Zamkati
Ndani akufuna mavuto apabanja nthawi yapakati? Kukonzekera kukhala ndi moyo wamunthu ndikwanira kuthana nawo. Pakakhala zovuta, ziyenera kuthandizidwa mwachangu. Zinthu sizikhala zabwino nthawi zonse.
Iwo omwe amapezeka kuti akuyembekezera mwana ndipo akukumana ndi mavuto am'banja kapena ali ndi pakati komanso osasangalala pachibwenzi nthawi zambiri samadziwa choti angachite.
Amaika mimba pamwamba pamndandanda ndikuyesetsa kupewa mavuto m'banja ngati mliri.
Ndi yankho lomveka koma si njira yothetsera mavuto am'banja. Kungoyang'ana chabe mavuto am'mimba mukakhala ndi pakati kumangowononga chibwenzicho. Kusiya izo kuti zikule kumawalola iwo kukula.
Mikangano ndi zovuta zimayenera kuchotsedwa muukwati kotero mwana akangobwera, cholinga chake chitha kukhala kukhala makolo odabwitsa ndikukhalabe ndi banja losangalala.
Ambiri mavuto m'banja pa mimba
Pali zambiri mavuto akumabanja komanso mavuto amimba zomwe zimatha kuchitika panthawi yapakati. Ngati mukuwerenga izi, mwina mukukumana ndi chimodzi chimodzi ndipo mukuyang'ana yankho lolimbitsira banja lanu lolimba.
Ena mwa mavuto omwe amapezeka pachibwenzi akadali ndi pakati ndi kusowa kwa kulumikizana, kutalika, komanso mavuto amacheza. Ndiwovuta pamaubwenzi koma izi zitha kuthetsedwa.
Gawo loyamba kuthana ndi chidziwitso chaubwenzi pa nthawi yapakati ndikuloza momwe zidachitikira.
- Kupanda kulumikizana
Kuperewera kwa Kuyankhulana kumachitika pang'onopang'ono ndipo maanja ambiri sazindikira kuti zikuchitika. Vuto laubwenzi ili panthawi yoyembekezera ndilofala chifukwa pamakhala zambiri zofunika kuziganizira panthawiyo.
Zimakhala zosavuta kuti makolo oyembekezera azimva kupsinjika komanso kupsinjika. Monga tanenera, kutha kwa kulumikizana kumachitika pang'onopang'ono.
Okwatirana atha kuwona kuti akukangana kwambiri kuposa masiku onse, osakhala patsamba limodzi nthawi zambiri, mikangano yambiri mnyumba ndikutuluka sikofanana.
Izi zimachitika pamene okwatirana amalephera kuthana ndi zovuta zazing'ono ndikulola zokhumudwitsa kukulira pakapita nthawi.
- Kutalikirana
Kutalikirana nthawi zambiri kumayambitsidwa ndi chimodzi mwazinthu ziwiri. Olakwira awiriwa ndikusowa kolumikizana komanso kulephera kukwaniritsa zosowa za wina ndi mnzake. Kulephera kulumikizana bwino kumayambitsa mtunda powonjezerapo moto pamoto.
Mafuta amenewo amapangidwa ndi zinthu zosathetsedwa, mafunso, kukhumudwa, komanso kusamvana. Mwamwayi, zinthuzi zitha kutsukidwa ngati onse atenga njira zoyankhulirana bwino.
Kuzungulira kwamachitidwe olakwika kumabweretsa zoyipa. Ponena zakukwaniritsidwa kosowa, zosowa zam'maganizo, waluntha komanso zakuthupi sizikwaniritsidwa, abwenzi ayamba kulowerera. Kusakhutira ndi kryptonite kuubwenzi.
Tiyeni tikhale achilungamo, omwetulira m'mawa, tikunena za mwana 24/7 komanso mwachizolowezi, "Lero lakhala bwanji tsiku lanu?" sichidula.
- Ubwenzi
Kukondana kumakhalanso pamndandanda wamavuto omwe mabanja amakhala nawo nthawi yapakati. Zomwe zimayambitsa zimaphatikizapo kusamvana pakati pa okwatirana komanso kudzimva osafunika ndipo nthawi zina, mantha.
Tonsefe timadziwa kuti kukondana kumachoka pawindo pomwe kulumikizana kumasokonekera ndipo maanja amakhala kutali. Izi zimaperekedwa, koma mimba imaponyera ma curveball ena. Mmodzi mwa ma curveballs ndi kusatetezeka.
Thupi la mkazi likasintha komanso mimba yake ikukula, amayamba kudziona wosafunika. Amuna amathanso kupewa kuyanjana chifukwa choopa kukhumudwitsa mwanayo. Zifukwa zonse ndizomveka koma maanja akuyenera kukhalabe okondana.
Kugonana ndimomwe okwatirana amakhala ogwirizana mwakuthupi ndi m'maganizo.
Kuthetsa mavuto omwe amapezeka pabanja nthawi yapakati
Onani njira? Kukhala Wokhala ndi pakati komanso wokhumudwa ndi chibwenzi imakhudza kwenikweni domino. Mwamwayi, maanja amatha kuyimitsa nkhanizi m'njira zawo.
