Zamkati
- Zifukwa zosungilira chibwenzi
- 1. Kugwa mchikondi ndi abwana anu
- 2. Kugwa mchikondi ndi wokondedwa wanu wapamtima
- 3. Kugwa mchikondi ndi munthu wapabanja
- 4. Kukhala ndi zovuta zowulula zakugonana kwako
- 5. Kukondana ndi wina motsutsana ndi zofuna za kholo lako
- Ubale Wachinsinsi ndi Wachinsinsi
- Momwe mungasungire chibwenzi mwachinsinsi - kodi mungachichite?
- Zomwe muyenera kukumbukira ngati muli pachibwenzi chachinsinsi
Kukhala pachibwenzi ndi kokongola chabe ndipo kumatha kubweretsa chisangalalo m'moyo wa munthu koma bwanji ngati ubale wanu uli wovuta kwambiri kuposa momwe timadziwira? Kodi mudaganizapo kuti muli pachibwenzi chinsinsi? Ngati ndi choncho, kodi mukuganiza kuti ndizosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa kapena mumaziona ngati zopweteka komanso zolakwika?
Anthu amasunga ubale wawo kukhala chinsinsi pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana - zowona kapena ayi, ichi ndichinthu chomwe anthu samakonda kukambirana, chifukwa chake tiyeni tipitilize kukumba mozama mdziko lachikondi ndi zinsinsi.
Zifukwa zosungilira chibwenzi
Mukayamba chibwenzi, sichimakhala chosangalatsa kwambiri? Mukungofuna kuzilemba pazama TV anu ndikudziwitsa aliyense kuti mwakumana ndi "amene" koma bwanji ngati simungathe? Bwanji ngati mutalowa muubwenzi pomwe mukuyenera kusunga chinsinsi kwa pafupifupi aliyense - izi zingakupangitseni kumva bwanji?
Pakhoza kukhala zifukwa zingapo zosungira chinsinsi cha ubale - dziganizireni nokha ngati Romero ndi Juliet amakono. Nazi zina mwazifukwa zomwe "ubale wathu" umakhala "ubale wathu wachinsinsi".
1. Kugwa mchikondi ndi abwana anu
Ngati mumayamba kukondana ndi abwana anu kapena oyang'anira nthawi yomweyo ndipo nonse mukudziwa zotsatira za chikondi ichi - ndiye kuti muyenera kuyembekezera kuti ubale wanu uzikhala wachinsinsi kwa ena onse - makamaka kudzera pa TV.
2. Kugwa mchikondi ndi wokondedwa wanu wapamtima
Kodi mungatani mukapezeka kuti mukugwera mkazi kapena mwamuna wakale kapena bwenzi lanu lapamtima la mnzanu wapamtima, mlongo kapena ngakhale munthu amene mumamukonda? Ngakhale titamasulidwa, palinso zochitika zina zomwe anthu ena sangamvetse. Kuchita zibwenzi ndi mwamuna wakale wa bwenzi lanu lapamtima ndichinthu chomwe anthu ambiri sangasangalale nacho, chifukwa chake ubale wachinsinsi umayembekezeredwa.
3. Kugwa mchikondi ndi munthu wapabanja
Chibwenzi chachinsinsi chimachitikanso mukayamba kukondana ndi munthu amene ali pabanja. Zachisoni koma zowona - pali milandu yambiri ngati iyi. Kukhala pachibwenzi pomwe munthu amene umamukonda ali wokwatiwa kale si tchimo chabe koma ndikutsutsana ndi lamulo. Chifukwa chake, mukafunsa kuti "kodi chibwenzi chobisika sichabwino?" ndiye yankho ndi inde kwa uyu.
4. Kukhala ndi zovuta zowulula zakugonana kwako
Chifukwa china chomwe anthu amakhala pachibwenzi chachinsinsi ndi chifukwa chokhala pagulu komanso zikhulupiriro. Zachisoni, mamembala a LGBTQ akadali ndi vutoli ndipo ena amangosankha kukhala ndiubwenzi wobisika m'malo moyang'ana malingaliro awanthu.
5. Kukondana ndi wina motsutsana ndi zofuna za kholo lako
China ndichakuti mukalonjeza makolo anu kuti mudzapeza ntchito yabwino ndikukhala ndi tsogolo labwino koma pamapeto pake mumayamba kukondana - achinyamata ambiri amakonda kusunga chinsinsi m'malo mokhumudwitsa makolo awo.
