Zamkati
- 1. Kodi ndi zosowa zitatu zazikulu ziti pakalipano ndipo ndingakwaniritse bwanji?
- 2. Kodi zokumana nazo zabwino koposa komanso zoyipa zaubwana wanu ndi ziti?
- 3. Chofunika kwambiri ndi chiyani pa ubale wathu?
- 4. Kodi mumakonda kwambiri ubale wanji pakati pa anzanu ndi abale anu?
- 5. Kodi pali chilichonse chomwe ndimachita chomwe chimakusowetsani mtendere?
- 6. Kodi pali chilichonse chomwe chikukusowetsani mtendere chomwe sindikuchidziwa?
- 7. Kodi maloto anu ndi ati ndipo pali chilichonse chakulepheretsani kukwaniritsa malotowo?
- 8. Mukukhulupirira kuti ndiwosakhululukidwa chifukwa chiyani?
- 9. Kodi ndichifukwa chiyani ndipo ndi liti pamene mumamva kuti ndimakukondani kwambiri?
- 10. Tingawongolere bwanji moyo wathu wogonana?
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Posakhalitsa, zokambirana zachikondi zimasanduka zokambirana zosasangalatsa, zomwe zimangoyang'ana kwambiri zomwe mumadya ndikuti ndi ndani azitenga zovala.
Ambiri omwe angokwatirana kumene amakhulupirira kuti chibwenzi chawo sichidzasintha
Maubwenzi ambiri amalephera pomwe ngakhale mabanja achimwemwewa mosadzilekanitsa amatalikirana wina ndi mnzake ndipo amasokonezeka m'maganizo.
Maubwenzi omwe amachita bwino ngakhale amakhala ndi anthu omwe amachita zinthu mosiyanasiyana. Anthu awa ndi otsimikiza mtima kuti azikhala ndi zokambirana zazitali, zopindulitsa, komanso zotseguka m'malo mongokambirana za chakudya chamadzulo.
Kumbukirani zinthu ziwiri mukayamba kukambirana izi:
Choyamba, osangoyang'ana nthawi, yang'anani pa mnzanu.
Chachiwiri, dzipangitseni kukhala pachiwopsezo cha okondedwa wanu chifukwa izi zidzakuthandizani kulimbitsa chidaliro ndi kudalirana, kukuyandikitsani pafupi.
Otsatirawa ndi mafunso 10 oti mufunse mnzanu kuti akhalebe banja losangalala
1. Kodi ndi zosowa zitatu zazikulu ziti pakalipano ndipo ndingakwaniritse bwanji?
Ganizirani zinthu zofunika kwambiri zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala osangalala mu banja lanu ndipo kambiranani njira zopezera zosowazo ndi wokondedwa wanu. Kuchita zinthu zofunika kwa wokondedwa wanu kumalimbitsa ubale wanu ndichifukwa chake ili ndi limodzi mwa mafunso ofunikira kwambiri kwa maanja.
Chidziwitso ndi mphamvu!
Mabanja achimwemwe amadziwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri zomwe okondedwa wawo amafunikira ndipo amatha kuthana ndi zovuta zilizonse, limodzi.
2. Kodi zokumana nazo zabwino koposa komanso zoyipa zaubwana wanu ndi ziti?
Kudziwa zamomwe mnzanu adakumana nazo ali mwana kungakuthandizeni kumvetsetsa zomwe zamupanga kukhala wamkulu. Ili ndi limodzi mwa mafunso kwa maanja omwe angakuthandizeni kumvetsetsa komwe mnzanuyo akuchokera.
Kumvetsetsa kotereku kungakuthandizeni kuthana ndi kusiyana, kumabweretsa ubale wabwino.
3. Chofunika kwambiri ndi chiyani pa ubale wathu?
Yankho la funsoli lisintha mukamakula, chifukwa chake funsani funsoli pafupipafupi. Komanso, ili ndi limodzi mwamafunso omwe maanja angakuthandizeni kukhala othandizana wina ndi mnzake.
4. Kodi mumakonda kwambiri ubale wanji pakati pa anzanu ndi abale anu?
Ili ndi limodzi mwa mafunso okhudzana ndi chiyanjano omwe angakufunseni zomwe zingakupatseni pulani yomanga ubale wabwino.
Maanja nthawi zina zimawavuta kufotokoza zomwe akufuna mu banja lawo. Komabe, kuzindikira izi mu banja lina kudzakuthandizani kumvetsetsa ndikugwira ntchito pazomwe mukufuna.
