Zamkati
- Lankhulani ndi mnzanu
- Lankhulani ndi aliyense
- Palibe karoti kapena ndodo yapadera
- Khalani ndi nthawi yambiri pamodzi
Aliyense amadziwa nkhaniyo, anthu amakwatirana, amakhala ndi ana, zinthu zimatha, kenako nkumatha. Funso ndilakuti, chimachitika ndi chiyani kwa ana?
Ngati ana ndi achichepere kwambiri kuti sangapite kudziko lina pawokha, nthawi zambiri, ngakhale nthawi zina amakhala ndi abale awo, amakhala ndi kholo limodzi, ndipo winayo amalandila ufulu.
Mamembala onse am'banja lomwe limavutikira kuyesetsa kuti azisamalira okha ndikupitiliza ndi moyo wawo. Ndizovuta, koma amayesetsa momwe angathere.
Ndiye tsiku lina, kholo lomwe mwana amakhala amakhala akuganiza zokwatiranso. M'modzi kapena onse awiri omwe angokwatirana kumene atha kukhala ndi ana muukwati wawo wakale. Ndi mwayi wachiwiri wachimwemwe, kapena sichoncho?
Nawa maupangiri aukwati wachiwiri wachimwemwe ndi ana.
Lankhulani ndi mnzanu
Ndi gawo loyamba lodziwikiratu. Kholo lobadwalo limadziwa bwino momwe mwanayo angachitire atakhala ndi kholo lopeza. Nthawi zonse zimakhala zochitika. Ana ena adzakhala okonzeka koposa, osimidwa ngakhale, kulandira kholo latsopano m'miyoyo yawo.
Ena adzakhala opanda chidwi nayo, ndipo pali ena omwe adzadana nayo.
Tidzangokambirana pazokhudza ana omwe sangalandire dongosolo latsopanoli. Banja losangalala lachiwiri silotheka ngati pali mikangano pakati pa ana ndi kholo lawo latsopano. Ndi chinthu chomwe chingadzithetsere pakapita nthawi, koma kungoyankha pang'ono panjira sikungapweteke.
Lankhulani ndi mnzanu, kambiranani ndikuyembekezera momwe mwanayo angachitire atakhala ndi banja latsopano komanso zomwe makolo onse angauze kuti apite patsogolo.
Lankhulani ndi aliyense
Pambuyo paukwatiwo atakambirana pakati pawo, ndi nthawi yoti mumve kuchokera kwa mwanayo ndikukambirana. Ngati mwanayo alibe nkhani zakukhulupirira, azikhala owona mtima, mwina opweteka m'mawu awo.
Khalani wamkulu ndipo mutenge. Ndi chinthu chabwino, mawu akachulutsa, ndi oona mtima kwambiri. Chowonadi ndichofunika kwambiri kuposa kusamala pakadali pano.
Chifukwa chake yambani ndi kukhazikitsa malingaliro oyenera. Chotsani zamagetsi zonse (kuphatikizapo zanu), zimitsani TV, ndi zina zosokoneza. Palibe chakudya, madzi kapena msuzi. Ngati mungathe, chitani kwina kulikonse, monga patebulo. Ngati kwinakwake mwanayo akumva kukhala wotetezeka, monga m'chipinda chawo, amva mosazindikira kuti akhoza kukuthamangitsani kuti mumalize zokambiranazo. Zingoyambitsa china choyipa.
Chosiyana ndichonso ngati amva kuti atsekerezedwa komanso atsekerezedwa.
Musafunse mafunso otsogolera monga, Kodi mukudziwa chifukwa chomwe mwabwerera kuno, kapena china chake chopusa, mukudziwa kuti ndangokwatirana kumene mukumvetsetsa tanthauzo lake? Zimanyoza luntha lawo ndipo zimawononga nthawi ya aliyense.
Pitani molunjika kumapeto.
