Zamkati
- 1. Sichinthu choyambirira m'moyo
- 2. Safuna kuti achite changu chongofuna kupeza phindu
- 3. Si maukwati onse amene amayenda bwino
- 4. Chikondi ndicho chofunikira
- 5. Ukwati umabweretsa kudalirana
- 6. Zimakhala zovuta kukhulupirira wina kwa moyo wonse
- 7. Osati chifukwa chenicheni chokwatirana
Pamene tikukula, ikudza nthawi m'moyo wathu pamene anthu omwe timakhala nawo, kaya abwenzi kapena abale athu, amakwatirana. Mwadzidzidzi, mutha kudzipeza nokha ngati muli motsatira mzerewu kapena mwayimilira zaukwati kwakanthawi. Tikukhala pagulu lomwe munthu akamakalamba amafunika kukwatira ndikukhala ndi banja. Aliyense wopitilira zaka izi amabweretsa nsidze zambiri.
Anthu okuzungulirani amakudikirani kuti mudziwe zifukwa zomwe simunakonzekere kukwatiwa. Kwa iwo, ngati mutakula kuposa zaka zina ndizovuta kupeza bwenzi loyenera. Chodabwitsa ndichakuti, ngakhale m'mabanja amakono kwambiri, kukwatira ukadakwanitsa zaka zimawonedwa ngati chinthu choyenera. Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe anthu safunira kukwatirana. Tiyeni tiwone zingapo za izo.
1. Sichinthu choyambirira m'moyo
Munthu wanzeru anati nthawi ina, ‘Ulendo waumwini. Asiyeni ayende ndi kudzipendera njira yawoyawo. ' Poyeneradi! Munthu aliyense padziko lino ali ndi zokhumba zawo ndi maloto awo. Ali ndi ziyembekezo zina kuchokera kwa iwo eni. Ena alipo omwe amafuna kugwira ntchito pamoyo wawo wonse, pomwe ena atha kukhala ndi maloto oyenda padziko lapansi.
Zachisoni, tonsefe timayamba kufotokoza momwe ena ayenera kukhalira moyo wawo ndikusokoneza mosazindikira m'miyoyo yawo.
Mwina,ukwati sindiwo wofunika kwambiri pakadali pano.
Ali ndi mndandanda wazomwe amachita zomwe adalakalaka kukwaniritsa zina kuposa kukwatiwa ali ndi zaka. M'malo mokakamiza aliyense kuti akwatire, ndikofunikira kuti mumvetsetse zomwe amayembekezera pamoyo wawo ndikuwathandiza.
2. Safuna kuti achite changu chongofuna kupeza phindu
Panali nthawi pamene ukwati unali wofunikira. Analamulidwa kukwatira ndikukhala ndi ana azaka zakubadwa. Komabe, zinthu zasintha. Pali zinthu zambiri zomwe zikuchitika pakadali pano kuti zaka zikwizikwi zina sizikufuna kuthamangira kukwatirana ndikuyambitsa banja, nthawi yomweyo.
Iwo, mwina, angafune kudziyimira pawokha, kufufuza ntchito yawo, ndikukula mwaluso asanatenge udindo wa wina.
Maukwati omwe adakonzedwa kapena kupanga zibwenzi ndiye chinthu chakale. Lero, ndizokhudza chikondi. Ukwati ndi gawo lalikulu m'moyo wa aliyense. Chifukwa chake, yemwe sakwatirana pakadali pano sangakonde kuthamangira izi.
3. Si maukwati onse amene amayenda bwino
Chimodzi mwazifukwa zosakwatirana ndi maukwati angapo osayenda bwino mdera. Malinga ndi lipoti, chiwerengero cha mabanja osudzulana ku USA ndi 53% mu 2018. Belgium ndiye akutsogola ndi 71%. Maukwati omwe akuthawa mwachangu sakupereka chitsanzo choyenera kwa achinyamata. Kwa iwo, banja silikhala ndi zipatso ndipo limabweretsa zowawa zam'malingaliro.
Kuyang'ana izi, zikuwonekeratu kuti iwo angaganize kuti kukwatiwa ndi amene mumamukonda sikutanthauza kuti kumabweretsa moyo wabwino komanso wachimwemwe.
Ichi ndichifukwa chake amakana kukwatiwa.
4. Chikondi ndicho chofunikira
Zaka zikwizikwi zambiri anganene kuti chikondi ndichofunika osati kuyanjana ndi boma. Titha kuyankhula zachitetezo ndikuvomerezeka pakati pa anthu, koma ndi nthawi zosintha, zinthu zikusinthanso.
Lero, okonda amakonda kukhala limodzi m'malo okhala m'malo kulengeza zakomwe amakhala anzawo kudziko lapansi pokwatirana.
Ngakhale lamuloli likusinthidwa kuti lifanane ndi malingaliro amakono a unyinji. Malamulo amathandizira maubale amoyo ndipo amateteza onse awiri. Anthu akukhala mwamtendere komanso ngati banja lomwe lili pachibwenzi. Izi ndi zitsanzo za momwe nthawi zasinthira.
5. Ukwati umabweretsa kudalirana
Ukwati ndi wogawa maudindo chimodzimodzi. Idzagwa ngati aliyense atenga udindo waukulu. Masiku ano, ambiri amakonda kukhala moyo waufulu, wopanda ntchito ina iliyonse. Sakonda kudalira kwamtundu uliwonse.
Kwa anthu omwe ali ndi malingaliro otere, ukwati sichinthu china koma khola lomwe limawachotsera ufulu ndikuwamangirira nyumba ndi maudindo ambiri osafunikira.
Ndiwo omwe angafune kukhala ndi moyo mwa iwo okha. Chifukwa chake, amapewa kukwatirana zivute zitani.
6. Zimakhala zovuta kukhulupirira wina kwa moyo wonse
Pali anthu omwe abedwa pazambiri zomwe zimawavuta kukhulupirira aliyense. Amakhala ndi anzawo ocheza nawo koma zikafika pakukhala moyo wawo wonse ndi winawake, amasiya.
Kudalira ndiimodzi mwazipilala za moyo wabwino m'banja. Ngati palibe kukhulupirirana, palibe funso lachikondi.
7. Osati chifukwa chenicheni chokwatirana
Chifukwa chiyani anthu amakwatirana? Iwo amazifunira izo. Iwo amakhumba icho. Akufuna kukwatira. Mufilimuyi 'Sangokhala mwa inu ayi', Beth (Jennifer Aniston) ali paubwenzi wokondana ndi chibwenzi chake Neil (Ben Affleck). Ngakhale akufuna ukwatiwo, Neil sakhulupirira. Chakumapeto pomwe akumva kuti akufuna, akufuna kuti Beth. Zomwezi zidachitikanso ku 'Kugonana ndi Mzinda ' kumene John ‘Mr. Big 'safuna ukwati wapamwamba ndipo amayamba kuzizira asanakwatirane.
Munthu sayenera kukwatira chifukwa nthawi yake ndiyabwino kapena anthu okuzungulirani kapena mabanja anu akufuna kutero.
M'malo mwake, ayenera kukwatira ngati ali ndi chifukwa kapena amakhulupirira chibwenzi ichi.
Zatchulidwa pamwambapa ndi zifukwa zodziwika bwino zosakwatirana zaka chikwi zomwe anthu ambiri amakhala nazo. Ukwati suyenera kukakamizidwa wina. Ndizochitikira pamoyo ndikumverera zomwe ziyenera kuyanjana.