Zamkati
- 1. Limbitsani mgwirizano
- 2. Zonse ndizofunika
- 3. Kuphunzira zinthu zatsopano
- 4. Kupititsa miyambo
- Njira zocheza ndi banja
- Onetsetsani kuti mwakumana patebulopo, zivute zitani
- Pitani kutchuthi zabanja kapena kumapeto kwa sabata nthawi zambiri
- Yambitsani ana anu kugwira ntchito zapakhomo tsiku ndi tsiku
- Werengani limodzi kapena kutenga nawo mbali pulojekiti yawo
- Pitani kokayenda pambuyo pa chakudya chamadzulo kapena muzichita masewera olimbitsa thupi limodzi
Masiku ano opikisana, tonsefe tili ndi nkhawa kuti titha kuyandama ndikuyesetsa kusamalira banja lathu.
Monga makolo, tikuyesera kulinganiza bwino pakati pa ntchito ndi nyumba, ndipo ana athu akuyesa kufanana ndi mpikisano womwe ukukula nthawi zonse. Munthawi yonseyi, tikusowa nthawi yocheza ndi banja.
Tayiwala kufunikira kocheza ndi banja komanso chifukwa chake kuli kofunikira.
Kwa ife, tanthauzo locheza ndi banja limangokhala kukumana patebulo. Komabe, izi sizikutanthauza cholinga chake. Kukhala ndi nthawi yabwino ndi banja kumatanthauza kupita kokayenda, kuchitira limodzi limodzi ndikuwona malo atsopano.
Tiyeni tiwone momwe kucheza ndi banja kumakupindulirani komanso momwe mungachitire.
Ubwino wocheza ndi banja
1. Limbitsani mgwirizano
Monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, masiku ano aliyense m'banjamo ali kalikiliki kukonza moyo wawo. Akuvutika ndipo akukumana ndi zovuta zambiri, m'maganizo komanso mwakuthupi.
Zikatero, posakhala ndi nthawi yokwanira yocheza ndi banja, akusowa gawo lofunikira pamoyo wawo, mzati wolimba, banja lawo.
Chifukwa chake, pocheza ndi banja, akubwezeretsanso ubale wawo ndi mabanja awo. Kupatula apo, banja lathu ndiye chipilala chathu champhamvu ndipo lidzaimirira nafe munthawi iliyonse, zivute zitani.
2. Zonse ndizofunika
Tanthauzo la kulera silikutanthauza kupereka moyo wabwino ndikukwaniritsa zosowa zawo za tsiku ndi tsiku.
Ndiposa pamenepo.
Zimatanthauza kukhala nawo ndikuwathandiza pamaganizidwe ndi malingaliro. Pamene, monga makolo, mumakhala otanganidwa m'moyo ndikudzilekanitsa ndi ana anu ndi abale anu, mumatumiza uthenga wolakwika. Komabe, mukamapeza nthawi yochuluka yocheza ndi kucheza nawo, mumawauza kuti ndi ofunika. Izi zimatumiza uthenga wolondola komanso wamphamvu, womwe umalimbikitsanso ubale wanu ndi iwo.
3. Kuphunzira zinthu zatsopano
Kuphunzira sikungokhala njira yokhayo.
Ndi njira ziwiri. Pomwe mukuphunzitsa mwana wanu kena kake, mumatha kuphunzira zatsopano. Mukamacheza ndi banja, mukuwonetsetsa kuti nthawi yophunzirira ilipo m'banja lanu ndipo mwana wanu amaphunzira zinthu zatsopano kuchokera kwa inu monga momwe mumachitira kuchokera kwa iwo.
Ndiwe gawo la moyo wawo ndipo mukudziwa zatsopano zomwe akupeza m'moyo wawo pamene akukula. Ndizodabwitsa ku gawo limodzi laulendo wodabwitsa uwu wokula.
4. Kupititsa miyambo
Mukamacheza ndi banja lanu, makamaka ndi ana anu, mumachita miyambo yamabanja.
Umu ndi momwe mudaphunzirira za iwo, ndipo umu ndi momwe muyenera kupatsira m'badwo wotsatira. Miyambo yamabanja ndiyofunikira chifukwa chikhalidwe chanu sichingafanane ndi banja lomwe limakhala pafupi. Chifukwa chake, onetsetsani kuti mumatenga nthawi kuchokera pulogalamu yanu ya tsiku ndi tsiku kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yabwino ndi banja lanu.
Njira zocheza ndi banja
Onetsetsani kuti mwakumana patebulopo, zivute zitani
Limbikitsani 'nthawi yamadzulo ndi nthawi yabanja.'
Masiku ano, ana ndi makolo ambiri amayang'anabe mafoni awo ngakhale ali patebulopo. Sikuti ndiwamwano okha, komanso umapereka uthenga kuti china chake ndichofunika kwambiri kubanja lanu. Musalole kuti foni isokonezeni kucheza ndi banja lanu. Pangani lamuloli ndikulitsatira.
Pitani kutchuthi zabanja kapena kumapeto kwa sabata nthawi zambiri
Aliyense amafunikira nthawi yaulere kuntchito komanso moyo watsiku ndi tsiku. Ndicho chifukwa chake kuli bwino kutuluka limodzi kutchuthi zabanja kapena kumapeto kwa sabata limodzi. Sankhani malo omwe kuli zochitika kapena malo ena ake.
Kukhala nthawi yayitali ndi banja kunja kwa chilengedwe kumabweretsa nonse pafupi. Kuphatikiza apo, akatswiri amati munthu ayenera kutenga tchuthi kuti atsitsimule.
Yambitsani ana anu kugwira ntchito zapakhomo tsiku ndi tsiku
Tonsefe timafuna kuti ana athu aphunzire zinthu ndikudziyimira pawokha.
Komabe, timalephera kucheza nawo nthawi yayitali. Kuyanjana kwa tsiku ndi tsiku kumatha kubweretsa kusintha kwakukulu muubwenzi wanu ndi iwo. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukufuna kuti china chake chikonzeke, aphatikizeni.
Ngati mukupita kukagula zinthu kunyumba, tengani nawo. Nthawi zochepazi zocheza ndi banja zitha kubweretsa zinthu zazikulu.
Werengani limodzi kapena kutenga nawo mbali pulojekiti yawo
Ana amaphunzira kwa ife.
Ngati mukufuna kuti azichita nawo ntchito zapakhomo ndikuthandizani kukhitchini, muyenera kuwathandiza pantchito yawo yasukulu kapena kuwerenga buku asanagone.
Manja ang'onoang'ono ndi zochitikazi zimatumiza uthenga waukulu. Adzawona kutengapo gawo kwanu m'moyo wawo ndipo angafune kutenga nawo gawo pazanu. Kuphatikiza apo, iyi ndi njira ina yopatsira makolo anu miyambo yabanja.
Pitani kokayenda pambuyo pa chakudya chamadzulo kapena muzichita masewera olimbitsa thupi limodzi
Njira ina yolimbitsira banja ndi kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi limodzi.
Mwachitsanzo, ngati muli ndi chizolowezi chopita kukadya pambuyo pa chakudya chamadzulo, tengani ana anu; kapena nonse mutha kuchita nawo masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi limodzi. Mwanjira imeneyi, simukungowaphunzitsa kufunikira kokhala athanzi, komanso mukucheza ndi banja.