Kholo lobadwira limatsegula zokambiranazo ndikudziwitsa onse awiri za zomwe zachitikazo. Tonse awiri tsopano tili pabanja, ndinu kholo lopeza komanso mwana, muyenera kukhala limodzi, ngati mungalimbane wina ndi mnzake zikhala zopanda pake.
Chinachake motsatira izi. Koma, anawo ali ndi ufulu wogwiritsa ntchito mawu okhwima, koma akulu amayenera kutero ndikuchita bwino kwambiri kuposa momwe ndanenera kale.
Akulozera onse omwe akuyenera kumvetsetsa -
- Wopeza akayesa kusinthanitsa weniweni wanu
- Wopeza akamasamalira mwanayo ngati kuti ndi wawo
- Wopeza akachita izi chifukwa ndi zomwe kholo lobadwa limafuna
- Mwanayo adzapatsa kholo lopeza mwayi
- Onse azimvana chifukwa onse amakonda kholo lenileni
Zinthu zomwe simuyenera kunena -
- Yerekezerani kholo linalo ndi kholo lopeza
- Wopeza samachoka (ndani akudziwa?)
- Backstab kholo linalo
- Mwanayo alibe chosankha (Satero, koma osanena)
Yendetsani zokambiranazo kuti muzilingalira za kholo lobadalo. Iyenera kutha chifukwa onse awiri amakonda kholo lobadalo. Adzachita zonse zomwe angathe kuti azigwirizana.
Maziko a banja lanu lachiwiri losangalala ndi ana ayenera kukhala achikondi, osati malamulo. Sichiyenera kuyamba bwino nthawi yomweyo, koma bola ngati simukufuna kudyana pakhosi, ndichabwino.
Palibe karoti kapena ndodo yapadera
Osakulipira mopitirira muyeso kuti musangalatse mwanayo. Khalani nokha, koma siyani ntchito zonse zakulanga kwa kholo lobadwa.
Mpaka ikafike nthawi yoti muvomerezedwe kuti ndi gawo la banja, kholo lokhalo lobadwa ndilokha lomwe lingalange chilango chazolakwa. Osatsutsana ndi kholo lobadalo, mosatengera zomwe akuchita. Zinthu zina zitha kuwoneka zankhanza kwambiri kapena zopepuka kwa inu, koma simunalandire ufulu wakuganiza panobe. Idzabwera, ingokhalani oleza mtima.
Kulanga mwana yemwe sakukulandirani ngati kholo lawo (zakuti), kungokugwirani ntchito. Ndizokomera mwana, zowona, koma osati banja lonse. Kungobweretsa chidani pakati pa inu ndi mwanayo komanso mikangano yomwe ingachitike ndi mnzanu watsopanoyo.
Khalani ndi nthawi yambiri pamodzi
Idzakhala Honeymoon season part 2 ndi ana. Ndizosangalatsa ngati awiriwo atha kupeza njira yocheza limodzi. Koma nyengo yomwe yangokwatayi idzakhala ndi banja lonse. Chilichonse chomwe mungachite, musatumize ana kumayambiriro kwaukwati kuti mukakhale ndi mnzanu watsopano.
Pokhapokha ana anu atadana ndi makolo awo owabereka, adzadana ndi kholo lawo latsopanolo ngati atawatumiza kwakanthawi. Ana amachitanso nsanje.
Chifukwa chake yambitsani miyambo yatsopano yabanja, pangani zochitika momwe aliyense angagwirizane (chakudya chimagwira ntchito). Aliyense amangofunika kudzipereka ndikukhala nthawi yayitali limodzi. Zikhala zodula, koma ndizo ndalama.
Pitani kumalo komwe mwana angafune, zikakhala ngati chibwenzi chotsatira, ndi kholo lobereka ngati gudumu lachitatu.
Palibe chinsinsi chokhala ndi banja lachiwiri losangalala ndi ana. Fomuyi ndiyofanana ndi banja loyamba.
Achibale akuyenera kukondana komanso kukhala bwino ndi anzawo. Pankhani yokwatira m'banja losakanikirana, pali njira yowonjezera yowonjezera banja.