Ubale Wachinsinsi ndi Wachinsinsi
Tamva zakusiyana kwa maubwenzi achinsinsi ndi ena koma timadziwa bwanji? Izi ndi zophweka.
Amuna omwe amakonda kusunga chibwenzi chawo payekha sangakhale ndi vuto kuwonana kapena kulola anthu ena kudziwa kuti ndi banja pomwe chibwenzi chinsinsi chimatanthauza kuti chimayenera kukhala chinsinsi kwa anthu onse.
Awiri angafune ndikusankha kusunga ubale wawo mwachinsinsi komanso kupewa kukhala nyenyezi mumaakaunti anu ochezera, banja lomwe lingasunge chinsinsi chaubwenzi silingaloledwe kuwonedwa limodzi ngakhale ndi mabanja awo.
Momwe mungasungire chibwenzi mwachinsinsi - kodi mungachichite?
Kusunga chinsinsi chaubwenzi si nthabwala. Ndizovuta ndipo nthawi zina zimakhala zopweteka. Kwa ena, zingawoneke zosangalatsa poyamba koma pakapita nthawi, chinsinsi chimakhala chosungulumwa. Mabodza ndi zifukwa zimakhala chizolowezi ndipo mwina mungafune kufunsa ngati uwu ndi ubale weniweni.
Ambiri angafune kukhala ndi lingaliro lamomwe angasungire chinsinsi chaubwenzi, ndipo apa pali zina mwazinthu zofunika kuzikumbukira.
- Mukakhala ndi anzanu, abale kapena ogwira nawo ntchito, onetsetsani kuti palibe chikondi pakati pa inu nonse makamaka ngati ubale wachinsinsi uwu ndiwokhudza ntchito.
- Khalani osasamala pazokambirana zanu ndipo musalole kuti zokhumudwitsa zikulepheretseni kuwonetsa momwe mukumvera.
- Palibe zithunzi kapena zolemba. Khalani kutali ndi zomwe mumakonda kuchita pa TV. Ziribe kanthu momwe mukufuna kudziwitsa dziko lapansi - zisungeni nokha.
- Osamayenda limodzi. Ili ndi gawo limodzi lokhumudwitsa makamaka mukawona kuti mulibe ufulu ngati banja lina lililonse. Simungathe kusungitsa malo mu malo odyera abwino; simungapite limodzi pazochitika ndipo simungathe kukhala nthawi yayitali limodzi kapena kuwonedwa mgalimoto limodzi. Zovuta? Ndithudi!
- Ubale wachinsinsi umatanthauzanso kuti sungathe kuwonetsa momwe akumvera. Kodi mungatani ngati wina akunyengerera mnzanu koma popeza simungadziwitse aliyense, muyenera kudziletsa kuti musakwiye - wovuta!
Zomwe muyenera kukumbukira ngati muli pachibwenzi chachinsinsi
Ngati mumapezeka kuti bwenzi lanu kapena bwenzi lanu akufuna kusunga chinsinsi ndiye kuti ndi nthawi yosinkhasinkha. Choyamba, pendani mkhalidwewo ngati ndiwovomerezeka kapena ayi, ngati ndi tchimo kapena ngati zovuta ndizovuta pang'ono. Ganizirani zomwe mungasankhe - ngati mukuganiza kuti mutha kukonza zinthu kuti aliyense adziwe kuti mukukondana chitani zomwezo.
China choyenera kukumbukira mukakhala pachibwenzi chinsinsi ndikuganiza mozama za zotsatira, zifukwa komanso kutsimikizika kwa chisankhochi.
Monga imodzi mwa szokambirana za ecret zimati,
"Ngati ubale ndichinsinsi, simuyenera kukhalamo".
Dzifunseni nokha, chifukwa chiyani kusunga chinsinsi? Kodi zifukwa zake ndi zomveka? Ngati ndi choncho, kodi zosintha zina kapena sizingathetsere vutoli? Ganizirani ndi kusanthula mkhalidwe wanu. Khalani ndi liwu ndikudziwitsa mnzanuyo zomwe mukuganiza. Palibe cholakwika ndi ubale wachinsinsi koma sitikufuna kuti ukhale ubale womwe tidzakhale nawo zaka zikubwerazi.