Zamkati
- Lankhulani mokweza
- Zifukwa zakukhumudwitsidwa kwakugonana
- Osangoyang'ana wokondedwa
- Kusiyana kwa chikhumbo
- Kusintha kwakuthupi
- Zinthu zina
- Mwachidule
Amaganiziridwa kuti ndi amodzi mwamaphunziro osavomerezeka mbali iliyonse yadziko lapansi, zakugonana pabanja ndizowona. Ndizofala kwambiri kuposa momwe munthu angaganizire; mawonekedwe atha kunyenga.
Chifukwa chachikulu chokhala pagulu lalikulu chonchi komanso mutu wofala pamalopo ndi chifukwa ndi chete, ndipo anthu salankhula kapena kugawana zomwe akumana nazo.
Lankhulani mokweza
Zokhumudwitsa pazakugonana ndizofala kwambiri kwa mabanja achikulire kapena pakati pa maanja omwe akula bwino pakhungu lawo komanso wina ndi mnzake. Zikatero, maanja amatengana mopepuka ndipo amasiya kuyesetsa.
Anthu okwatirana omwe ali pachibwenzi amafunika kulankhulana.
Ubale uliwonse umakhazikitsidwa pakulankhulana; komabe, kuletsa chidziwitso kumatha kubweretsa kusakhulupirira, katundu wolemera, komanso zokhumudwitsa zambiri, mikangano, ndi ndewu zamtsogolo.
Zifukwa zakukhumudwitsidwa kwakugonana
Ngakhale pali zifukwa zillion ndipo chilichonse chitha kukhala chosiyana ndi momwe ubale umodzi ungathere, komabe, zifukwa zingapo zotsatirazi zitha kutengedwa mozama zomwe zingayambitse kukhumudwa pazakugonana, ngakhale zitha kupewedwa ngati zitha kunenedwa momveka bwino komanso momasuka pakati okwatirana.
Osangoyang'ana wokondedwa
Choyambitsa chisokonezo chogonana ndi chakuti membala mmodzi amangoganizira zosowa zawo.
Mgwirizano uliwonse uli ndi dongosolo loperekera ndi kutenga.
Nthawi zina mumayenera kupereka chilichonse chomwe mnzanu akufuna, ndipo kwa ena, ndiye kuti mudzakhala olandila.
Ndizozungulirazungulira, wathanzi labwino kwambiri popeza palibe amene ali wangwiro ndipo inu, nthawi zakusiyana, mumathandiza mnzanu. Komabe, mgwirizanowu ukatha, ndipamene malangizo ndi zinthu zimayamba kuyenda chakumwera.
Kusiyana kwa chikhumbo
Chifukwa chachiwiri chikhoza kukhala kusiyana pamlingo wofuna.
Monga tanena kale, ngati kulumikizana kulibe, pali zochepa chabe zomwe zimatha kutengeka ndi kugonana. Ziribe kanthu momwe mungagwirizane zogonana, ngati chikhumbo chimasiyanasiyana ndipo ngati kulibe kulankhulana momasuka za izi, zinthu zilinso kupita kudera lina.
Ngati msinkhu wa chikhumbocho sunafanane kapena kukwaniritsidwa, zitha kubweretsa mavuto ena m'banja. Zitha kuchititsa kuti banja lithe.
Kusintha kwakuthupi
Chifukwa chachitatu komanso chofunikira kwambiri chitha kuchitika pakadutsa nthawi kuchokera chiyambireni chibwenzi, ndipo mtundu wa thupi la mnzake ndi mawonekedwe ake zasintha.
Dziko likayamba kuloza zala ndikudandaula kumafikira m'makutu anu ena kuti mwina siokongola mokwanira malinga ndi kukongola konse; ngakhale simunachite chilichonse pankhaniyi.
Komabe, pokhala mnzanu komanso kukhala pachibwenzi, ndiudindo wanu kuonetsetsa kuti wokondedwa wanu amakondedwa ndikusamalidwa. Chilichonse chomwe sichinafotokozedwe pamwambapa chidzakhudza zochita zanu m'chipinda chogona.
Zinthu zina
Bokosi lina mumsomali ndilolinso lovuta.
Zawululidwa kuti pamene amuna, chifukwa cha chikondi kapena kupembedza, amayesa kuyika akazi awo paudindo ndipamene vuto laphiphiritso limakhudza wokonda.
Zafufuzidwa kuti anzawo achikazi, nthawi zina, amapunthwa atapanikizika mwina chifukwa iwowo sadziwa zomwe akufuna kapena chifukwa choti sizachilendo ndipo sanazolowere lingaliro lomwe likuwayang'anira.
Izi zimapangitsa kulira, kusweka, komanso zokhumudwitsa kwa onse awiri.
Mwachidule
Kaya chifukwa chanu ndi chiyani, kuganiza kuti mnzanuyo sakumvera nthawi zambiri siyankho.
Munawakwatitsa ndikukhala nawo nthawi yayitali, chifukwa chake mukuyenera kuti muwadziwe kunja ndi kunja. Mwayi wake ndikuti kumangokhala kusamvetsetsa komwe kungathe kusungunuka ndikungolankhula momasuka.