Zamkati
- Mapulogalamu azibwenzi a iwo omwe akufuna chibwenzi chofunikira
- Kodi "kukhala pachibwenzi chenicheni" kumatanthauza chiyani?
- Zizindikiro za chibwenzi zikukula
- Kusunthira mu gawo la "ubale weniweni"?
- Kodi kukhala pachibwenzi kumangokhala pachibwenzi?
Ngati mukugwiritsa ntchito mapulogalamu azibwenzi pa intaneti, kapena pulogalamu ya chibwenzi yaulere, mukudziwa kuti pali maubwenzi osiyanasiyana monga momwe anthu akufunira ubale.
Mausiku amodzi, Mabwenzi Omwe Amalandira Ubwino, polyamory, kugonana kosagwirizana, maubale otseguka, kukhala ndi mkazi m'modzi, maubale wamba komanso maubale. Ndipo ichi ndi nsonga chabe ya madzi oundana! Koma iyi si nkhani yofufuza njira zosiyanasiyana zomwe anthu amapeza anzawo. Munkhaniyi tiona za ubale wamphamvu. Kodi ndi chiyani, ndipo mumachipeza bwanji?
Mapulogalamu azibwenzi a iwo omwe akufuna chibwenzi chofunikira
Ngati mukugwiritsa ntchito mapulogalamu azibwenzi kuti mupeze zina zofunika kwambiri, mungalangizidwe kuti muziyang'ana kwambiri mapulogalamu omwe ali ndi mbiri yabwino yopeza chibwenzi. Sichingakhale Tinder, yomwe idadziyambitsa yokha koyambirira ngati pulogalamu yazokonda kucheza, ngakhale pali mabanja ambiri odzipereka, ngakhale maukwati, omwe adachitika chifukwa cha Tinder.
Koma njira yotsimikizika kwambiri yopezera chibwenzi chachikulu ndikugwiritsa ntchito mapulogalamu omwe amakopa anthu ena ofanana nawo. Masamba omwe amakonda kwambiri pa intaneti omwe akufuna kuti akhale pachibwenzi ndi
- Akigunnaharichou, Kouchiken
- Match.com
- Kameme TV
- Chabwino
- Bumble
- Khofi Amakumana ndi Bagel
- Mgwirizano
- Kamodzi
Ovomereza-nsonga: Kuti mukwaniritse osakwatiwa ena olimba, perekani ndalama kuti mukhale membala.
Izi zimapangitsa kuti anthu azidziwa zambiri, chifukwa omwe amakana kulipira kuti akumane ndi anthu nthawi zambiri ndi omwe amangofuna zibwenzi. Komanso, nenani momveka bwino mu mbiri yanu kuti mukungoyang'ana chibwenzi cha anthu omwe ali pachibwenzi chanthawi yayitali.
Izi zikuyenera kuchotsa ogwiritsa ntchito omwe amangofuna zachiwerewere. Pomaliza, ngati mbiri yawo ilibe zambiri, kapena mtundu wazidziwitso zomwe zimakukhudzani, musalumikizane nawo. Kuwononga nthawi.
Kodi "kukhala pachibwenzi chenicheni" kumatanthauza chiyani?
Kodi ubale weniweni ndi chiyani? Ndi inu nokha amene mungatanthauze tanthauzo la mawu oti "ubale wamphamvu" kwa inu panokha. Nthawi zambiri, chibwenzi chachikulu chimatanthauza:
- Mumagwira ntchito limodzi kuti mupange malo m'moyo wanu wina ndi mnzake
- Mumayika zofunikira za mnzanuyo musanakhale zanu, kupatula zochepa kuti mudzisamalire
- Ndinu okhazikika komanso osakwatiwa
- Nonse awiri ndinu odzipereka kuti ubale ukhalepo
- Nonsenu muli ndi lingaliro lomwe mukukumangirira ku china chake, masomphenya amtsogolo
- Nonse mumakhala nawo pantchito yosamalira thanzi ndi ubale, kugawana nawo ntchito (ndi chisangalalo)
- Mwakumana ndi banja la wina ndi mnzake, makolo, ana (ngati alipo)
- Mwakumana ndi anzanu
- Mumaganizira mnzanu popanga zisankho zazikulu ndi zazing'ono
Zizindikiro za chibwenzi zikukula
Mwakhala pachibwenzi mwezi umodzi kapena kupitilira apo ndipo mukusangalala kwambiri ndi nthawi yanu limodzi. Mukuwona kuti nonse mutha kupanga chinthu chenicheni, chopindulitsa komanso chanthawi yayitali. Zizindikiro zina ziti zoti chibwenzi chikufika pachimake?
