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- Malo ochezera a pa Intaneti amathanso kukuthandizani kuti musudzulane
- Kodi media media yakhudza bwanji banja ndi chisudzulo
- Zosangalatsa pa nthawi ya chisudzulo
- Malo ochezera atasudzulana
- Kugwiritsa ntchito zoulutsira mawu moyenera nthawi yakusudzulana komanso pambuyo pake
Zolinga zamagulu ndi chisudzulo zimamveka mosagwirizana. Koma iwo sali. M'malo mwake zapa media media komanso maubale amalumikizana kwambiri.
Nkhaniyi ikulowerera mozama momwe zoulutsira mawu zimakhudzira maubwenzi, zoulutsira mawu komanso kuchuluka kwa mabanja komanso ngati malingaliro onse atolankhani akuwononga maukwati ali ndi maziko. Komanso, ngati muli ndi mlandu wosudzulana nkhaniyi ikuperekanso zidziwitso pamitundu yokhudzana ndi zoulutsira mawu zomwe zitha kuchititsa kuti banja lanu lithe.
Kuti timvetsetse chifukwa chomwe timatchulira zapa media media ndikusudzulana mpweya umodzi, tiyeni tiwone kudalira kwathu pazinthu zonse zadijito.
Zipangizo zamagetsi ndi gawo losapeweka m'moyo wamakono. Pomwe foni yomwe ili m'thumba lanu ndi zenera laku dziko lomwe lingakupatseni mwayi khalani odziwa zambiri, kucheza ndi anthu omwe ndi ofunika kwa inu, ndikupangitsa kuti moyo wanu ukhale wosavuta, kulumikizidwa pafupipafupi ndi media media kungakhalenso ndi vuto.
Kwa ena, Kugwiritsa ntchito malo ochezera a pa TV kumakula kukhala chizolowezi chomwe chitha kukhudza maubale ndi abale komanso abwenzi.
Kaya zoulutsira mawu zimabweretsa zochitika pa intaneti kapena zimakhala zomwe zimapangitsa kuti pakhale kusiyana pakati pa okwatirana, nthawi zambiri zimathandizira kuwonongeka kwaukwati. Ndicho chifukwa chake sikungakhale kolakwika kunena izi malo ochezera a pa TV atha kukhala omwe amatsogolera kusudzulana. Umenewu ndi chidziwitso chimodzi pazanema komanso kulumikizana kwa mabanja.
Malo ochezera a pa Intaneti amathanso kukuthandizani kuti musudzulane
Zomwe mawebusayiti amasewera pamoyo wanu amatha kupitilira kutha kwa chibwenzi chanu, ndipo malo ochezera a pa Intaneti atha kukhala vuto lalikulu kusudzulana kwanu.
Mukamaliza banja lanu, onetsetsani kuti mukumvetsetsa zomwe mungachite kuti mudziteteze ku manyazi komanso mavuto azamalamulo.
Ngati banja lanu likutha chifukwa cha zoulutsira mawu kapena zifukwa zina, muyenera kuyankhula ndi loya wa Kane County osudzulana ndikukambirana zomwe mungasankhe.
Kodi media media yakhudza bwanji banja ndi chisudzulo
Nayi kusanthula kozama kwapa media media komanso kusudzulana.
Kugwiritsa ntchito malo ochezera a pa Intaneti kwawonjezeka kwambiri pazaka 10 zapitazi. Malinga ndi Pew Research Center, 72% ya achikulire amagwiritsa ntchito tsamba limodzi lapa media pafupipafupi.
Chiwerengerochi nchachikulu kwambiri kwa magulu azaka zazing'ono; 90% ya achikulire azaka zapakati pa 18 ndi 29 ndi 82% ya akulu azaka 30-49 amagwiritsa ntchito zoulutsira mawu.
Mapulogalamu odziwika kwambiri ndi Facebook ndi Instagram, koma masamba monga Twitter, Snapchat, ndi Pinterest amagwiritsanso ntchito kwambiri.
Ma media media amakhudza miyoyo ya anthu m'njira zosiyanasiyana, koma kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti 71% ya ogwiritsa ntchito media amapeza kuti masamba ndi mapulogalamu awa amawapangitsa kuti azimva kulumikizana ndi ena.
