani kudalira ndikuphunzira kutsegula mtima wanu kwa anthu omwe amakukondani. Khalani otseguka pazomwe zikukuvutitsani komanso koposa zonse, phunzirani kumvera ndikulandila chithandizo. Palibe amene anabadwa wanzeru ndi wamphamvu; Zinadutsa zaka zambiri zomwe amakhala zomwe ali tsopano.
Kuthetsa zovuta muukwati wanu ndiulendo womwe ungatipatse njira zochulukira ku ufulu kapena kuthawa zenizeni koma ukwati suli choncho. Ukwati ndiulendo wautali wamisewu yovuta yomwe nthawi zina umatha kukhala wosungulumwa komanso wokhumudwitsa koma ukudziwa chomwe chimapangitsa kuti ukhale wopirira? Ndi munthu amene muli naye, yemwe mudakwatirana naye yemwe ndi wofunitsitsa kutenga ulendo womwewo nanu. Phunzirani pamavuto anu ndipo mugwiritse ntchito maphunzirowa kuti mugwire ntchito pazinthu zina zomwe zingachitike ndipo pamapeto pake mukhale theka labwino la mnzanuyo ngakhale mutakumana ndi zovuta kapena zochepa.