Zamkati
- Nkhani Yofanana
- Kusiyanitsa pakati pa kusamalira ndi kusamalira okondedwa athu
- Njira zosamalira
- Ubale ndi bizinesi yovuta
Mawu akale TLC kapena Tender Love and Care amagwiritsidwa ntchito pafupipafupi. Koma m'moyo wathu watsiku ndi tsiku, monga luso la moyo, timagwiritsa ntchito zochuluka motani? Tengani zochitika pansipa:
Ndi 10: 00 PM Lamlungu madzulo. Kate watopa komanso wakhumudwa. "Ndimayesetsa kwambiri" akutero kwa mwamuna wake Vince, yemwe ali kale pabedi, wokonzeka kugona. “Wokondedwa, uyenera kumasuka. Ana ali bwino ”akutero. "Khazikani mtima pansi?" akuti, “Kodi sukuzindikira zomwe zidachitika? Nathan adandikwiyira kwambiri kotero kuti adaponya njinga yake pakati pamsewu ndikuyamba. Sindikugwira ntchito yabwino ngati mayi ”. Anatero ndi mawu achisoni. "Chabwino, mwamutsikira pang'ono pomuyendetsa njinga" adatero. "Amakana kuyesa, ndimamva ngati akusowa kukankhidwa pang'ono. Simukumvetsa; Maganizo anu anali kwina. Mukadandithandizira mukudziwa. Ana si tchire; Samakula paokha. Amakhala ndi malingaliro ndipo amafunikira chisamaliro cham'malingaliro ”. Adatero mawu ake achisoni akusandutsa mawu pafupifupi okwiya. “Inde, ndikumvetsa. Kodi munganene bwanji zimenezi? Ndimagwira ntchito maola onsewa, kuti tikhale ndi moyo wabwino. ” Anayankha. Kenako adatsatira ndikunena kuti "Wokondedwa, ndatopa, ndipo ndiyenera kuti ndikagone. Sindikufuna kulowa kalikonse pakadali pano ”. Apa ndipomwe adakwiya kwambiri ndikuwomba. “Watopa? Inu? Mumayang'ana T.V. nthawi yomwe ndimaphika, kutsuka komanso kuchapa m'mawa wonse. Kenako mutakwera njinga, mudatenga kugona kwa ola limodzi, pomwe ndimaganizira zomwe zidachitika paulendo wapanjinga! Ndachita zonse zomwe mwandipempha kuti ndichite lero. Munanditumiza kukawulutsa njinga, kuyenda ndi galu, kupanga saladi, ndipo ndidatero. Ngati mungafune thandizo lina, mukadangoyankha. Ndiyenera kufunsa chilichonse, sichoncho? Simungagwiritse ntchito chiweruzo chanu, sichoncho? Mulungu aletse, mumadziyesa pang'ono kumapeto kwa sabata ".
Atembenuza nsana wake atagona pabedi, akuti "ndigona, usiku wabwino, ndimakukondani". Amadzuka pabedi, natenga mtsamiro wake ndikutuluka m'chipindacho. "Sindikukhulupirira kuti ungogona chonchi pomwe ukudziwa kuti ndakhumudwa chonchi".
Nkhani Yofanana
Zangochitika kumenezi ndi ziti? Kodi Vince ndi Jerk wathunthu? Kodi Kate ndi mfumukazi yamasewera komanso mkazi wovuta? Ayi. Onsewo ndi anthu abwino kwambiri.Tikudziwa chifukwa takumana nawo popereka upangiri kwa mabanja. Amakondana kwambiri ndipo amakhala ndi banja losangalala nthawi zambiri. Ichi ndi chitsanzo cha kusiyana pakati pa momwe abambo ndi amai amamvera kuti amakondedwa komanso kuyamikiridwa. Kate adakhumudwa ndi zomwe zidachitika m'mawa watsiku ndi ana. Atatembenukira kwa Vince, anali kumuyang'ana kuti amusamalire; mwina kumupatsa chitsimikizo kuti ndi mayi wabwino. Kuti ana adziwe kuti amawakonda, kuti amachita zambiri komanso kuti Nathan sakumbukira kuti adamulalatira. Sikuti zomwe Vince adanena sizowona, koma kuti Kate amafunikira china panthawiyo.
Pomwe Kate amalankhula ndi Nathan, ngakhale anali masana, amamuyesa kuti amuthandize kukhazikika. Anali kufunsa popanda mawu kuti amafunika kuti amuthandize. Komano, iye, anali kuganiza kuti akumulakwira ndikumuuza kuti samachita mokwanira. Chifukwa chake adayankha modzitchinjiriza ndikufotokozera nthawi yomwe amagwira ntchito. Ndi chifukwa chiyani kuwunika kwawo kudabweretsa zotsatira zoyipa?
Kusiyanitsa pakati pa kusamalira ndi kusamalira okondedwa athu
- Kusamalira wokondedwa, kumatha kuwonetsedwa kudzera munzinthu zabwino monga kutsuka galimoto, kupanga chakudya, kuthirira kapinga, kutsuka mbale, ndi zina "zachifundo". Kupanga ndalama, komanso kuthandizira wina ndi mnzake, kulinso m'gululi.
