Zamkati
- 1. Mwamuna wodalirika ndi wamwamuna wokongola
- 2. Wachifundo komanso woganizira ena
- 3. Khalani oseketsa
- 4. Osasewera
- 5. Khalani otsogola anu
- 6. Maluso akumvetsera
- 7. Khalani okonda kwambiri komanso odziwa zambiri
Kodi mwatopa ndi chibwenzi cha maluwa otentha, akazi omwe amawoneka kuti sangathe kukhala olimba mtima komanso odziyimira pawokha? Kodi mumalota zokopa mayi wolimba, wodalirika, yemwe mumamverera ngati wofanana naye osati "mzukwa woyera"?
Ngati izi zikumveka ngati inu, nazi zina mwazomwe akazi olimba amayang'ana mwa mamuna.Pitilizani ndikudziphunzitsa nokha kuti mkazi wotsatira yemwe muli naye pachibwenzi ndi mtundu womwe mumakonda: wamakani, mwina, koma wosangalatsa, inde!
1. Mwamuna wodalirika ndi wamwamuna wokongola
Amuna ambiri amaganiza kuti ayenera kukhala zitsanzo zabwino kuti akope mkazi wamphamvu. M'malo mwake, mukawafunsa azimayi awa zomwe zimawoneka zokongola mwa amuna, chimodzi mwazinthu zoyambirira zomwe angakuwuzeni ndikuti amakonda munthu yemwe amadzipereka kuti azidzidalira.
Zowonadi, munthu akhoza kungokhala wowoneka bwino, koma ngati atalowa mchipinda momwe alili, amazindikiridwa.
Amayi olimba mwachilengedwe amakopeka ndi amuna omwe amapereka aura yodziwa kufunika kwawo, chifukwa chake ngati zosowa zanu zokhazokha zikugwira ntchito, mudzafunika kuyamba kukhulupirira phindu lanu ndikuwonetsa mbaliyo padziko lonse lapansi.
Palibe mkazi amene amafuna kuti azilimbikitsa ulemu wamwamuna wake nthawi zonse. Monga mayi wina adatiwuzira, "Mwamuna wanga sangakhale wokongola kwambiri m'chipinda china kwa ena, koma amaganiza kuti ndiamene, chifukwa chake inenso."
2. Wachifundo komanso woganizira ena
Amayi olimba azolowera kuchita zinthu pawokha ndikusamalira zosowa zawo. Koma sizikutanthauza kuti safunikira china chofunikira, makamaka amene amawadziwitsa kuti atha kudalira kuti akhale ndi msana wawo.
Kotero osanyalanyaza manja olingalira komanso mawu okoma mukamakopa mkazi wamphamvu.
Amatha kuwoneka ngati "safuna" izi, koma amuwerengera zambiri. Maluwa, chokoleti, khadi yopusa, positi ndi uthenga wachikondi, kapena kapu yayikulu yokha ya khofi yomwe adampangira ndikuyiyika pa desiki yake pomwe akugwira ntchito ... zonsezi zoganiza zimamuyandikira mumukumbutse kuti ngakhale atakhala wodziyimira pawokha, ndibwino kukhala ndi mnzanu yemwe akunamizira yang.
3. Khalani oseketsa
Amayi olimba amapita kwa amuna oseketsa. Simungakhale oseketsa osakhala anzeru, ndipo nawonso amakonda luntha.
Chifukwa chake nthabwala zazing'ono zonse zomwe zimapangitsa anzanu kukhala kuseka, muzigwiritsa ntchito momasuka ndi wokondedwa wanu wolimba.
Adzadya ngati shuga.
Monga momwe Achifalansa amanenera, "Museketse mtsikana ndipo ali pakatikati panu."
4. Osasewera
Amayi ena amatha kulekerera masewerawa chifukwa amaganiza kuti ndi gawo limodzi lokhala pachibwenzi. Mkazi wolimba sangayimire iyo. Chifukwa chake ngati mungachedwe kuyankha lembalo chifukwa mukuganiza kuti likukuthandizani kwambiri pachibwenzi, kapena nthawi zonse mumafika mochedwa masiku anu, kapena mumathawa akamakufunsani mafunso ena, kuyiwala chibwenzi ndi mkazi wamphamvuyo.
Sangalekerere masewera aliwonse omwe amasewera.
Chachikulu ndichakuti samasewera, mwina. Ndiwowona komanso wowona. Zomwe mumawona ndizomwe mumapeza.
5. Khalani otsogola anu
Amayi olimba amapita mofanana. Safuna udindo wokhala mayi wanu kapena wokondwerera.
Amafuna kuti mwamuna wake azikhala wodziyendetsa pawokha komanso wofunitsitsa kutero, osafunikira wina woti ayime pambali ndikuwasangalatsa.
Izi sizitanthauza kuti sangakupatseni khutu lomvera ngati mungafune bolodi kuti muthe kuthana ndi vuto kapena vuto. Koma ngati mukufuna wina wokutsimikizirani nthawi zonse kuti mukugwira ntchito yabwino, musayese kukopa mkazi wamphamvu. Sizigwira ntchito.
Apanso, chidaliro ndi zomwe amafuna mwa mwamuna wake.
6. Maluso akumvetsera
Amayi awa sangalekerere bwenzi lomwe latanganidwa kwambiri, lotanganidwa kwambiri kuti lisawachezere nawo akamagawana kena kake. Ngati akuwona kuti foni yanu ndiyofunika kuwerenga kuposa kumvetsera kwathunthu pamene akuyankhula, simudzakhala naye pachibwenzi kwanthawi yayitali.
Chimodzi mwazinthu zokopa kwambiri zomwe mungachitire mzimayi wamphamvu ndimamvadi zomwe wanena ndikusunga. Chifukwa chake nthawi yotsatira akadzayamba kugawana nanu kanthu — kaya kokhudza tsiku lake kapena moyo wake — tsegulani makutu anu, mumuyang'ane m'maso, ndipo mumvetsereni.
Adziwitseni kuti mwamumva mwa kugwedeza mutu wanu, kunena "pitirizani", kenako ndikubweranso ndi mafunso angapo okhudzana ndi zomwe angokuwuzani.
Amakukondani chifukwa cha izi; Amuna ambiri samapereka mphatso yakumvera zenizeni kwa anzawo.
7. Khalani okonda kwambiri komanso odziwa zambiri
Amayi olimba samapita kwa ofatsa, amuna oyamwitsa. Amafuna munthu wokonda kwambiri, mwamuna wofunitsitsa kutuluka m'malo ake abwino kuti ubalewo ukhale wolimba ndikuchotsa moyo wonse momwe angathere.
Alinso choncho ndipo amafunikira machesi azilakolako zake ndi mzimu wake wokonda kuchita zoipa.
Chifukwa chake gawanani naye zochitika zanu zachilendo koma zosangalatsa, ndipo kambiranani zinthu zovuta komanso zosangalatsa zoti muchite limodzi. Uyu si mkazi wanu wamba, wokhutira kuti azidya kwambiri Netflix kumapeto kwa sabata. Akufuna kupita kukasodza mikondo, kuthamanga marathon, ndikuyesa kupalasa. Amayi olimba amakonda kukhala adrenaline-junkies, chifukwa chake onetsetsani kuti inunso muli ngati mkazi yemwe akukutembenuzirani.