Zamkati
Okwatirana kumene, mawu awa amakumbutsa zithunzi za anthu awiri akunjenjemera pa sofa ndi chikho cha khofi m'manja mwawo akusewera masewera a "Guess amene amaphika" ndikumaliza tsiku lawo ndi mabuku amalaibulale omwe anali atadutsa kale pansi pa mtengo wa apulo.
Komabe, zenizeni sizili izi; Komanso nyumba zambiri sizimabwera ndi mtengo wa apulo koma zimakhala ndi chipinda chapansi. Zochitika zaukwati ndizosiyana kwambiri ndi zomwe zimafalitsidwa.
Kukhala ndi banja losangalala ndikofunikira kukhazikitsa zofunika kuchita musanakhalire limodzi.
Nawu mndandanda wazinthu zomwe anthu omwe angokwatirana kumene ayenera kuchita kuti akhale ndiubwenzi wabwino komanso wokhalitsa.
1. Chitani chinthu chapadera limodzi
Izi, m'mawu osavuta, zikutanthauza kupanga chochita chogawana. Kwenikweni, ili ndi lingaliro loti maanja akuyenera kukhala ndi chidwi chokhazikitsa chikhalidwe chokwatirana chomwe ndi chawochokha komanso chosiyana mosiyanasiyana. Tonsefe moyo wathu wonse timalingalira za kudzipanga kudzera kubanja lathu komanso komwe tidachokera.
Kenako, tsiku lina mwadzidzidzi tinaganiza zokwatirana ndikumvetsetsa zina zatsopano. Amalangizidwa kwa maanja kuti ayamba kukhala ndi kanthu kwa iwo okha.
Izi zitha kukhala mwambo monga kukwera Lamlungu m'mawa kapena kukulitsa zina monga kuchereza alendo ndi kuwolowa manja.
Nthawi zina zitha kuvomerezana limodzi maloto ndikugwira ntchito kuti mukwaniritse monga ulendo wazaka 5 wopita ku Atlanta kapena Egypt.
Komabe, kuti mupeze chinthu limodzi muyenera kudziwa zomwe mnzanu akuchita, chiyembekezo ndi kukayikira, muyenera kukhala ndi chidwi ndi masomphenya anu, ndikuyenera kudzimana.
Kukhala ndi chinthu kumasangalatsa komanso ndichinthu chosavuta kuyika patsogolo.
2. Menyani Chiwonetsero
Izi zikutanthauza kuthana ndi mikangano ndi mikangano yomwe imabuka. Pali chifukwa chomwe olemba ndakatulo ndi olemba nyimbo amakopeka ndi zithunzi za Loweruka m'mawa wopanda nkhawa m'malo Lamlungu lodzaza ndi nkhawa. Mikangano ndi mikangano si ndakatulo, koma izi sizitanthauza kuti sizingachitike mwaluso.
Ndikofunika kuti maanja azindikire kuti kukangana kuli kosapeweka; akafika posachedwa mogwirizana ndi kuzindikira uku, kumakhala bwino.
Maanja akagwira ntchito molimbika wina ndi mnzake ndikumvetsetsa msana ndi kapangidwe ka mkangano wawo, amatha kukhazikitsa njira yodalirika. Izi zitha kuthandiza kukhazikitsa maziko aukwati wawo mtsogolo.
Chifukwa chake limbana mwachilungamo, zindikira zolakwa zako ndikupepesa ukalakwitsa. Kulimbana mwachilungamo sikusangalatsa koma ndikumakondana kwambiri ndipo kuyenera kukhala koyambirira kwa chaka choyamba komanso zaka zikubwerazi.
3. Sonkhanitsani chuma
Izi ndizofunikira zomwe sizinanene. Mukakwatirana, ndibwino kusonkhanitsa zinthu monga wothandizira, mlangizi wa zachuma ndi zina zambiri.
Onetsetsani kuti mumadziwa mnzanu, mumaphunzira kuphika, ndipo pitani ku laibulale ya kumudzi. Kwenikweni, yesetsani kudziwa zinthu zilizonse zomwe mungapeze kwanuko komanso mdera lanu.
Maukwati samakhala opanda kanthu, ndipo muyenera kudziwa komwe, momwe ndi nthawi yomwe mungaperekere ndi kuthandizira; dera lanu lingakuthandizeni mosavuta.
Izi ndizofunikira gawo lapaukwati litatha, ndipo mukalowa mu "Takhala pabanja kwanthawi yayitali, titani tsopano?".
4. Osadandaula
Ndi izi zonse zomwe zatchulidwazi, izi zingawoneke ngati zosamveka. Ukwati ndi khama ndipo ndiwodzipereka kwanthawi yayitali; Pakapita nthawi, mumalakwitsa zinthu zina. Kunong'oneza bondo nkwachibadwa.
Komabe, kudandaula sikuli bwino, kumva zinthu monga "Ndaphonya machenjezo" kapena "Sitiyenera kukwatirana koyambirira" - izi sizabwino.
Osaphonya zikwangwani, khalani otseguka nthawi zonse ndipo musadandaule kuti mwasankha. Onetsetsani kuti chibwenzi chanu chimawunika moyenera.
Dziwani kuti chipambano cha banja lanu chimadalira inu ndi mnzanu pamodzi. Mukadziwa zofunikira zanu, nonse muyenera kuziteteza ndikutsatira. Sinthani zomwe mukufuna, pewani zinthu zomwe zimakwiyitsa mnzanu ndikudzipereka ndikunyalanyaza pakufunika.
Yesetsani kukonzanso zinthu zofunika kuzichita pakafunika kutero ndipo muthane ndi mavuto m'banja mwanu. Daliranani wina ndi mnzake, tengani chithandizo kuchipatala ndipo musakakamizane wina ndi mnzake zinthu zikavuta.
Kumbukirani kuti kuponyera chopukutira m'banja lanu ndikosavuta koma kuchipangitsa kuti chikhale chosankha chabwino komanso chosangalatsa.