- Kusamalira okondedwa athu sizomwe timachita, koma kuganiza mozama ndi kuwonetsa malingaliro ndikuwonetsa kuvomereza. Kukhala munthawiyo, kulemekeza nthawi yawo, chinsinsi, zolephera, komanso momwe akumvera.
Zomwe zimachitika pakati pa maanja, komanso makamaka maukwati chifukwa zoyembekezera maukwati ndizokwera kuposa maubwenzi ena makamaka ngati pali ana, banjali labwerera kwawo zokonda kudzikonda. Ili ndiye gawo laumwini lomwe "ndidayang'ana", lofooka komanso kuweruza. Gawo ili laumwini, makamaka munthawi yamavuto, pomwe munthu akhoza kudzitsutsa kwambiri, amatha kudzidalira, kudzilanga komanso kusokonezeka. Zitha kukhala zankhanza, zosatheka, zopanda pake, komanso / kapena kuwongolera.
Mwakuchita kwanga, ndimayitanitsa maanja anga nthawi zonse kuti aziona zinsinsi. Malingaliro atha kukhala m'mawu, chilankhulo chamthupi, kapena nthawi yogwiritsidwa ntchito. Pachitsanzo pamwambapa, zidziwitso zonse zitatu zidadziwika ndi Kate. Malangizo awiri omwe Kate adalemba anali "ndimayesetsa kwambiri" komanso "simukumvetsa". Kuphatikiza apo, nthawi yomwe Vince adagwiritsa ntchito, ndikuchitira umboni zomwe zidachitika, adazindikira kuti Kate amatha kudzimva kuti ndi wolakwa. Ngakhale pamwambapa, zitha kuwoneka kuti Kate anali kumuukira Vince pomwe anati "simukumvetsa", anali akumufunsa kuti amvetsetse mavuto ake. M'malo mwake, adayankha pomupatsa yankho "Mukungofunika kupumula" zomwe zitha kukumana ndikulalikira ngati sizikuwakonda.
Zomwe zikadakhala zabwino zikadakhala kuti iye atambasule dzanja, kumugwira dzanja, kapena kumukumbatira ndikunena, china chake mu mizere ya "umayesetsa wokondedwa wokondedwa" kapena "wokondedwa, sukuyenera kukhala wangwiro" kapena "Sweetie, chonde osadzilimbitsa wekha, ndiwe wamkulu".
Kumbali ina, akanatha kuchita chiyani Kate, m'malo moyesera kutonthoza mwa mwamuna wake pa zomwe anali kunena kuti inali nthawi yolakwika? Ndizachidziwikire kuti onsewa "Amasamalirana". Koma kodi "amasamalirana" wina ndi mnzake. Kate akanatha kulemekeza malire a Vince. Akadadalira kuti samachokera kumalo osasamala, koma m'malo achitetezo. Vince akanatha kuwunika mwachangu momwe anali ndi malingaliro ake ndikuzindikira kuti anali atatopa kwambiri kuti angamvetsere, poteteza mikangano, ngati angayankhe cholakwika, adatenga njira yotsutsana nati "Ndiyenera kugona ”. Izi, ndichachidziwikire, osadziwa kapena kuzindikira kuti anali ndi mwayi womwe tafotokoza pamwambapa, zomwe sizinatenge nthawi yochulukirapo.
Njira zosamalira
- Nthawi zonse lembani zakomwe mukukhala komanso komwe munthu wina ali asanayambe kukambirana
- Khazikitsani cholinga ndikulingalira masomphenya pazomwe mukuyang'ana poyambitsa zokambirana
- Fotokozerani cholinga chanu kwa wokondedwa wanu momveka bwino
- Dikirani kuti muwone ngati pali kufanana pazolinga popanda zoyembekezera
- Landirani m'malo mokakamiza yankho
Pomaliza, tiyeni tichite zomwe zingachitike pakati pa Kate ndi Vince. Ngati Kate akanachita bwino gawo lachitatu m'malo mongoganiza kuti Vince amatha kuwerenga, mwina akadalandira thandizo lomwe amayembekeza. Kumbali ina, ngati Vince akanachita 1, akanatha kuzindikira kuti zomwe Kate amafuna sizowunika zomwe zidachitika, koma ndikulimbikitsa.
Ubale ndi bizinesi yovuta
Ambiri amaganiza kuti Chikondi chimatanthauza kudziwa zonse. Chimenecho sichikondi; Ndi kuneneratu. Chikondi chimafuna kuleza mtima, kumvetsetsa, ndi kudzichepetsa ndikuchita zonsezi. Kusiyanitsa pakati pa Kusamalira ndi Kusamalira okondedwa athu, kumatithandiza kuti tikhale okhazikika, komanso odzichepetsa nthawi zina pamene timakonda kukhala odzikuza ndikudziyang'anira tokha ndikuyembekezera zabwino. Si Chikondi Chachikondi. Sichisamaliro Chachikondi. Ndi Chikondi Chachikondi ndi Chisamaliro. Tiyenera kusamalira zosowa zathu poyamba, ndiyeno tikhale olankhulira polankhula momveka bwino ndi anzathu, kapena ena ofunika ndikuwalola kuti azimva kuti ndi otetezeka pochita zomwezo.