Zamkati
- Limbikitsani mnzanu
- Mverani
- Pezani luso ndi zomwe muli nazo
- Phunzirani kayendedwe
- Gwiritsani ntchito thupi lanu
- Palibe chomwe chingakhale bwino popanda kuchita
Kukhala pachibwenzi kumangokhala chimodzimodzi ndi zosangalatsa zosakhalitsa, ndipo ngakhale anthu nthawi zambiri amaziganiza chimodzimodzi ndi "kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha", zinthu sizimangokulira msanga nthawi yomwe mwakumana.
Inde, zitha kudzafika pamapeto pake, koma kukhala pachibwenzi ndi wina, ngakhale kuli koyenera ndipo palibe vuto lililonse, ndikofanana ndi mwambo, ndipo tonse tikudziwa kuti mwambo uliwonse uli ndi malamulo ake. Chinsinsi chaubwenzi uliwonse, wokhazikika kapena wosakhazikika, ndikudziwa momwe mungalankhulire ndi mnzanuyo ndikumunyengerera ndi nzeru zanu zakumvetsetsa ndikulankhula.
Nthawi zambiri zomwe timakhala ndi anzathu omwe timakhala nawo pachibwenzi timayankhula.
Nthawi zina zitha kuchitika kuti timangokhalira kukayikira zokayikitsa, kapena kuyambitsa nkhani yovuta pazokambirana zazing'ono zomwe timakhala ndi anzathu, ndipo timachita manyazi kuti sitingapitilize zokambiranazo; izi sizitanthauza kuti uyenera kukhala mathero a macheza abwino omwe mudachitako kale ndikusangalala.
Tapanga malangizo abwino kwambiri pazokambirana zapabanja, monga kumvera, kulimbikitsa, ndi maupangiri ena othandiza omwe mungamangirepo maluso, ndi momwe angazigwiritsire ntchito moyenera.
Limbikitsani mnzanu
Mukapitilira pamutu ndikusowa malingaliro, yesetsani kulimbikitsa mnzakeyo kuti azikambirana zambiri za iye.
Anthu amakonda kuyankhula za iwo okha, ndipo ndi nkhani yomwe amawadziwa bwino.
Yambani kufunsa mafunso, ndipo kumbukirani, nthawi zonse khalani ndi chidwi chenicheni ndi anzanu komanso zomwe akunena.
Mverani
Kukhala wolankhula bwino kumatanthauza kukhala womvera wabwino, ndipo sizitanthauza kuti muyenera kupita panja, kumapeto kwa zokambirana ndikudzipatula kwa ena; mukufunikiranso kuyankhulana nawo.
Khalani ndi chidwi chenicheni ndi zomwe mnzanu wanena ndikuwonetsetsa zomwe wokamba nkhani wina akunena pokhala tcheru mukamacheza, kugwedeza mutu kapena kumwetulira, ndikupereka ndemanga zabwino pazomwe mnzanu akufuna kukupatsirani.
Anthu ena amasankha kuchita zibwenzi nthawi zina kuti angokhala ndi winawake wowamvera.
Pezani luso ndi zomwe muli nazo
Nthawi zonse khalani ndi mitu yosangalatsa yoyambira zokambirana.
Yesetsani kudziwitsidwa ndi nkhani, zosangalatsa, kapena zochitika zaposachedwa, kuti nthawi zonse muzikhala ndi china chake choyenera kuyamba ndikuwonjezera pazokambirana zanu.
Phunzirani kayendedwe
Zili ngati nyimbo, ndipo ndikofunikira kuti muyenera kudziwa nthawi yopumira ndi kudikira nkhani.
Mukayamba kuyang'anira zokambiranazo ndikutengeka kwambiri, ndiye kuti nkhani iyamba kuwoneka ngati kufunsa mafunso, m'malo mongocheza mwaubwenzi, ndipo mnzanuyo angakhumudwe ndipo pamapeto pake adzaisiya. Izi zimachitika mosemphanitsa.
Sungani zocheza pokhapokha wina atakuikani paudindowu posonyeza kuti amakukondani.
Gwiritsani ntchito thupi lanu
Ndizodziwika bwino kuti 55% yolumikizirana yathu imafotokozedwa mopanda tanthauzo, kudzera pamawu osalankhula, nkhope, kapena kusintha kwa mawonekedwe.
Zambiri zomwe timayesa kufotokoza zimabwera mosazindikira ndipo zimatsagana ndi kuyankhula kudzera pazinthu zotsatirazi, koma tikhozanso kuphunzira kuzifotokoza mozindikira.
Palibe chomwe chingakhale bwino popanda kuchita
Nthawi zambiri mumapezeka m'malo ovuta pomwe nkhani yaying'ono imayamba kutengera njira yosasangalatsa ndipo mudzakakamizidwa kuyambitsa vutoli, ndiye kuti ngati simukufuna kutaya macheza.
Ziribe kanthu komwe muli, mu chikepe cha kuntchito kulonjera anzanu anzanu, kunyumba ndi mnzanu, ku cashier ku supermarket kwanuko, mutha kugwiritsa ntchito njira zonse pamwambapa zomwe tazilemba mulimonse momwe zingakhalire bwino ndikulankhula panache.
Muyamba kupeza 'miyala yokambirana', zidutswa zomwe zingakupatseni phindu lenileni, zomwe mumakonda kukambirana kwambiri.
Ndipo mudzadabwa kuti inunso muponya 'miyala yamtengo wapatali' iyi kwa ena. Titha kuphunzira zambiri ndikukhala ndi maubwenzi abwino, otukuka komanso opindulitsa ngati tingolimbikitsana, kumvetsera, ndi kuvina mochulukira mchiyero cha mawu omwe timagawana wina ndi mnzake m'moyo wathu watsiku ndi tsiku.