Zamkati
- Kodi kugonana kwa atsikana ambiri ndi chiyani?
- Pangani malo anu kukhala achikondi kwambiri
- Lembani zovala zanu
- Pangani chiyambi choyenera pakupanga chikondi
- Dziwani chilankhulo chanu chachikondi
- Musayime pambali pa epilogue
Kugonana ndi kukondana sizigwirizana. Ndiye, kodi kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumatanthauza chiyani?
Kugonana kwachikondi kumabweretsa zithunzi izi kwa mabanja ambiri.
- Kuyenda dzuwa kulowa m'mphepete mwa magombe oyera osalala
- Maluwa a maluwa ofiira ataliatali kubwera kwanu kapena kuntchito kwanu
- Bokosi lazosangalatsa kwambiri ku Switzerland zamkaka zamkaka yaperekedwa pakhomo panu
- Chakudya chamakandulo zopangidwa ndi zakudya zomwe mumakonda komanso champagne
Zonsezi zomwe zimatsatiridwa ndi kugonana kwachifundo kwambiri, kwachikondi komanso kopambana.
Zachidziwikire, kwa ambiri aife izi ndizongopeka zakanema, koma pali njira zambiri zopangira kugonana (komanso moyo!) Wokondana kwambiri.
Pali malangizidwe osangalatsa achiwerewere omwe mungatsatire kuti muchepetse zomwe mumakonda pamoyo wanu ndikusangalala ndi kugonana kwabwino kwambiri ndi bae wanu.
Chifukwa chake, musayang'anenso kwina pazakugonana! Tiyeni tigwere m'mutu wachikondi 101
Kodi kugonana kwa atsikana ambiri ndi chiyani?
Tisanapange malingaliro olimbikitsira kugonana m'banja, tiyeni timvetsetse kuti aliyense amapanga mapu amalingaliro azomwe amakonda.
Malingaliro anu okonda zachikondi atha kukhala osiyana kwambiri ndi a BFF anu, omwe atha kukhala osiyana kwambiri ndi malingaliro omwe anzanu akuofesi amaganiza pazomwe zimakhala zachikondi, ndi zina zotero.
Chifukwa chake, momwe mungagonane pogonana pomwe mulibe gawo limodzi lomwe lingakwaniritse mayankho onse kuti muthe kukondana?
Kuti musinthe ubale wanu kuchokera ku blah kukhala wachimwemwe, ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti anthu ambiri ali ndi malingaliro pazomwe zimakhudzana ndi kugonana.
Choyamba, anthu awiri omwe amakondanadi ndi poyambira.
Mutha kukhala ndi nthawi yabwino kwambiri ndi munthu wina osakhala "ofanana" kapena "okondana," koma mwanjira ina chiwonetsero chachikondi sichimawoneka ngati chofunikira pamalingaliro amenewo.
Chifukwa chake mwachidule, ndizofunikira ziti pakumasulira kwanu zachikondi, komanso momwe mungakwaniritsire cholingachi?
Nditenga limodzi kuchokera pa Danga B, awiri a nambala 117, tsopano ipanga nambala 46. Zikumveka zosokoneza?
Inde, zinthu zomwe zimayambitsa kugonana zimangokhala ngati amodzi mwamankhwala atali kwambiri, osokoneza omwe mumapeza m'malesitilanti ena achi China. Tiyeni tiwone ena mwa iwo kuti ayambitsenso chibwenzi chanu.
Pangani malo anu kukhala achikondi kwambiri
Mukuwona kuti mukumverera kuti ndinu okondana kwambiri?
Kodi ndi panyumba panu, kapena m'malo osiyana, kumene zatsopanozi zimawonjezera nyengo yachikondi?
Ngati ili kunyumba, mumakonda monga nyimbo, kuyatsa kosiyanasiyana, nsalu zokoma, ndi maluwa pogona?
Kodi mumapanga malo okondana kuti mukweze madzulo (kapena masana, m'mawa, chabwino, nthawi iliyonse)? Kapena kodi malo anu achikondi amaphatikizapo kutengeredwa kwina komwe simunakhaleko konse?
Ingokumbukirani, ngakhale zingawonekere kukhala zosasangalatsa kapena zachikondi, kukhala ndi malo oyesera pagulu sikuli koletsedwa kokha, zitha kukhala zowchititsa manyazi ngati zingapangitse tsamba kukhala nyuzipepala yakomweko!
Lembani zovala zanu
Kodi mumakondana kwambiri kuvala china chachigololo ndikuwulula (ngati ndinu mkazi) kapena dapper ndi suave a James Bond (ngati ndinu mwamuna)?
Zachidziwikire, izi zimamveka ngati chovala chosokeretsa, koma pali chifukwa.
Anthu ambiri amakondana kwambiri akavala zovala zomwe zimawoneka ngati zachikondi. Amuna ndi akazi amatha kumva zachikondi atavala ma jeans ndi malaya amkati.