5. Kodi pali chilichonse chomwe ndimachita chomwe chimakusowetsani mtendere?
Mabanja ambiri samayankha funsoli moona mtima kuti apewe mikangano. Komabe, ndikofunikira kuti wokondedwa wanu akhale wowona mtima ndipo muli omasuka kudzudzulidwa kuti mupewe mkwiyo kapena mkwiyo zomwe zingawononge ubale wanu mtsogolo.
Ili ndi limodzi mwa mafunso kwa maanja, pomwe nonse mumaphunzira kukhala omvera mukamadzudzulidwa kuchokera kwa wina ndi mnzake.
6. Kodi pali chilichonse chomwe chikukusowetsani mtendere chomwe sindikuchidziwa?
Ili ndi limodzi mwa mafunso abwino kuwafunsa maanja popeza mnzanu sangakhale nawo pamavuto ake kuti asakulemetseni.
Ndikofunika kuti mudziwane mavuto a anzanu kuti muthe kumvetsetsana, kuthandizana, ndi kumverana chisoni. Ili ndi limodzi mwa mafunso omwe maanja angafunse omwe athandize maanja kuti azisamala ndikulankhulana pomwe akulimbikitsidwa komanso khutu la wodwala.
7. Kodi maloto anu ndi ati ndipo pali chilichonse chakulepheretsani kukwaniritsa malotowo?
Funso limodzi lofunika kufunsa maanja za wina ndi mzake lomwe limawathandiza kumvetsetsa ndi kuthandizana.
Yankho la mafunso awiriwa limatha kusintha pakapita nthawi. Kufunsa funso ili kukupangitsani kudziwa zolinga za mnzanu ndipo kungakuthandizeni kupereka chithandizo ndi upangiri motsatira, kulimbitsa ubale wanu.
8. Mukukhulupirira kuti ndiwosakhululukidwa chifukwa chiyani?
Ili ndi limodzi mwa mafunso omwe maanja ayenera kufunsana kuti apewe zolakwa zamtsogolo kapena kuphwanya kukhulupirirana.
Nthawi zambiri maanja samakambirana zomwe zingawapweteketse komanso maanja kwambiri. Ndikofunika kukambirana mozama za zomwe zitha kukhumudwitsa mnzanu kuti ateteze chibwenzi chanu. Mafunso oterewa amawathandiza kuti afotokoze zomwe achite nawo bwino.
9. Kodi ndichifukwa chiyani ndipo ndi liti pamene mumamva kuti ndimakukondani kwambiri?
Ili ndi limodzi mwam mafunso ofunika kufunsa maanja.
Ndikofunikira kuti mnzanu adziwe mikhalidwe yosiyanasiyana yomwe mumakonda mwa iwo komanso zomwe nonse mukuyenera kumva kuti mulimbitse chibwenzi chanu ndikupitiliza kukhala banja losangalala. Mafunso oterewa kuti anthu okwatirana azifunsana amalimbitsa ubale wawo.
10. Tingawongolere bwanji moyo wathu wogonana?
Ili ndi limodzi mwa mafunso ofunikira kwa anthu apabanja kuti atukule moyo wawo wogonana.
Kusakhala pachibwenzi ndi chimodzi mwazifukwa zazikulu zakutali ndi kusagwirizana m'banja. Kumbukirani kukhala odekha komanso otsimikiza mukamakambirana zogonana, kuyang'ana kwambiri pazomwe mukufuna komanso zomwe mukufuna.
Mafunso kwa anthu omwe ali ndi zibwenzi zogonana, amathandiza abwenzi kumvetsetsa zomwe zimagwira ntchito ndi zomwe sizimalimbikitsa moyo wawo wogonana. Ngati banja lanu likukumana ndi chilakolako chogonana, mafunso anzeru oterewa atha kukhala njira yabwino kwambiri yosinthira moyo wanu wogonana.
Kukulunga
Mafunso awa oti maanja afunsane ndi njira yabwino yodziwira zomwe zimapangitsa banja kukhala labwino. Komabe, nkofunika kuti okwatirana asayang'ane mafunso awa kuti afunsane ngati njira ina yothana kapena kuwopsezana.
Kumbukirani, ubale wachimwemwe sikuti umangokhala ndi manja okhaokha, koma ndizazinthu zazing'ono zomwe zimapangitsa mabanjawo kukhala osangalala ndikuthandizira kuti banja lawo likhale lolimba.Mafunso awa oti afunsane wina ndi mzake ndi chida chofunikira kwambiri pakukulitsa kulumikizana, kumvana, komanso kukondana.