Zamkati
- 1. Onetsetsani kuti nonse muli patsamba limodzi
- 2. Tengani pang'onopang'ono
- 3. Apatseni malo ochuluka kuti akule
- 4. Madeti anu oyamba si magawo azithandizo, chifukwa chake musawulule zochulukirapo
- 5. Pitirizani kukhala moyo wanu, moyo wabwino kwambiri
Kodi mwakumana ndi munthu yemwe mukuganiza kuti mukufuna kukhala naye pachibwenzi?
Nazi njira zisanu zoyenera kutenga musanakhale pachibwenzi chatsopano. Malangizo awa adzaonetsetsa kuti nonse muyambike ndi dzanja lamanja kuti kukondana kwanu kukhale ndi mwayi wopambana!
1. Onetsetsani kuti nonse muli patsamba limodzi
Mwakhala ndi masiku angapo komanso zokambirana zazikulu, zakuya. Mumakondana wina ndi mnzake mwakuthupi ndi mwanzeru. Koma chinthu chimodzi chomwe anthu ena amanyalanyaza ndi kufunikira kofotokozera zomwe amayembekezera paubwenzi wawo. Titha kukhala amantha kuwopseza anzathu kapena kuwoneka ngati osowa kwambiri. Koma pali njira zofotokozera zomwe mukufuna muubwenzi (ndipo makamaka, ndi munthu amene mwakumana naye) osawoneka wovuta kapena wosasinthika.
Ikani muzokambirana zinthu zomwe mwazindikira kuti "ndiyofunika kukhala nazo" muubwenzi mwa kunena china chonga "Ndikadziwa kuti ndili pachibwenzi, ndimangokhala naye pachibwenzi. Ndine wokha. Nanga inu? ”
Cholinga cha zokambiranazi ndikufotokozera kuti nonse mukuyang'ana chinthu chomwecho pamene mukuyamba mutu watsopanowu m'moyo wachikondi..
Ndibwino kuti mudziwe tsopano, musanapereke ndalama zochuluka mwa mwamunayo, kuti ayi, akufuna kusewera.
2. Tengani pang'onopang'ono
Chinthu choyamba chomwe anthu angachite kuti athetse ubale womwe ungakhale wowopsa mu bud ndi kukhala pachibwenzi mwachangu kwambiri.
Tsutsani mahomoni athu, koma ndizosavuta "kupita patali kwambiri, mofulumira" mukangodya chakudya chamadzulo chamadzulo, kumwa, kutsanulira mitima yanu kwa wina ndi mnzake, ndipo nyenyezi zomwe zili m'maso mwanu zikukuchititsani khungu kudziwa kuti simunagwiritse ntchito nthawi yoyenera kuti mulumikizane.
Kumbukirani: Kugona limodzi koyambirira kwa chibwenzi sikungathandize kuti pakhale kulumikizana kwanzeru komanso kwachikondi komwe mukufuna muubwenzi wanthawi yayitali, wokhazikika.
Njira yabwinoko yomangira maziko okhazikika momwe mungamangire nkhani yachikondi ndi kuyamba kukhazikitsa mgwirizano, kenako wachikondi, ndipo chomaliza mwakuthupi. Njirayi iyenera kuchitidwa pang'onopang'ono, mosamala, ndikupitiliza kulumikizana pakati pawo.
Ngati mnzanu akukukakamizani kuti mukhale pachibwenzi msanga kuposa momwe mumamverera bwino, ndipo samvera chifukwa chomwe mungafune kudikira, iyi ikhoza kukhala mbendera yofiira yomwe mukufuna kumvetsera. Nthawi zisanu ndi zinayi sanakuchezereni m'mawa mukangogonjera pempho lake.
Akatswiriwo akuti lamulo labwino ndi kugwiritsa ntchito masiku asanu ndi limodzi oyamba kuti mudziwane ndikupanga kulumikizana kofunikira kopanda thupi musanatengere zinthu kuchipinda.
