Zamkati
- Kodi wokondedwa wanu akuthandizani moyo wanu kunja kwa chibwenzi chanu?
- Kodi mumakangana nawo mwamphamvu komanso mwachilungamo?
- Kodi mumakondana ndipo mumagonana?
- Kodi mumanyadira ndi zomwe wina aliyense wachita?
- Kodi mumakonda zinthu zofanana?
Anthufe tapangidwa kuti tikhale ndi ubale wabwino. Kulumikizana ndichikhalidwe chamunthu. Zachisoni, momwe timakhalira maubale nthawi zina zimatha kupweteketsa ndikusokoneza m'miyoyo yathu.
Nchiyani chimapanga ubale wabwino ndi wopambana? Kodi ubale wabwino ndi chiyani? Ili ndi funso lofunika kufunsa panthawi zina zaubwenzi. Mpaka mutha kupanga mndandanda wazinthu zathanzi komanso zopindulitsa kuchokera muubwenzi wanu mwina mutha kukhala pachibwenzi chomwe chadzaza ndi zowawa ndi chisokonezo. PALIBE CHIBWENZI CHABWINO, monga tikudziwa chimakhala ndi anthu awiri kapena kupitilira apo osiyana zosowa, zokhumba, ziyembekezo, malingaliro, malingaliro ndi malingaliro. Tonsefe tiyenera kukhala ndi mikangano pazosowa ndi zosowa, koma ndikuganiza kuti ndibwino kudziwa madigiri a kusamvana kwa chidwi ndi zomwe tiyenera kuyembekezera kuposa kudabwitsidwa.
Pansipa pali mindandanda yoti muganizire ngati ubale watsopano kapena womwe ulipo uli woyenera.
Kodi wokondedwa wanu akuthandizani moyo wanu kunja kwa chibwenzi chanu?
Kodi wokondedwa wanu amakulimbikitsani kukwaniritsa maloto anu, zolinga zanu, zokhumba zanu, zosangalatsa zanu, maubale ena apabanja komanso anzanu kunja kwa chibwenzi? Ngati inde, muli pachibwenzi chosakhala poizoni ndi wokondedwa. Ngati sichoncho, samalani, chifukwa ndi momwe maubwenzi ambiri oopsa amayamba.
Muyenera kukhala pachibwenzi chomwe mnzanuyo amakonda ndikusamala zomwe mumasankha, omwe mumasankha, momwe mumasankhira komanso mukamasankha zomwe zachitika kunja kwa chibwenzi. Ngati sakukondwera ndi moyo wanu kunja kwa chibwenzi chanu, muyenera kuthawa kapena kusiya munthuyo chifukwa ndiwodziwikiratu kuti ndi munthu woopsa.
Kodi mumakangana nawo mwamphamvu komanso mwachilungamo?
Kodi mnzanu sagwirizana ndi zolakwika m'moyo wanu? Kodi nonse muli ndi zosiyana zokonda zanu? Ngati inde, ndiye kuti ndiye munthu amene muyenera kukhala naye. Ngati sichoncho, yesani kukonza pakati panu nonse.
Chidziwitso: Ngati mumangokhalira kukangana ndipo pamapeto pake mumamenyana modzidzimutsa, siyani mnzanuyo. Ndi mkangano wongokhala wopanda chilungamo ndipo si chizindikiro cha ubale wabwino.
Inde, abwenzi sagwirizana pa nthawi ina ya chibwenzi chawo. Koma sikuyenera kukhala mtundu wa mikangano yomwe ingayambitse kuzunzidwa kapena kunyozedwa.
Kodi mumakondana ndipo mumagonana?
Kwa anthu ambiri, samakula atakhala pachibwenzi. Chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kukhala ndi mnzanu yemwe mumamukongola.
Sitikunena kuti muyenera kukhala ndi anthu omwe ali okongola kwambiri kapena owoneka ngati ma supermodel, koma muyenera kuwapeza okongola komanso oyenerana nawo.
Kulankhula zakugonana, simuyenera kukhala ndi munthu yemwe sagwirizana nanu zogonana. Wokondedwa wanu angafune kuti nonse mukhale ogonana pomwe inuyo mungafune kuchita zogonana mutangokwatirana - ichi ndi chitsanzo cha kugonana kosagwirizana.
Kuti ubale ukhale wathanzi komanso wopambana, muyenera kukhala ogwirizana pamaganizidwe, thupi komanso nzeru.
Kodi mumanyadira ndi zomwe wina aliyense wachita?
Muyenera kukhala ndi mnzanu yemwe monyadira amadzitama komanso kudzitamandira za inu ndi zomwe mwachita ku banja lake lonse, abwenzi komanso ogwira nawo ntchito.
Kodi mnzanu ndiwansanje ndi zomwe mwachita? Palibe vuto kuchitira nsanje zomwe anzanu achita koma muyenera kuzithetsa nthawi yomweyo.
Ngati muli pachibwenzi ndi mnzanu yemwe nthawi zonse amafuna kukuposani, thawanani ndikuthawa munthu ameneyu. Wokondedwa uyu nthawi zonse amakhala wansanje pazomwe mukupanga kapena kukwaniritsa. Uwu ndi mpikisano wopanda thanzi ndipo sizabwino konse kukhala ndi ubale wabwino.
Kodi mumakonda zinthu zofanana?
Ili ndi funso lomwe muyenera kufunsa musanakhale pachibwenzi. Kodi nonse mumagawana zinthu zofanana? Kodi nonse mumasangalala ndi chinthu china? Kodi muli ndi chidwi chokhudzidwa ndi zomwe mnzanu akuchita?
Mutha kusangalala kwambiri kukhala ndi munthu wina, koma sizitanthauza kuti muli ndi zinthu zokwanira zomwe zingasunge ubalewo ndikukambirana. Kukhala ndi munthu amene amasangalala chimodzimodzi, zosangalatsa monga momwe mumakhalira nthawi zonse zimakhala zabwino komanso chizindikiro cha ubale wathanzi komanso wopambana. Mutha kukhala nthawi yolumikizana ndikupeza zambiri za wina ndi mnzake pazomwe mumakonda kuchita limodzi kapena chidwi chofanana. Atha kukhala osangalala kuwonera mapulogalamu ena a TV limodzi, kuwerenga mabuku limodzi, kuchita chidwi ndi mafashoni kapena magalimoto ndi zina zotero.
Ngati mulibe chinthu chofanana ngati chizolowezi kapena chidwi, zidzakhala zovuta kukhala limodzi kwa nthawi yayitali, ngakhale ndizotheka kupanga zokonda pamodzi ndi zosangalatsa limodzi.