Zamkati
- Chitsogozo cha kupulumuka kwa kulera ana osowa kwambiri
- 1. Yesetsani kudzisamalira bwino
- 2. Dziwani kuti kumverera kwanu ndikwabwino ndipo landirani chithandizo chomwe mukufuna
- 3. Pezani nthawi yolankhulana moona mtima ndi mnzanu
- 4. Sinthanitsani kusamalira ana ndi makolo ena omwe mumawakhulupirira
- 5. Konzani nyumba yanu kuti muchite bwino
- Mwachitsanzo -
- 6. Pangani miyambo yosangalatsa komanso yatanthauzo yabanja
- 7. Sangalalani ndi zochitika zazikulu
Ana ena amangovuta kukhala kholo kuposa ena. Ana osowa kwambiri bwerani ndi zina zosowa zazikulu kuposa ana omwe safunika kwambiri.
Kaya mwana wanu ali ndi zosowa zamankhwala, zovuta zam'maganizo kapena zamakhalidwe, kuphunzira kapena kukula, kapena zovuta, kulera mwana wosowa kwambiri yemwe ali ndi zovuta komanso zovuta nthawi zambiri zimakhala zotopetsa.
Chitsogozo cha kupulumuka kwa kulera ana osowa kwambiri
Nkhaniyi ikufotokoza zinthu zisanu ndi ziwiri zomwe mungachite kuti mukhale ana osowa kwambiri.
1. Yesetsani kudzisamalira bwino
Kudzisamalira bwino zimaphatikizapo chilichonse muyenera ndicholinga choti kukhala wathanzi momwe mungathere.
Idyani zakudya zopatsa thanzi, muzichita masewera olimbitsa thupi, muzikhala pafupi ndi tulo tabwino monga momwe mungathere, khalani ndi nthawi m'chilengedwe, komanso pitilizani ndi maubale ofunikira.
Kupanga zinthu izi kukhala gawo la moyo wanu kungapangitse kusiyana kwakukulu pa thanzi lanu, malingaliro anu, ubale wanu ndi mnzanu, komanso kuthekera kwanu kukwaniritsa zosowa za mwana wanu ndikukhalapo kwathunthu.
2. Dziwani kuti kumverera kwanu ndikwabwino ndipo landirani chithandizo chomwe mukufuna
Zomwe mukukumana nazo ndi zachilendo komanso zovomerezeka. Zimakhala zachilendo kwa makolo omwe amatambasula thupi kuti azimva kutopa, kukwiya, kukhumudwa, kudandaula, kukhumudwa, ndi zina.
Funani thandizo lililonse lomwe mungafune.
Uphungu angathe perekani malo otetezeka kuti fotokozani momwe mukumvera ndi kulandira chithandizo. Magulu othandizira makolo omwe akukhala ndi mwana wofunikira kwambiri monga momwe inu muliri atha kukhalanso opindulitsa.
Makolo ena adayenda mu nsapato zanu ndipo amatha kupereka kutsimikizika ndi upangiri womwe palibe wina angathe.
3. Pezani nthawi yolankhulana moona mtima ndi mnzanu
Patulani nthawi yoti inu ndi mnzanu muzikhala limodzi. Mufunika mitundu iwiri yakuchezera limodzi -
- Mwayi wokambirana nkhani zokhudzana ndi kulera ndi kayendetsedwe ka moyo wanu, ndipo
- Nthawi yosangalatsa yolumikizana popanda kukambirana zinthuzi.
Nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosavuta kuphatikiza awa nthawi m'moyo wanu mukazipanga kukhala gawo lazomwe mumachita pafupipafupi.
Ngakhale mphindi khumi tsiku lililonse zimatha kusintha.
4. Sinthanitsani kusamalira ana ndi makolo ena omwe mumawakhulupirira
Kukhala ndi banja limodzi kapena awiri odalirika omwe mwana wanu amakhala nawo momasuka, ndipo ndani angakupatseni mpumulo pakafunika kutero, atha kukuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi moyo wabwino.
Yesani kutero sungani nthawi zonse pamene wanu mwana amatha nthawi yayitali kuchoka ndi mabanja awa, kukupatsani inu ndi mnzanu mpata wokonzanso, kulumikizanso, ndikuchita zinthu zovuta kuchita mwana wanu akakhala pakhomo.
5. Konzani nyumba yanu kuti muchite bwino
Momwe ndingathere, pangani nyumba yanu kupambana.
Konzani nyumba yanu m'njira yosavuta kumaliza ntchito zatsiku ndi tsiku, komanso kuti mwana wanu azitsatira malangizo anu. Sungani zinthu komwe mukuzifuna, sungani zinthu zoletsedwa kuti zisapezeke, ikani zotchingira mipando, ndi zina zambiri.
Sinthani chilengedwe kuti kukumana ndi mwana wanu ndi yanu zosowa za banja. Komanso, yesetsani kukonza ndandanda yanu yabanja kuti ntchito zizikhala zosalala momwe zingathere.
Mwachitsanzo -
Yesetsani kuwonetsetsa kuti mwana wanu akupumula bwino ndikudyetsedwa asanagule. Fewetsani magetsi kuti azisonyeza kuti akupita kukagona ndipo musalole zinthu zosokoneza musanagone.
Mukamatha kusunga dongosolo lomwe limakwaniritsa zinthu zomwe zikuchitika momwe mukufunira, ndizosavuta kwa aliyense komanso mphamvu zochepa zomwe mungagwiritse ntchito posunga zonse panjira.
6. Pangani miyambo yosangalatsa komanso yatanthauzo yabanja
Pangani miyambo ina yabanja yomwe ili yosangalatsa komanso yatanthauzo ku banja lanu.
Miyambo imapereka kufunika kwa moyo.
Zitha kutero zosangalatsa kusangalala ndi zinthu wamba ndi mwambo wapadera wabanja. Miyambo imeneyi ikhoza kukhala yosavuta kapena yovuta monga momwe banja lanu lingasankhire kuzipanga. Zindikirani abale anu chifukwa cha kukoma mtima, ntchito zothandiza kapena zomwe zakwaniritsidwa kusukulu.
Pangani kukumbatira kwapabanja pomwe wina m'banjamo akuchoka paulendo wawufupi. Sankhani malo apadera pakhoma kuti mulumikizane nawo. Pangani "tchuthi" cha banja lanu lokha.
Palibe malire pazosangalatsa komanso zomangira mabanja zomwe miyambo yapabanja imatha kupanga.
7. Sangalalani ndi zochitika zazikulu
Kodi mwana wanu anali ndi luso lomwe wakhala akuchita? Kodi pamapeto pake adalimba mtima kutsatira njira zake zamankhwala tsiku ndi tsiku popanda kulira kapena kuzengereza? Kodi adatha sabata yonse osalemba zolemba zolakwika kunyumba?
Zikondwerereni! Muzisangalala ndi zonse zomwe mungathe, ndipo kondwerani ndi zomwe mwana wanu wakwanitsa, ngakhale zitakhala zazing'ono bwanji.
Ndikusintha pang'ono kunyumba ndi mabanja, kulera mwana wanu wosowa kwambiri angathe kukhala kosavuta. Yesani kusankha chimodzi kapena ziwiri kuti muyambe.
Zinthuzo zikaphatikizidwa m'moyo wanu, mutha kuwonjezera zina. Kenako zithokozeni chifukwa cha zomwe mwachita ndikusangalala ndi mapinduwa omwe akubweretsa kwa inu ndi banja lanu.