Kupanda Kuyankhulana
Kukhazikitsa kulumikizana kumafuna nthawi, kumvetsetsa ndi kuthandizira. Mukawona kuti chinachake sichili bwino, ingofunsani. “Wokondedwa, chavuta ndi chiyani?” zitha kubweretsa kuzindikira kwatsopano. Kupanda kutero, simudzadziwa kwenikweni.
Pezani nthawi kuti muwone zomwe sizikugwira ntchito ndikuyankhula za izo. Kulankhula zamavuto kumawoneka ngati kosavuta koma nthawi zambiri kumakhala kovuta kwambiri. Apa ndipamene kumvetsetsa ndi kuthandizira kumabwera.
Kulankhula momasuka komanso moona mtima kumafuna malo otetezeka. Pangani malo omasukirana ndi kuwona mtima ndikuyamba kudziwonetsa nokha ndikuwona mnzanu ngati zakukhosi.
Kuti mukwaniritse izi, gwirani ntchito pakukhulupirirana ndi kumvetsetsa. Chitani izi potsegula makutu anu, kuthana ndi chidwi chofuna kukangana ndikuganizira momwe akumvera mnzanu.
Zosintha zazing'onozi pamachitidwe olumikizirana zimaphwanya makoma powonetsetsa kuti onse akumvedwa, kumvedwa ndikumverera kuthandizidwa. Palibe nthawi yabwinoko kuposa kukhala ndi pakati kuti mukhale omvetsetsa komanso othandizira.
Kutalikirana
Kuthetsa zovuta zoyankhulana kumachepetsa kusiyana koma kuphunzira momwe mungakwaniritsire zosowa za mnzanu kumaonjezeranso zothandizira za titaniyamu pa mlathowo. Kukwaniritsa zosowa ndikosavuta.
Pazosowa zam'mutu, yambilaninso kugunda pamtima wa mnzanu. Maanja samakonda kuchita zinthu zokoma wina ndi mnzake nthawi ikamapita.
Pangani mnzanu wofunika kwambiri ndikuyamba kuwonetsa chikondi chake nthawi zonse. Kuphatikiza apo, gwiranani manja, khalani achikondi kwambiri ndipo yesetsani kuchita zabwino chifukwa choti mumamupenga.
Kaya mukuyembekezera mwana kapena muli ndi zaka 90, izi siziyenera kuyima.
Kukondoweza kwaumunthu kulinso kofunikira. Gawani kena kake za bukuli lomwe mwangowerenga kumene, kambiranani za kanema omwe mudawonera mausiku angapo apitawa, lankhulani zomwe zachitika, ndale kapena nthabwala.
Pali china chake chapadera kwambiri poti musadziwe zomwe anzanu azikunena kenako kapena momwe angakulimbikitsireni. Mnzanu yemwe angakupangitseni kuganiza kuti ndiwosunga.
Ubwenzi
Kuthetsa pamwambapa kusokonezeka kwa ubale pa nthawi yapakati akhazikitsa umodzi ndipo athandiza kuyandikira banja ndi banja.
Mtima ndi malingaliro zikamalankhulidwa, ndi nthawi yoti mutanthauzire chikondi kuchipinda chogona.
Azimayi omwe akulimbana ndi matupi awo atsopano ayenera kugwira ntchito ndi amuna awo kuti azigonana. Njira yabwino yoyambira ndikuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi.
Amayi oyembekezera omwe amayesetsa kuchita zinthu zomwe zimawapangitsa kukhala osangalala adzawonjezera kudzidalira kwawo. Dziperekeni pakulimbitsa thupi ndikukhala ndi zotsatira zabwino m'thupi ndi m'maganizo.
Kuphatikiza pa kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, onetsani zabwino zomwe muli nazo, dzipatseni tsiku la spa kapena kugula zovala zazing'ono za amayi. Zonse zitatuzi zimatha kupangitsa mkazi kumva kukhala wokongola.
Amuna amathanso kukhala othandizira kwambiri pofotokozera zakukhosi kwawo mwakuthupi ndi mwathupi.
Ngati kuopa kupweteketsa mwanayo ndi vuto lanu pachibwenzi, lankhulani ndi dokotala wanu. Dokotala amatha kuthana ndi zovuta zilizonse malinga ndi zamankhwala ndikupatsanso upangiri pakugonana motetezeka.
Ubwenzi wapamtima komanso kuyandikana sikuyenera kusokonezedwa chifukwa chokhala ndi pakati. Mutatha kuthana ndi zomwe zimayambitsa kukondana, sinthani moyo wanu wogonana pokhala opatsa komanso otseguka.
Mimba imapatsa maanja chifukwa chodzipangira kuti ayesere zatsopano. Yang'anani pa zosowa za mnzanu osati zanu kuti mulimbikitse kuyandikira kwakuthupi kofunikira.
Maanja omwe amafunikira thandizo lina ayenera lingalirani kukawona mlangizi wa mabanja. Pokhala ndi upangiri waukwati maanja omwe ali ndi pakati atha kuthana ndi zovuta zomwe zimadza mbanja mwachipambano.
Wina akhoza kuchita zabwino zambiri ndikuletsa maanja kukhala ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi mimba nthawi zonse.