Komabe, 49% ya anthu anena kuti amawona zambiri pazanema zomwe zimawapangitsa kukhala okhumudwa, ndipo kwa ena, malo ochezera a pa Intaneti apezeka kuti akuwonjezera nkhawa.
Ngakhale kuti izi pazokha sizingayambitse kusweka kwa banja, zitha kuchititsa munthu kukhala wosasangalala muubwenzi wawo, kapena zitha kukhudza zovuta zina zam'mutu kapena zamunthu ndikuwonjezera mwayi wosudzulana.
Malo ochezera a pa TV atha kukhala ndi gawo lachindunji muukwati ndi chisudzulo zikafika panjiru komanso kusakhulupirika.
Kafukufuku apeza kuti anthu 19% akuti adachita nsanje chifukwa chothandizana ndi anzawo pa Facebook, ndipo 10% ya anthu amayang'ana pafupipafupi mbiri za anzawo chifukwa chakukaikira kusakhulupirika. Kuphatikiza apo, pafupifupi 17% ya anthu omwe amagwiritsa ntchito mapulogalamu azibwenzi pa intaneti amachita izi ndi cholinga chobera anzawo kapena anzawo.
Banja likasokonekera, zambiri zomwe zimalembedwa patsamba lapa media zimatha kukhala gawo lazomwe zisudzulo. Kafukufuku wa maloya adapeza kuti 33% yamilandu yosudzulana imachokera pazinthu zapaintaneti, ndipo 66% yamilandu imakhudzana ndi umboni wopezeka pa Facebook kapena malo ena ochezera.
Zosangalatsa pa nthawi ya chisudzulo
Zachidziwikire, malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi gawo lofunikira m'miyoyo ya anthu ambiri, ndipo ngakhale atakhala kuti akutenga nawo mbali pachiswe kapena ayi, atha kutenganso gawo lalikulu pakusudzulana.
Ngati mukuganiza zosudzulana kapena mukumaliza ukwati, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa nthawi ndi momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito njira zapa media, ndipo muyenera kudziwa mitundu yaumboni wokhudzana ndi media womwe ungakhale wofunikira pakusudzulana kwanu . Komanso, zingakhale zothandiza kudziwa zamakhalidwe osudzulana.
Popeza malo ochezera a pa Intaneti amakhala pagulu, chilichonse chomwe mungatumize chitha kuwonedwa ndi mnzanu komanso loya wake.
Ngakhale mutakhala kuti mwachitapo kanthu kuti muwonetsetse kuti mauthenga achinsinsi, anthu omwe mumalankhula nawo atha kugawana uthenga ndi mnzanuyo kapena ndi ena omwe angawapereke.
Zomwe zimagawidwa pa intaneti zitha kupezeka ndikugwiritsidwa ntchito kukutsutsani, ndipo ngakhale zolemba kapena mauthenga omwe achotsedwa atha kusungidwa ngati zithunzi kapena kuwonekera pazakale.
Popeza zosintha zanu, zithunzi, ndi zina zomwe mumalemba zimapereka chidziwitso chokhudza moyo wanu, chilichonse chomwe mungagawane chitha kukhala chofunikira pothetsa mavuto okhudzana ndi chisudzulo. Malo ochezera a pa TV atha kusokoneza chisudzulo chanu motere:
- Kugawidwa kwa katundu m'banja
Mukasudzulana, mudzafunika kuti mufotokozere zachuma chanu, kuphatikiza ndalama zomwe mumapeza komanso malo omwe muli nawo limodzi ndi mnzanuyo komanso padera. Zolemba pazanema zitha kugwiritsidwa ntchito kutsutsana ndi zomwe mudanenazo, ndipo izi zingakhudze zisankho zomwe zapangidwa pogawana chuma cha banja.
Mwachitsanzo, ngati mungatumize chithunzi pa Instagram chosonyeza wotchi yamtengo wapatali kapena zodzikongoletsera, wokondedwa wanu anganene kuti simunaulule malowa panthawi yomwe mwasudzulana.
- Zothandizira zothandizira
Ngati mukuyembekeza kulipira kapena kulandira thandizo la okwatirana (alimony) kapena thandizo la ana, kuchuluka kwa malipirowa nthawi zambiri kumadalira ndalama zomwe inu ndi mnzanu wakale mumapeza.
