Zamkati
- 1. Zimatsimikizira kuti mudzapeza chuma
- 2. Kusunga ndalama zambiri
- 3. Kuchulukanso kwa anthu
- 4. Kuchepetsa kufa kwa anthu
- 5. Ana okulirapo
- 6. Ana atha kuchita bwino m'maphunziro
- 7. Achinyamata olangizidwa
Ndizosazindikira kuti mtima ndi mzimu waukwati ndi chikondi komanso kukondana. Chikondi chiyenera kukhala pachimake pa banja lililonse. Okondana awiri amadzipereka kwa wina ndi mnzake moyo wawo wonse, motero amakhala ndi chisangalalo.
Mosasamala kanthu kuti kukondana kumakhalabe chinthu chofunikira kwambiri, pali maubwino angapo am'banja. Anthu okwatirana sikuti amangokondana basi; iwonso ndi anzawo. Zikutanthauza kuti pali maudindo ena omwe amakhala pamapewa a mwamuna ndi mkazi.
Pali zabwino zambiri pamakhalidwe omwe banja limapereka. Ubwino wapamwamba kwambiri watchulidwa pansipa:
1. Zimatsimikizira kuti mudzapeza chuma
Mukakhala nokha muli ndi zonse zofunika m'nyumba, kuphatikiza renti ya nyumba, ngongole zagolosale, ngongole zogula pa intaneti, ndi zina zambiri, mwina mumakhala pachiwopsezo nthawi ina.
Nthawi zina mungaganize; bwanji ndikataya ntchito mwadzidzidzi? Kodi ndingatani ngati kampani yomwe ndimagwirira ntchito mwadzidzidzi yasankha kuwachotsa antchito angapo omwe ali zolemetsa pakampani? Mutha kukhala bankrupt muzochitika zotere, ndipo sipadzakhala wina aliyense kuti akupulumutseni.
Munthu wokwatira sachita mantha kwambiri akamayerekezera ndi amene sanakwatire. Munthu woteroyo amadziwa; ali ndi wina womudalira pakagwa mavuto azachuma.
2. Kusunga ndalama zambiri
Kusakwatiwa kumatha kukhala kosangalatsa, sichoncho? Simukudandaula za tsogolo lanu; m'malo mwake, ndinu omasuka kwathunthu kuti mugwiritse ntchito ndalama zanu pano. Mumawononga zambiri ndikusunga zochepa. Mwina ndichifukwa choti mulibe pulani yanthawi yayitali yamoyo.
Koma, mutakwatirana, mumadziwa zolinga zamtsogolo. Mukudziwa bwino ndalama. Mukalowa m'dziko latsopano ndi ziyembekezo zambiri zoti mukwaniritse, mumayamba kusunga katundu.
Ukwati umakupatsirani masomphenya amtsogolo. Zimakupangitsani kukhala odalirika komanso owongolera.
3. Kuchulukanso kwa anthu
Mukamangiriza mfundozo, mwaphatikiza moyo wanu ndi wa wina. Pali mwayi waukulu woti mudziwane ndi anthu ambiri, mudzakhala anzanu ndi anthu ambiri, ndipo pambuyo pake, mudzakhala ndi mwayi wokhala ndi anzanuwa.
Monga wokwatira, mudzakhala ndi apongozi anu, abwenzi a mnzanu, ndi anzanu monga anzanu. Umu ndi momwe kuyenda kwanu kumakulira ndikufikira mulingo watsopano.
Mutakwatirana, muyenera kuchita bwino kwambiri.
Mavuto ocheperako
Mukamagwira ntchito limodzi kuti mukwaniritse zinazake, simukhala ndi nkhawa zambiri. Maanja nthawi zambiri amakhala pansi kukhazikika pansi ndi kuthandizana.
Zinthu zimawoneka zosavuta ngati muli ndi wina amene ali ndi msana wanu; wina yemwe amakhala nawo nthawi zonse kuti agawane nkhawa zanu komanso kupezeka kwake pafupi nanu ndikokwanira kuti muchepetse nkhawa zanu.
4. Kuchepetsa kufa kwa anthu
Malinga ndi kafukufuku wina, anthu okwatirana amakhala nthawi yayitali kuposa anthu osakwatirana. Anthu osakwatirana amatha kufa ali aang'ono. Si chinsinsi chobisika kuti iwo omwe amakhala moyo wosangalala atha kukhala ndi moyo wautali. Zilinso chimodzimodzi ndi anthu osangalala m'banja.
Anthu omwe amathamangitsa kukhutitsidwa m'moyo amalimbikitsidwa kuti azikonda winawake mwamphamvu ndikukwatiwa nawo. Ichi ndiye chinsinsi chokhala ndi moyo wautali komanso wosangalala.
5. Ana okulirapo
Ana omwe amakula ndi makolo okhaokha amakhala osakhazikika m'maganizo komanso ofatsa. M'malo mwake, ana omwe amachokera m'nyumba yokhazikika yokhala ndi makolo onse amakhala m'nyumba imodzi amakhala okhazikika komanso otetezeka.
Ana a mabanja ali ndi malingaliro m'malo. Komabe, ana a mabanja osudzulana kapena osakwatirana amasangalala ndi kusakhutira mwa iwo komwe kumawapwetekabe pamapeto pake.
6. Ana atha kuchita bwino m'maphunziro
Kuti mwana aliyense azichita bwino kusukulu, ndikofunikira kukhala ndi mbiri yabwino. Ana omwe amachokera m'mabanja osweka sangakhale ophunzirira bwino. Momwemonso, ana omwe amaleredwa ndi anthu osakwatirana m'nyumba zosakwanira nthawi zambiri samachita bwino.
Mwana aliyense amalimba ndikumusisitira kumsana kwake. Ana omwe amathandizidwa mwamakhalidwe ndi malingaliro a makolo awo okwatirana nthawi zambiri amapambana pamaphunziro.
7. Achinyamata olangizidwa
Achinyamata ndi msinkhu womwe umatha kumachita zinthu zosayenera zambiri; achinyamata ena amayamba kumwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo; achichepere ena amatenga nawo mbali pazachiwawa zachiwawa chifukwa chosowa kuleredwa.
Achinyamata omwe akuleredwa ndi okwatirana ali ndi chilango chambiri kuposa omwe sanakwatirane. Iwo ali ndi khalidwe labwino kwambiri. Ali ndi malingaliro okhazikika, ndipo sangawonekere kuti atengeke ndi zizolowezi zoipa kapena zosayenera.
Izi ndi zabwino zisanu ndi ziwiri zabwino zamukwati. Ngati mukuganiza zokwatira, chiyembekezo cha maubwinowa chingakulimbikitseni kuti mumange ukwati.