3. Apatseni malo ochuluka kuti akule
Tonsefe timakonda omvera, masabata oyamba akumva ubale wabwino. Ndipo ngakhale kuli kovuta komanso kosavuta kusinthanitsa zolemba, zithunzi, mameseji ndi ma emotic tsiku lonse ndi chidwi chanu chatsopano, musachedwe.
Osamasefukira mu inbox. Kungakhale lingaliro lachikale, koma ndichotsimikizika: chikondi chimayatsa bwino pakakhala malo ndi mtunda pakati pa kulumikizana.
Kukhudzana kwambiri koyambirira kumayatsa lawi lomwe likukula ngati madzi oyaka. Ndizovuta, koma osakhalaponso. (Mutha kuganiza za iye m'malingaliro anu zonse zomwe mukufuna; palibe amene angadziwe za izi!).
Ndipo ngati amakulemberani mameseji nthawi zonse, muzikayikira.
Mwina ndi adrenaline junky, akuchita chimodzimodzi ndi akazi ena. Njira yabwino kwambiri yoyambira chibwenzi chatsopano ndikutulutsa maimelo, mawu ndi mauthenga komanso tsikuli m'njira yoti pakhale malo pakati pa izi kuti malingaliro anu akule bwino.
4. Madeti anu oyamba si magawo azithandizo, chifukwa chake musawulule zochulukirapo
Chimodzi mwazolakwitsa zazikulu kwambiri zomwe mungapange mukamayamba chibwenzi chatsopano ndi chizolowezi chomasula katundu wanu wonse nthawi yomweyo. Kupatula apo, muli ndi mnzanu wapamtima pomwepo, yemwe amakufunsani mafunso ambiri, ofunitsitsa kuti adziwane.
Ngati mwatuluka kumene muubwenzi wina, ndipo mwina muli pachibwenzi posachedwa, zidzakhala zosavuta kuwulula zonse zaubwenziwo. Zowawa zanu zili pompopompo, zokonzeka kutsanulira aliyense amene angafune kudziwa chifukwa chake simuli pabanja.(Tiyeni tikulangizeni pano kuti musakhale pachibwenzi mwachangu banja litatha, komanso kuti muwonetsetse kuti ndinu okalamba kale musanalowe m'banja lina, makamaka lomwe mukufuna kupita nalo kwanthawi yayitali.)
Chinsinsi chimakopa, chifukwa chake gwiritsani ntchito madeti sikisi oyambilira kuti mulankhule za inu nokha - ntchito yanu, zokonda zanu, malo omwe mumakonda kutchuthi - koma sungani nkhani zakale zaubwenzi kapena zokumana nazo zakuya zakumapeto kwa mzere mukakhala Kukhala otetezeka ndi wokondedwa wanu.
Gwiritsani ntchito madeti sikisi oyambilira kuti musangalale, mugawane mphindi zopepuka, ndikuwonetsani mbali zanu zosangalatsa.
5. Pitirizani kukhala moyo wanu, moyo wabwino kwambiri
Cholakwika china chomwe anthu amapanga polumikizana ndi munthu watsopano ndikuyika ndalama zochuluka muubwenzi watsopano ndikuyika moyo wawo pambali. Mnzanu watsopanoyu anakopeka nanu chifukwa cha moyo wabwino womwe mumakhala musanakumane, ndiye pitirizani kukhala ndi moyo! Pitilizani maphunziro anu othamanga, makalasi anu achi French, ntchito yanu yodzipereka ndi osowa pokhala, atsikana anu-usiku-kutuluka.
Palibe chomwe chingathe kupha ubale womwe ukukula mwachangu kuposa kupatsa zonsezi kuti muziyang'ana pa munthu watsopanoyo.
Osanyalanyaza omwe mudali musanakhalepo pachibwenzichi - ndinu wokongola kwambiri chifukwa cha zinthu zopindulitsa zomwe mumachita mukasiyana.