Zochita Khumi Zachikondi Zolimbikitsira Maanja

Zamkati

• Kutanthauzira zachikondi ndi malingaliro atsiku lachikondi
• Zomwe muyenera kudziwa zokhudza kukondana
• Momwe mungaphatikizire zachikondi pachibwenzi changa
• 1. Kupatsana mphatso
• 2. Makadi olonjera
• 3. Kulembetsa kwamakalata
• 4. Sambani mapazi
• 5. Kutikita akatswiri
• 6. Ndakatulo ndi nyimbo
• 7. Chimbale
• 8. chopukutira mu choumitsira
• 9. Kusaka mkangaziwisi
• 10. Zolemba za maswiti

Ngati mukufuna kudziwa momwe mungakhalire okondana kwambiri muubwenzi wanu, mwafika pamalo oyenera kuti mudziwe zambiri za maanja omwe ali pachibwenzi, momwe mungakhalire okondana komanso achikondi kwa maanja.

Thambo ndi malire zikafika pazokondana za maanja zomwe zimalimbikitsa kukondana.

Kuika patsogolo zochitika zachikondi za tsiku ndi tsiku kumalimbitsa maubwenzi, komanso kumalimbikitsa mgwirizano wa nthawi yayitali.

Nkhaniyi ikufuna kupereka upangiri waubwenzi wokondana ndikupereka zochitika khumi zazikuluzikulu za mabanja kuti okonda ayambe.

Kutanthauzira zachikondi ndi malingaliro atsiku lachikondi

Anthu ambiri amaganiza za "kukondana" monga zochitika zina monga kuwonera kulowa kwa dzuwa limodzi, kudya chakudya chamakandulo, kapena kumwa vinyo pamoto wowotcha.

Ngakhale izi zikuyenera kukhala zochitika zachikondi, lingalirolo ndi kuyambitsa chilimbikitso kwa maanja omwe ali ndi malingaliro achikondi omwe amayamba ntchito zazing'ono koma zopindulitsa zachikondi ndi kupembedza.

Zochita zachikondi zitha kukhala zosavuta, monga kutola duwa la mnzanu nthawi zina, kapena cholemba chachikondi chobisika. Zitha kukhalanso zapamwamba, monga kukonzekera tchuthi chodzidzimutsa, kapena kukongoletsa nyumbayo ndi maunyolo a maswiti ndikumera maluwa.

Ngakhale mukuchita zinthu zachikondi zoti muchite, kaya zazing'ono kapena zazing'ono, ndizo zomwe mumachita mozindikira, zopangira cholinga chonena kuti "Ndimakukondani".

Zomwe muyenera kudziwa zokhudza kukondana

1. Malingaliro achikondi kwa maanja amapanga mwayi wothandizana nawo kuti azicheza limodzi
2. Zochita zachikondi kulimbikitsa ubwenzi; kubweretsa mankhwala athupi okhudzana ndi chikondi
3. Zochita zachikondi za okwatirana lolani kulumikizana kowonjezereka
4. Masewera achikondi Lolani kuseka, zosangalatsa, ndi zosangalatsa
5. Kukondana pakati pa okwatirana kumapangitsa a chikumbutso chokhazikika cha chikondi ndi kupembedza
6. Zochita zachikondi kunyumba kapena panja sungani zinthu zatsopano komanso okangalika, (makamaka makamaka kwakanthawi)
7. Zochita zachikondi Thandizani abwenzi kuti adziwane bwino
8. Zochita za maanja achikondi kulimbikitsa ndikukhazikitsanso ulemu ndi kubwezerana
9. Malingaliro achikondi kupanga kukaikira, kuyembekezera, ndi kusangalala
10. Chibwenzi chenicheni chidzakhala wopanda kunyong'onyeka

Momwe mungaphatikizire zachikondi pachibwenzi changa

Nayi yankho lotsimikizika kufunso, momwe mungakhalire okondana kwambiri.

Ngakhale sizichedwa kuyamba, maanja omwe akuchita bwino atha kuyamba zachikondi adakali nthawi yayitali. Pochita izi, zachikondi zitha kukhala gawo lanu lalumikizidwe lomwe lingakhale zaka zikubwerazi.

