Zamkati
- Mwina simukufanana kwambiri
- Chibwenzi chanu chidzatero kuweruzidwa ndipo anafunsa
- Mutha kuthandizidwa ngati mwana
- Kukumana ndi mamembala kungakhale kovuta
- Kukonzekera zamtsogolo sikophweka
Maubwenzi a Meyi-Disembala siachilendo mdziko la Hollywood. Koma, kwa anthu omwe si olemera komanso otchuka, kukhala pachibwenzi chotere kumadza ndi zovuta zambiri. Kaya ndinu wamkulu kapena wamkulu, kukhala pachibwenzi ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi, padzakhala zovuta zomwe mungakumane nazo. Nazi njira zina zomwe muthane nazo zomwe zingakuthandizeni kulimbitsa ubale wanu.
Mwina simukufanana kwambiri
Poganizira kusiyana kwa zaka, zokonda zanu mwina zimasiyananso. Mutha kukhala ndi zovuta kuti musankhe nyimbo zomwe nonse mumakonda mukamakwera galimoto kapena kupeza mitu yoti muzikambirana mukamadya kadzutsa. Izi zitha kukupangitsani inu kapena mnzanu kukhumudwa nthawi zina, koma chofunikira ndikuganiza kunja kwa bokosilo. Pali zinthu zomwe nthawi zonse mumatha kuchita limodzi, payenera kuti panali china chake chomwe chakukokerani pafupi poyamba.
Mwanjira ina, yang'anani pa kufanana ndipo musawononge nthawi yambiri mukuganiza ndikukangana zakusiyana. Komanso, musawope kukumana ndi anzanu ndikupanga zatsopano pamodzi. Ikhoza kupereka malingaliro osiyana omwe nonse mungapeze olimbikitsa ndikuthandizani kuti muzimva mbali ya moyo wa wina ndi mnzake.
Chibwenzi chanu chidzatero kuweruzidwa ndipo anafunsa
Chinthu chimodzi chokhumudwitsa chomwe mungayembekezere kuchitika ndikufunsidwa mafunso amitundu yonse omwe sayenera kukhala ochita aliyense koma anu. Anthu amaganiza kuti mawonekedwe "achilendo" aubwenzi wanu amawapatsa ufulu woyankhapo. Osanena kuti kwa owonera oterewa, vuto lililonse lomwe mungakhale nalo, ngakhale litakhala loperewera bwanji, limangokhala chifukwa chakusiyana kwanu msinkhu. Komanso, anthu sakuvomerezabe akazi azibwenzi amuna akulu kuposa amuna omwe ali ndi akazi achikulire. Chifukwa chake, ngati muli pamalo ochepetsetsa, musadabwe anthu akamangoganiza kuti muli ndi mnzanu chifukwa cha ndalama.
Chofunikira ndikuti musalole kuti malingaliro osalingalira afike kwa inu. Anthu ndi ankhanza ndipo amakonda kuweruza chilichonse chomwe chimasiyana ndi zachizolowezi, ngakhale zitakhala zazing'ono. Njira yabwino yothanirana ndi izi ndikulingalira za njira yosavuta komanso yaulemu yowatsekera ndikupitiliza ndi moyo wanu. Komabe, ngati mitundu iyi ya ndemanga ikuchokera kwa abale anu, mungafunikire kukhala ndi nthawi yofotokozera zomwe mwasankha. Komabe, musalole kuti mawuwa akupwetekeni kapena kukupangitsani kukayikira za chibwenzi chanu. Mukudziwa chifukwa chomwe mumakhalira ndi mnzanu ndiye chinthu chokha chofunikira.
Mutha kuthandizidwa ngati mwana
Ngati ndinu wocheperako pachibwenzi, nthawi zina mungamve ngati mnzanu sakukuganizirani mokwanira. Amatha kukhala owongolera kwambiri kapena kuchita ngati ali ndi mayankho onse. Zifukwazi zimasiyanasiyana - atha kuchitira nsanje unyamata wanu, kapena pakhoza kukhala zovuta zina zomwe zikuyandikira. Akayamba kukuyimbirani pamaso pa anthu ena, limakhala vuto lalikulu.
Njira yabwino yothanirana ndi vutoli ndikulankhulana. Fotokozani momwe machitidwe awo amakupangitsani kumva, yesetsani kumvetsetsa zifukwa zomwe achitira ndikuwona ngati mungathetsere yankho limodzi. Kupatula apo, zaka sizofanana kukhwima chifukwa choti ndiwe wocheperako kuposa mnzako si chifukwa choti angakuchitire zosiyana ndi momwe angachitire ndi msinkhu wawo.
Kukumana ndi mamembala kungakhale kovuta
Ngati muli pachibwenzi ndi bambo wachikulire, kumuwuza banja lanu kumakhala kovuta. Achibale anu mwina samamvetsetsa kwenikweni poyamba, koma musataye mtima. Adzabwera akadzawona chisangalalo chanu limodzi. Chibwenzi chanu ndi abambo anu atha kukhala mabwenzi apamtima chifukwa ali pafupi msinkhu kuposa wokondedwa wanu ndi inu.
Chinthu china chofunika kukumbukira ndi kusazengereza. Musalole makolo anu kuganiza kuti simukukayikira zomwe mwasankha kapena kuti ndi "gawo chabe". Simungathe kuwatsimikizira kuti atenge chibwenzi chanu nthawi yomweyo, koma mutha kuwonetsa kuti inunso ndinu ofunitsitsa.
Kukonzekera zamtsogolo sikophweka
Mutha kukhala omasuka kulankhula za tsogolo lanu limodzi, komabe ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri paubwenzi wanu. Chimodzi mwazinthu zazikulu kwambiri za mabanja a Meyi-Disembala ndi ana. Muyenera kukambirana ngati mukufuna kukhala nawo. Ngati m'modzi wa inu atero kale, ngati mukufuna kukhala nazo zambiri. Zachidziwikire, chilengedwe sichiyenera kunyalanyazidwanso, makamaka ngati mukudziwa mnzanuyo akufuna kukhala ndi ana ndipo simungakwanitse kukwaniritsa cholakalakacho.
Muyeneranso kuvomereza kuthekera kwakuti ngati ndinu wocheperako pachibwenzi, tsiku lina mutha kudzasamalira wanthawi zonse. Kukhala munthawiyo ndikwabwino, koma simuyenera kunyalanyaza chowonadi chosapeweka chakuti mnzanu azikhala wamkulu kuposa inu.
Ngakhale anthu amati zaka ndi zochepa chabe, kuchita zibwenzi ndi munthu wam'ng'ono kapena wamkulu kuposa inu nthawi zambiri kumadza ndi zovuta zina zomwe zimafuna kuleza mtima ndi khama kuti muthe. Chachikulu ndichakuti ndinu nokha munthu amene mungasankhe yemwe mungakhale naye pachibwenzi, chifukwa chake khalani otsimikiza pazomwe mwasankha, gwirani ntchito limodzi, ndipo bola mukakondana komanso kulemekezana, zaka zikhala nambala chabe.
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