Zamkati
- Ana aang'ono kwambiri omwe amafuna kuti makolo awo abwerere
- Ana sasamala za inu chifukwa pamapeto pake mudzachoka
- Ana ali mu zaka zawo zachinyamata ndipo samakusamalirani kwenikweni
- Kumbukirani, ana ali kale mu msinkhu wawo wachinyamata
- Khazikani mtima pansi
M'masiku ano a chisudzulo ndi maukwati angapo mkati mwa moyo wa munthu, kukhala ndi makolo opeza komanso ana kumaonedwa ngati kwachilendo. Kukwatirana ndi ana, monga ukwati wina uliwonse ndi chisankho chaumwini, ndipo palibe amene ali ndi ufulu wokuweruzani chifukwa chaichi.
Komabe, monga kudzipereka konse, pali maudindo ndikukwatira wina amene ali ndi ana kutanthauza kuti inunso muyenera kukhala ndiudindo wa ana awo. Ngati ndi nkhani ya ndalama basi, aliyense wodalirika ayenera kuthana nayo. Koma kulera ana opeza ndi kovuta kuposa pamenepo. Nazi mavuto omwe makolo amakumana nawo komanso momwe angathetsere mavutowa.
Ana aang'ono kwambiri omwe amafuna kuti makolo awo abwerere
Ili ndi vuto lofala kwa ana azaka zoyambira sukulu zoyambira. Safuna kulandira kholo lopeza latsopano, chifukwa akuyembekezerabe kuti kholo lawo lobadwa lidzabweranso. Amaona wopeza kuti ndi “woipa” amene amalekerera makolo awo oyamba.
Ngati ili ndilo vuto lomwe mukukumana nalo, muyenera kukhala oleza mtima kwambiri chifukwa mukuchita ndi mwana wosalakwa. Ndikosavuta kudziwa ngati muli ndi vutoli. Mwanayo anganene izi pamaso panu.
Zimakhala zokopa kuti muchite zonse zomwe mungathe kuti mukhale kholo lolowa m'malo ndikusinthira yemwe wachoka. Osayeserera kuyesayesa chifukwa ngakhale utayesetsa motani, sungakhale kholo lawo lobadwa.
Mvetsetsani kuti kholo lobadwira lidzakhala kholo la mwanayo nthawi zonse, ndipo pokhapokha ngati pangakhale milandu yovuta yosunga malamulo, adzakhala ndi ufulu, mwamalamulo ndi mwamakhalidwe, kwa mwanayo.
Ingokhalani inu. Chitirani mwanayo monga mungafune kuchitira mwana wanu.
Kungoganiza kuti sindinu psychopath kapena wina wokhala ndi mwana wodabwitsa, m'kupita kwanthawi, mwanayo amabwera ndipo adzakulandirani ngati kholo lawo lopeza.
Kuphatikiza apo, ndizopanikiza ndipo pamapeto pake sizingatheke kudumpha zokhazokha kuti musangalatse mwana, pomwe mutha kukhala nokha.
Ngati simukuchita ngati mukuyesera kusiya kholo lawo lomwe kulibe ndikukhala anzawo okalamba kwa iwo, adzazigwiritsa ntchito ndikumvetsetsa gawo lanu m'moyo wawo.
Ana sasamala za inu chifukwa pamapeto pake mudzachoka
Akuganiza kuti mudzachoka, monga ena Iyi ndi mbendera yayikulu kwambiri yofiira. Zonse za mwana ndipo ndinu mnzake watsopano. Wachinyamata wokhala ndi malingaliro amtunduwu amatanthauza kuti chidaliro chawo chidasweka nthawi zambiri kuti asakhulupirire wina aliyense. Adzakula osakhulupilira aliyense ndikuopa kudzipereka.
Zimatanthauzanso kuti wokondedwa wanu anali ndi zibwenzi zingapo m'mbuyomu ndipo sizinathandize. Chitsanzo ngati ichi chikuwonetsa kuti anthu ena zimawavuta kuti azigwirizana ndi mnzanu watsopanoyo.
