Zamkati
Maanja amakwatirana mwachikondi. Apeza anzawo omwe amakhala nawo ndipo ali okonzeka kukhala moyo wawo wonse kukhala mosangalala mpaka kalekale. Kumayambiriro kwa mgwirizano wawo, amapanga ukwati wawo kukhala chinthu chofunikira kwambiri. Komabe, okwatirana ambiri amaiwala kupitiliza kuyika ukwati wawo patsogolo akangobereka ana, ndipo izi zimapangitsa kuti mabanja ambiri azisudzulana.
Matenda a chisa chopanda kanthu
Mwadzidzidzi patatha zaka makumi awiri, ana achoka ndipo simukumbukira chifukwa chomwe mudakwatirana poyamba. Mwakhala ogona nawo ndipo mwaiwala momwe zimakhalira kukhala abwenzi komanso okonda.
Mabanja ambiri amafotokoza kuchepa kwakukulu kwakukhutira kwawo m'banja ana awo akabadwa. Ichi ndichifukwa chake ukwati uyenera kukhala patsogolo pa ana. Kuika mnzanu pamalo oyamba sikungachepetse chikondi chimene mumakhala nacho pa ana anu. Zimakulitsa, bola ngati muwawonetsanso chikondi.
Ikani ukwati wanu patsogolo
Kuika ukwati patsogolo kungakhale kovuta kukulunga mutu, koma ndikofunikira kuti banja likhale lolimba. Mwa kusapanga ukwati kukhala chinthu choyambirira, okwatirana amangonyalanyaza zosowa za wina ndi mnzake. Mkwiyo ungayambe kukulira, kusokoneza ubale wawo.
Ndizovuta kunena kuti ukwati uyenera kukhala woyamba kuposa ana anu. Zofunikira za ana ndizofunikira kwambiri ndipo ziyenera kukwaniritsidwa. Kunyalanyaza thanzi lawo komanso thanzi lawo sikungokhala kulera koyipa kokha koma nkhanza. Simuyenera kusankha kukhala kholo labwino kapena bwenzi labwino. Kupeza malire oyenera ndichinsinsi.
Zinthu zazing'ono
Kupangitsa mnzanu kumva kuti amakondedwa ndikukondedwa kungakhale kosavuta komanso kosangalatsa. Ndi zinthu zazing'ono zomwe ndizofunika ndikupangitsa mnzanu kumva ngati choyambirira.
- Khalani achikondi: kukumbatirana, kupsompsonana, kugwira manja
- Mupatsane moni: Moni ndikutsanzika, m'mawa wabwino ndi usiku wabwino
- Lembani malingaliro okoma: "Ndikukuganizirani", "Ndimakukondani", "Sindikudikira kuti ndidzakumanenso mtsogolo"
- Khalani akupereka: Perekani mphatso yaying'ono kapena khadi chifukwa choti
- Gwirani ntchito ngati gulu lamaloto: Kugwirira ntchito limodzi kumapangitsa malotowo kugwira ntchito
Zachikondi
Kusungabe chikondi muukwati ndikofunikira. Chikondi chimakhalapo pamene timakopeka ndikusamalirana. Kuti mukwaniritse zosowa za mnzanuyo mumafunika kumvetsetsa malingaliro awo. Kukondana ndi njira yosonyezera mnzanu momwe alili ofunika kwa inu. Kumbukirani kuti kukondana sikungokhala kokondana, koma ndikupatsana chikondi.
- Pitani masiku
- Kukopana wina ndi mnzake
- Khalani oyambitsa
- Kudabwitsana
- Cuddle
- Khalani odziwa limodzi
Kumbukirani kuti mukufuna kukhala ndi moyo wautali ndi mnzanu, choncho banja lanu liyenera kuyang'aniridwa ndi kuyesetsa tsiku ndi tsiku. Musamadziimbe mlandu poika banja lanu patsogolo. Dzikumbutseni kuti ana anu nawonso akupindula. Pakukhazikitsa ubale wabwino m'banja, zimakhazikitsa maziko amomwe angakhalire maubwenzi abwino. Chitsanzo cha banja losangalala chimathandizadi ndikulimbikitsa ana kuti azipanga ubale wabwino.
Nthawi yokhala ndi banja losangalala ndi nthawi zonse, osati kokha anawo atachoka panyumba. Simuchedwa kwambiri, ndipo simuchedwetsa kuti muike banja lanu patsogolo.