- Mumathera nthawi yochuluka limodzi
- Mumalankhula komanso kulemberana mameseji tsiku lililonse ndipo musadandaule za zomwe zikuwoneka ngati zosafunikira kapena zosowa
- Mwakumana ndi abwenzi komanso abale
- Mumasiyirana zinthu m'nyumba, monga zovala ndi chimbudzi
- Mumagula zakudya zanu limodzi ndikukonzekera chakudya limodzi
- Mitu yanu yazokambirana imayang'ana mapulani amtsogolo
- Musanapange chisankho, mumafunsa mnzanu
- Mumakambirana momasuka za zachuma wina ndi mnzake
- Mudakambirana zakuthekera kokhala limodzi ndi banja
Kusunthira mu gawo la "ubale weniweni"?
Ganizirani mafunso awa okhudzana ndi ubale: -
- Chifukwa chake. Nchiyani chikukulimbikitsani kuti mupange ubale wofunika kwambiri kuposa momwe ziliri pano?
- Mumatani mukasemphana maganizo?
- Kodi mumakondwera ndimayankhulidwe anu?
- Kodi mungasamalire bwanji ndalama zanu limodzi?
- Kodi aliyense wa inu amaganizira motani za m'tsogolo?
- Kodi mudzakhala ndi misana nthawi zonse?
- Kodi matanthauzidwe anu abodza ndi ati? Kuchokera pa kukopana ndi intaneti kupita ku zochitika zenizeni pamoyo, kambiranani zomwe zimakuchitirani kubera
Kodi kukhala pachibwenzi kumangokhala pachibwenzi?
Inde kumene. Maubwenzi ambiri athanzi amayamba ngati maubwenzi kapena kungopanga zibwenzi.
M'malo mwake, nthawi zambiri imakhala njira yayikulu, yopanikizika yoyambira. Kuyamba ndiubwenzi wamba kumakupatsani mwayi wodziwa bwenzi lanu pang'onopang'ono, komanso mwayi wopanga maziko olimba pang'onopang'ono.
Ngati mukufunitsitsa kusunthira chibwenzi chanu mozama kwambiri, nazi malangizo:
- Funsani kuti muzikhala limodzi. Ngati avomereza, mudzadziwa kuti nawonso ali ndi chidwi ndi zinthu zomwe zikuwonjezeka. Ngati ati ayi, tengani yankho kuti ndi chiyani, ndipo ganizirani zowona kuti ubalewu ungakhale weniweni.
- Chitani zochitika nthawi zosiyanasiyana. Osangokhala ndi chibwenzi usiku, kapena kupita kunyumba kwa mnzanu nthawi iliyonse akamakutumizirani mameseji kuti akupemphani kuti mucheze. Chitani zochitika masana. Yendani limodzi. Pitani kumapeto kwa sabata. Dziperekeni limodzi ku khitchini yapafupi. Cholinga ndikuti nthawi yayitali limodzi osakhala "pachibwenzi" koma "kuchita".
- Yambani kuphatikizana pakati pa anzanu. Potengera zaubwenzi wanu wamba, mwina simunadziwitse mnzake za abwenzi anu. Pangani izi. Akanena kuti ayi, alibe chidwi, chitengeni ngati chizindikiro kuti sakufuna kukumvetsani.
Ngati ati inde, uwu ndi mwayi wabwino wowona momwe amacheza ndi anzanu, komanso zomwe anzanu amaganiza za wokondedwa wanu watsopano. Amakudziwani ndipo ali ndi chiyembekezo chokuwonani osangalala, chifukwa chake malingaliro awo adzakhala ofunikira.