Zomwe mumagawana pa intaneti zitha kugwiritsidwa ntchito kukayikira zomwe mumanena pazomwe mumapeza kapena zomwe mungapeze.
Mwachitsanzo, ngati mwanena kuti kulumala kwakuthandizani kuti muchepetse ndalama zanu, loya wanu wakale angawulule zithunzi zomwe mudachitako zinthu zakunja, ndipo izi zitha kugwiritsidwa ntchito ngati umboni wonena kuti muyenera amalandira ndalama zambiri kuposa zomwe munanena.
Zidziwitso zilizonse zomwe mumalemba zokhudzana ndi ntchito yanu kapena thanzi lanu zitha kutenga nawo gawo pachisudzulo chanu, ndipo ngakhale china chopanda vuto monga kusinthitsa ntchito yanu pa LinkedIn kungakhudze zisankho zokhudzana ndi thandizo la ndalama.
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- Zosankha zokhudzana ndi ana
Pa mkangano wosunga mwana, makhothi aziona ngati makolo angagwirizane polera ana. Malo ochezera omwe mumadandaula nawo okondedwa wanu, kuwatchula mayina, kapena kukambirana zambiri zakusudzulana kwanu kungagwiritsidwe ntchito kukutsutsani, makamaka ngati ana anu atha kuwona izi.
Ngati inu ndi mnzanu simukugwirizana momwe mungagawire ana gawo limodzi, Loya wanu wakale akhoza kuyang'ana kudzera mumaakaunti anu ochezera kuti mupeze umboni wokhudzana ndi thanzi la makolo, monga zolemba zomwe mudakambiranapo zakumwa zoledzeretsa kapena kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo.
Ngakhale zithunzi zanu muli pa phwando lochokera kuntchito zomwe munalemba ndi munthu amene mumagwira naye ntchito zitha kugwiritsidwa ntchito kunena kuti zizolowezi zanu ndi zochita zanu zitha kuyika ana anu pachiwopsezo chowavulaza kapena kuwapsetsa mtima.
- Kuwonetsa kusakhulupirika
Ngakhale chigololo chidali chifukwa cha banja lanu, sichingakhale chofunikira pakuzengedwa milandu.
Mayiko ambiri amalola kusudzulana kosalakwitsa pomwe pempho lakusudzulana lingoyenera kutero akunena kuti banja lidatha chifukwa cha "kusiyana kosagwirizana, ”Ndipo nkhani monga kugawa katundu ndi chisamaliro nthawi zambiri zimasankhidwa popanda kuganizira" zoyipa m'banja. "
Komabe, mayiko ena amagwiritsa ntchito zifukwa zoperekera chisudzulo kapena kulola kuti chigololo chiganizidwe mukamapereka kuthandizana ndi okwatirana. Pazinthu izi, umboni wosakhulupirika womwe udasonkhanitsidwa pa TV utha kutenga nawo mbali pachisudzulo. Kuphatikiza apo, zisankho zokhudzana ndi kugawidwa kwa chuma m'banja zitha kukhudzidwa ndi zonena kuti mnzanu wataya chuma chake pogwiritsira ntchito ndalama zaukwati pachibwenzi.
Ngati mwasindikiza zankhani zapa social media za zochitika za wokondedwa wanu watsopano, monga kunena za tchuthi chomwe nonse mukutenga limodzi, izi zitha kugwiritsidwa ntchito kunena kuti mwataya chuma chabanja.
- Anagawana nawo ma TV
Nthawi zina, onse awiri amagwiritsa ntchito maakaunti omwewo, kapena atha kulumikizana maakaunti awo pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana, monga kulumikizana ndi abwenzi kapena abale.
Mukasudzulana, mutha kuvomereza kutseka maakaunti omwe agawidwa, kapena mutha kusankha kuti maakaunti ena azingogwiritsidwa ntchito ndi m'modzi yekha.
Zikakhala kuti maakaunti azama TV ali ndi ndalama, monga ngati munthu kapena banja ndi "wolimbikitsa," zisankho zakayendidwe kazo zidzakambidwa pakagawidwe ka katundu wabanja, ndipo ndalama zomwe amapeza kudzera muakauntiyi zingakhudze zisankho zomwe apanga kusamalira okwatirana kapena kuthandizira ana.
