Zamkati
Ndi kangati kamene timalabadira mawayilesi amisewu m'moyo wathu? Kodi ndizotheka kuyatsa nyali yofiira? Nanga bwanji nyali yachikaso? Kodi tingakakamize kuunika kuti kusanduke kubiriwira? Kodi ma traffic traffic agwirizana bwanji ndi banja?
Njira ya "Kuwala kwa Magalimoto" mu upangiri usanalowe m'banja imakhudza mavuto ndi mitu yomwe maanja ambiri amakhala nayo m'banja lawo. Cholinga ndikuti akhale ophunzira monga momwe angathere pazovuta zomwe zikubwera kuti asakhale ndi vuto ngati zingachitike kapena zikachitika.
Ngati chikondi chikukula ndikukula, kodi banja silifunikira maziko abwino oti izi zichitike? Maziko a chidziwitso, chowonadi, chidaliro, chikondi, ndi kuvomereza amakulitsa kwambiri zovuta zaukwati wautali. Ngati tili ofunitsitsa kuthana ndi mavuto athu asanakhale mavuto ndikupanga chisankho ngati tingavomereze kapena ayi, ndipokhapo, ndi maphunziro awa, tidzakhala okonzeka kupita chitsogolo ndi chidaliro kuti ukwatiwu upitilira.
Kulabadira ma traffic traffic
Panjira ya Magalimoto Panjira yoperekera upangiri musanakwatirane, timaganizira mitu makumi awiri mphambu imodzi kapena nkhani zomwe zimapezeka kwambiri muukwati. Izi ndi:
- Zaka,
- Maganizo,
- Ntchito / Maphunziro,
- Ana,
- Kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo,
- Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi / Thanzi,
- Mabwenzi,
- Zolinga,
- Apongozi,
- Umphumphu,
- Nthawi yopuma,
- Malo okhala,
- Zikuwoneka / zokopa,
- Ndalama, (chifukwa chachikulu chomwe anthu amasudzulana)
- Makhalidwe / chikhalidwe,
- Kulera,
- Ndale,
- Chipembedzo,
- Kugonana / kukondana
Zalangizidwa - Asanakwatirane
Pochita izi, aliyense wokwatirana naye amalingalira mutu umodzi nthawi, mwachitsanzo, "ndalama." Ndikulemba mndandanda wa mafunso mwatsatanetsatane pamutu womwe mwasankha. Kenako amene akufuna kukwatirana amagawana malingaliro kapena malingaliro omwe akuyembekeza kutsatira atakwatirana. Mkazi womvera saweruza koma amangofunsa mafunso, ngati kuli kofunikira, kuti amve bwino za bwenzi lawo likuyima.
Awa simalo okambirana malingaliro. Cholinga ndikuti asankhe ngati zomwe amva kuchokera kwa omwe akufuna kukwatirana naye pankhani inayake ndizovomerezeka kwa iwo.
Omvera akamva kuti akumvetsetsa bwino za omwe angakwatirane nawo, ndimawafunsa kuti apereke chizindikiro pogwiritsa ntchito fanizo lawayilesi:
WABWINO amatanthauza kuti "Ndimakonda zomwe ndimamva, ndipo ndilibe nazo vuto lopeza ndalama> m'banja."
KODI kuunika kumatanthauza "Ndimakonda zina zomwe ndimamva koma ndikhulupilira kuti ena mwa omwe angadzakhale okwatirana anga akhale osiyana titakwatirana." Izi ndizowopsa - monga kuyatsa magetsi achikaso. Mutha kukhala bwino, koma ????
YOFIIRA kuunika kumatanthauza kuti njira yomwe mnzanuyo angakhale nayo pankhaniyi ndiyosokonekera. Mumakhala otsutsana ndi zambiri zomwe mumamva ndipo zimawavuta kukhala nazo muukwati wanu.
Avereji ya Mtengo wa Ukwati
Ngakhale mitengo yam'madera imasiyanasiyana, mitengo yaukwati ku United States ikukwera kwambiri. Malinga ndi www.costofwedding.com, ukwati ku Camarillo, California, mwachitsanzo, pafupifupi $ 38, 245 ndi maanja komwe amawononga ndalama pakati pa $ 28, 684 ndi $ 47,806. Ndipo izi nthawi zambiri sizimaphatikizaponso mtengo wokondwerera tchuthi ndi zina zowonjezera! Ndi ndalama zochuluka bwanji zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito paukwati, ndi ndalama zingati zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito paukwati? Chofunika kwambiri ndi ukwati kapena ukwati?
Ndi zoposa theka la maukwati onse omwe amathetsa banja, zikuwonekeratu kuti palibe khama lokwanira lomwe limayikidwa muukwati. Nanga bwanji ngati awiri ali ndi ndalama zofanana paukwati monga momwe amachitira paukwati? Kodi izi zisintha zotsatira? Kodi chofunikira ndichani kuti muthane ndi mavuto aukwati mpaka "imfa itatilekanitse"? Ndi chikondi? Ndalama? Ngakhale? Kapena mwina ndi china chake? Kodi tikudziwa zochuluka motani za munthu amene tasankha kukwatira?
Nthawi zambiri, mabanja omwe akusudzulana amati, "Iye (kapena iye) wasintha ndichifukwa chake tikusudzulana." Malingaliro awo ndi akuti, "Tidasiyana ndipo tsopano tasiyana." Ndizosangalatsa kuti anthu ambiri angavomereze ndikuzindikira kuti pafupifupi aliyense ndi wosiyana ndi mnzake kuyambira tsiku loyamba laubwenzi wawo, nanga - kodi anthu amasinthadi? Mwina ayi. Koma tidatenga nthawi kuti timudziwe bwino mnzathu amene tidzakhale naye?
Pang'ono ndi pang'ono, ndikuganiza kuti ndi nthawi yoti tikambirane koyambirira kwaukwati kuti tikonze njira yodziwira maziko a ukwati, ndikuwonjezera mwayi wopambana. Mwina kutsindika kwatsopano pazotanthauza kuchita chinkhoswe kungakhale koyenera. Pakadali pano kwa ambiri, kukhala pachibwenzi kumatanthauza "Tikukondana ndipo tidzakhala ndi ukwati wabwino!" Nanga bwanji banja lalikulu? Mwina kukhala pachibwenzi kumatanthauza "Ndi mwayi wanga wotsiriza, wabwino kwambiri kuchita zonse zomwe ndikuyenera kuchita kuti ndizindikire zofunikira pakhazikitsidwe ka banja lolimba."
Cholinga chachikulu cha pulogalamu ya Magetsi a Magalimoto si kuonetsetsa kuti okwatirana akwatira, koma kuti ngati angaganize zokwatirana ngakhale atawunikiranso mitu makumi awiri ndi imodzi ija, amakwatirana ndi maso. Mukudziwa kwanga, izi zimachepetsa kufunika kwa chisudzulo. Potero, timakulitsa kwambiri mwayi wopeza chidziwitso chenicheni, chidaliro, chikondi, ndi kuvomereza.