Zovala siziyenera kukhala zomangira, zingwe za g ndi zovala zamkati kuti zikhale zokongola!
Anthu ena zimawoneka kuti kuvala zovala zabwino kumakhala kosangalatsa.
- Romeo ndi Juliet?
- Cleopatra ndi Mark Antony?
- Scarlett ndi Rhett?
Dziwani zovala zomwe zimakupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu achigololo ndipo mupite nazo!
Pangani chiyambi choyenera pakupanga chikondi
Zomwe mumachita musanafike kumapeto kwa chikondi chanu ndi mtundu wamasewera, ndipo ndizofunikira kwambiri monga chiwonetsero chenicheni.
Kodi nonse mumakonda kuchita chiyani?
A filet mignon ndi truffles chakudya chamadzulo ku Chateau d'Amor, malo odyera okwera mtengo aku France, kapena kudya ndikuphwanya hamburger ya Double Double, kugwedeza ndikuwotchera ku In-N-Out kwanuko? Kapena china chake pakati?
Zosankha zonsezi ndizomwe zimakupangitsani kuti muzisangalala.
Mkhalidwe wodyera ukhoza kuwonjezera kukondana kwamadzulo.
Maganizo abwino, phokoso la mafunde kutali, kuyatsa kwanzeru, mipando yabwino, ndi chidwi (kapena osasamala!) ntchito onse atha kuwonjezera kuyamba kodabwitsa usiku wachikondi.
Ndipo pambuyo pa chakudya chamadzulo, nanga bwanji kanema?
Pomwe ma chick amtundu nthawi zonse amakhala achikondi, itha kukhala nthawi yakanema wachikondi ndi pempho lapadziko lonse lapansi. Nthawi zonse kubetcha kwabwino: "Casablanca".
Dziwani chilankhulo chanu chachikondi
Palibe chofunikira kwambiri muubwenzi uliwonse kuposa kulumikizana momveka bwino ndikupezana chilankhulo chachikondi.
Chofunika kwambiri, zinthu zakugonana zimaphatikizaponso kulankhulana momasuka ndi momasuka, chikondi, zokonda limodzi, ndi kuthandizana mu ubale monga ma cogs ena pagudumu laubwenzi amasangalala.
Koma Nthawi zina kuyankhula kwambiri za chibwenzi kumathetsa chibwenzi, kotero malingaliro ali osakanikirana pazomwe mungakambirane za moyo wachikondi ndi wokondedwa wanu. Komabe, kukondana komwe kumabweretsa kugonana kumapangitsa kuti zinthu ziziwayaka bwino pakati pa okwatirana.
Mwachitsanzo, bungwe la Gottman Institute limati, "muyenera" kumangokambirana mosalekeza za kugonana ", koma anthu ena sangasangalale ndi zokambirana zosalekeza zokhudza kugonana.
Kulinganiza mitu mokwanira komanso kukondera koyipa kumatha kupanga kukondera kwenikweni kwa mabanja ambiri.
Musayime pambali pa epilogue
Monga chiwonetsero chabwino ndi kugonana, nthawi yogonana ndiyofunikanso. Wotsalira nthawi zambiri amakhala nthawi yokambirana moona mtima.
Chifukwa cha mankhwala ena omwe amamasulidwa pachimake, mutha kumva kuti muli pafupi kwambiri ndi mnzanu panthawiyi.
Kutengera mawonekedwe, inu ndi mnzanu mutha kukambirana:
- Zomwe zimamveka bwino
- Zomwe mukufuna kuyesanso
- Mwinanso mukambirane nkhani yatsopano yomwe mungafune kuyesa muubwenzi wanu wapamtima
Zachidziwikire, anthu ena atha kungofuna kugona, onetsetsani kuti muzindikire ngati ndi choncho ndipo musamapitirire ngati malo ochezera!
Kukondana m'banja sikuyenera kuzimiririka, chifukwa kumakhudzana ndi kukondana, kugonana komanso kukhala ogwirizana.
Kukondana nthawi yogonana kumatha kukhala kusowa muukwati kapena chibwenzi pomwe m'modzi mwa iwo sangazindikire kufunikira kwakugonana kwakanthawi kochepa kwa banja lawo komanso moyo wawo wonse.
Komanso, kuti mukulitse chikondi chanu, ndikulimbikitsa kukondana kwanu, ndibwino kuti muwone ngati ali pachibwenzi.
Tikukhulupirira, nonse awiri mudzakhala ndi chidwi chofananira kotero kuti m'modzi sangasiyidwe akugona ndikuyang'ana kudenga.
Kugonana ndichinthu chofunikira kwambiri muubwenzi ndipo kumangopeza bwino pamene chibwenzi ndi nthawi ndizofanana pa equation.