Ndikumayambiriro kwambiri kuti tiweruze, koma taganizirani kuti ndi chenjezo. Ponena za mwanayo, ndibwino kuti musakangane nawo. Sangakhale ndi lingaliro lozama popanda chifukwa. Muyenera kuwatsimikizira kuti akulakwitsa osalankhula za izo. Simukudziwa momwe zinthu zimathera choncho ndibwino kuti musalonjeze chilichonse kenako ndikuphwanya pamapeto pake.
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazomwe nthawi ikufotokozereni, ndipo zabwino zomwe mungachite ndikungokhala ndikulola mwanayo kuti adzakumverenso akakonzeka.
Ana ali mu zaka zawo zachinyamata ndipo samakusamalirani kwenikweni
Amasangalala kuti kholo lawo lapeza wina ndipo amakuwonerani ngati mipando m'nyumba mwawo kuti kholo lawo likhale losangalala, ndipo chachiwiri ndikuti, amaganiza kuti ndinu mlendo yemwe kholo lawo likufuna kukhala ngati chiweto chosafunikira.
Pali mavuto ambiri okweza ana, koma awa ndiosavuta kuthana nawo. Monga ziweto zina zosafunikira ndi mipando. Ngati ndi zabwino, zothandiza, komanso nthawi zina zokongola. Pamapeto pake amakhala gawo labanja.
Kumbukirani, ana ali kale mu msinkhu wawo wachinyamata
Osalowerera m'miyoyo yawo pokhapokha ngati atafunsidwa kuti muchite izi, mukamachita zinthu mopanda ulemu komanso ngati "kholo," ana amakukhumudwitsani kwambiri ndipo pamapeto pake amakhumudwa kupezeka kwanu.
Chinthu chomaliza chomwe achinyamata akufuna ndi wachikulire wina amene amawauza zoyenera kuchita. Tonse tidakhalako, timada. Momwemonso iwo akanatero.
Khalani abwenzi, makamaka ngati wopeza ndi wamwamuna kapena wamkazi, koma musamale malo awo achinsinsi.
Khalani mchimwene wanu wokoma mtima komanso wodalirika kuposa kholo lopeza.
Ngati simuli oyenera kulekerera anyamata osasamala, makamaka ngati ndi nyumba yanu, uzani mnzanu kuti achite nawo polankhula nawo mwamseri.
Popeza ana ali azaka zakubadwa khumi, mutha kupirira ndikudikirira mpaka atachoka zaka zingapo, kapena kukakamiza mnzanu (mseri) kuti alange mwana wawo.
Khazikani mtima pansi
Palinso mavuto ena ofala polera ana, koma ambiri mwa iwo ndi kusiyana kwa zitsanzo zitatuzi. Njira yothetsera vutoli ndi yomweyo. Osakakamiza kutulutsa, khalani oleza mtima, ndipo khalani nokha. Ngati ndinu munthu wabwino, ndiye kuti ana (achinyamata akuphatikizidwa), adzakuweruzani chifukwa cha zomwe muli. Ngati ndinu amisala ndipo simukonda ana, ndiye kuti ndi vuto lina palimodzi.
Mutha kuyang'ana ana opeza ngati cholemetsa kapena mphatso. Koma mosasamala kanthu momwe mumamvera za iwo, nthawi zonse amakhala gawo la moyo wanu watsopano ndipo musayembekezere kuti wokondedwa wanu atenga mbali yanu, ngakhale mukunena zowona ... kapena mukuganiza kuti ndinu.
Ndiwe wamkulu, zili kwa iwe kuti uchite koyamba. Ngakhale atasamukira mnyumba mwanu, ndi inu omwe mumangoyang'aniridwa ndikuweruzidwa, ngakhale ana anena kuti sasamala. Chowonadi ndi chakuti, amatero, ndipo popeza mukuwerenga nkhaniyi mumawakondanso. Chifukwa chake khalani nokha ndikusamala. Nthawi ndi bwenzi lanu komanso woweruza wanu wamkulu.