Chifukwa cha momwe chidziwitso chofotokozedwera pazanema chingakhudze mlandu wosudzulana, maloya ambiri amalimbikitsa kuti mutero pewani kugwiritsa ntchito malo ochezera a pa Intaneti pomwe chisudzulo chanu chikuchitika.
Ngakhale mukukhulupirira kuti zosintha kapena chithunzi sichikugwirizana kwathunthu ndi chisudzulo chanu, zitha kutanthauziridwa m'njira zomwe simumayembekezera. Nthawi zambiri, ndibwino kugwiritsa ntchito njira zina zolumikizirana ndi anzanu komanso abale anu mpaka banja lanu litatha. Zolinga zamagulu ndi chisudzulo zitha kukhala zosokoneza modabwitsa.
Malo ochezera atasudzulana
Ngakhale banja lanu litatha, mutha kuwona kuti kugwiritsa ntchito njira zapa media kungayambitse milandu. Muyenera kudziwa izi:
- Nkhani zokhudzana ndi ana - Kutengera zisankho zomwe mwapanga mgwirizanowu wa kholo, mungafunike kutsatira malamulo ena okhudza zithunzi kapena zidziwitso zina zomwe mumaloledwa kugawana zokhudza ana anu.
Ndimalingaliro abwino kutero pewani kutumiza chilichonse chomwe chingapangitse kusamvana pakati panu ndi wakale kapena kugawana zidziwitso zomwe zitha kugwiritsidwa ntchito kuyambitsa kukayika kwa makolo anu kukayikiridwa.
- Nkhani zachuma – Kugawana zidziwitso zilizonse zokhudza ndalama zomwe mumapeza kungakhudze zomwe mukuyenera kuchita pakuthandizira. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mungakambirane zakukwezani pantchito, wakale angafunse kuti ndalama zomwe mumalipira ziwonjezeke.
Momwemonso, ngati mumalandira ndalama zothandizira okwatirana, zosintha zomwe mumafotokoza kuti mukusamukira ndi mnzanu watsopano zitha kugwiritsidwa ntchito ndi wakale ngati umboni kuti ndalamazi sizifunikanso ndipo ziyenera kuthetsedwa.
- Kuzunzidwa - Chimodzi mwazinthu zazikulu zomwe anthu ambiri amakumana nacho atasudzulana ndikuwunika mtundu waubwenzi womwe angakhale nawo ndi mkazi kapena mwamuna wawo wakale.
Ngakhale mutakhala "osagwirizana" ndi wokondedwa wanu ndikuyesetsa kupewa kukhudzana nawo kosafunikira, mutha kuwona kuti akugawana zosayenera za inu kapena chisudzulo chanu, kapena atha kupitiliza kukutumizirani mameseji kapena kulumikizana nanu m'njira zomwe zimapangitsa mumakhala osakhazikika kapena osatetezeka.
Ngati bwenzi lanu likuzunza m'njira iliyonse pogwiritsa ntchito malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, muyenera kukambirana ndi loya kuti adziwe momwe angachitire izi, ndipo mungafunenso kulumikizana ndi apolisi.
Kugwiritsa ntchito zoulutsira mawu moyenera nthawi yakusudzulana komanso pambuyo pake
Ngakhale ubale pakati pa media media ndi chisudzulo ndi wovuta, pali zovuta zina pazanema, zitha kuperekanso zabwino zambiri, kuphatikiza kukulolani kuti mukhale pafupi ndi anzanu komanso abale anu komanso kulumikizana ndi ena omwe akumvetsetsa zomwe mukukumana nazo.
Mukamapereka chisudzulo, loya wanu akhoza kukuthandizani kuti mumvetsetse momwe muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, ndipo atha kukuthandizani kudziwa nthawi yomwe mungagwiritse ntchito umboni pazankhani yanu.
Chisudzulo chanu chikadzatha, mudzafunika kukhazikitsa malamulo omveka bwino komanso malire amomwe mungagwiritsire ntchito malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Ngati pali zovuta zomwe zingakhudze ana anu, chuma chanu, kapena chitetezo chanu, loya wanu akhoza kukuthandizani kudziwa zomwe mungachite kuti muthe kumaliza bwino mlandu wanu.