Pansipa tilembapo maluso khumi okondana kuti musangalale.

Ngakhale malingaliro amakono achikondi ndi tsiku la tsiku ndi anu kuti mugwiritse ntchito momwe mumafunira, kumbukirani kuti ndibwino kuti muwagwiritse ntchito ngati chitsogozo, kuwongolera, kuwakongoletsa kapena kuwongolera, komanso kubwera ndi ena anu.

Kumbukirani kuti zinthu zachikondi zomwe anthu okwatirana ayenera kuchita ziyenera kukhala zopanga, zosintha, zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa.

Nazi zinthu zina zachikondi kwambiri kwa iye ndi iye zomwe zitha kuvomerezedwa mosavuta

1. Kupatsana mphatso

Tsatirani lamulo loti mphatso zizikhala zokulunga nthawi zonse.

Malangizo othandizira iwo kunja ndi otanganidwa ndi kusungitsa mphatso, kuwabisa kuti athe kutulutsidwa nthawi ikakwana.

Nthawi yoyenera kupereka mphatso yosakutidwa ili m'chiwonetsero, mwachitsanzo: mkanda ukhoza kumangidwa mozungulira chimbalangondo, kapena mphete yachitetezo pansi pa galasi la champagne.

2. Makadi olonjera

Khadi lolonjera limatha kuperekedwa ndi mphatso iliyonse, ndipo kuzisunga kumatha kubwera mosavuta mukakhala kuti mulibe nthawi yogula. Amatha kutsagana ndi maluwa, chokoleti, zibaluni, nyama yodzaza, kapena mphatso ina.

3. Kulembetsa kwamakalata

Kodi mnzanu amakonda chokoleti, zovala zamkati, mafuta onunkhira? Makampani ambiri amapereka zibonga kapena mamembala, omwe amatumiza zitsanzo mwezi uliwonse pamakalata.

4. Sambani mapazi

Gwirani mphika wamadzi otentha ndi sopo; sambani mapazi ake, pukutsani, kenako pitirizani ntchito yanu. Adzakhala wolemekezeka komanso wosalankhula.

5. Kutikita akatswiri

Mutha kusisita bwenzi lanu nokha, kapena ngati mulibe chidaliro ndi luso lanu, pangani msonkhano wa awiri ku spa kapena malo osisitirako. Awiri a inu mudzasangalala kusangalala pamodzi.

6. Ndakatulo ndi nyimbo

Ngati mukukonzekera, lembani ndakatulo imodzi yokhudzana ndi mnzanuyo ndipo muilembe muzojambula ndi kuzikonza. Kapenanso, onani momwe mungakhalire ndi chimbale chojambulidwa ndi woimba yemwe amamukonda yemwe adamujambula ndikutumiza.

7. Chimbale

Sonkhanitsani chimbale chazithunzi chomwe chimakhala chikumbutso cha inu ndi moyo wa mnzanu. Itha kukhala ndi zithunzi zaana aliyense wa inu, kenako nthawi yoyimiridwa ndi zithunzi za inu musanakumane, muli pachibwenzi, mpaka pano. Mukamaliza, mutha kukhala maola ambiri mukukumbukira zokumbukira zanu.

8. chopukutira mu choumitsira

Mupukuteni ndi thaulo musanawotha mutatha kusamba kapena kusamba. Amatsimikizika kuti azikonda.

9. Kusaka mkangaziwisi

Bisani zolemba zingapo mosamala panyumba ndi milozo. Wokondedwa wanu apita mtedza kuti azindikire mwambi uliwonse ndikupeza chidziwitso chilichonse chatsopano. Pamapeto pa kusaka nyama, mphotho iyenera kudikirira.

10. Zolemba za maswiti

Ngati mnzanu amakonda maswiti, mutha kusiya zodandaula zamtundu uliwonse koma zokoma ndi maswiti. Phukusi la Red Hots likhoza kunena kuti "Ndikutenthetsani inu", kapena kupsompsona kwa Hershey atha kugwiritsidwa ntchito ngati makuponi a "kupsompsona" kapena zina zokomera thupi.