Zamkati
- Palibe wina amene ndingakhale bwino kuposa ine. ” - Wreck-It Ralph
- "Zinthu zomwe zikukulepheretsani zikukwezani." - Dumbo
- “Chikondi ndichoika zofuna za wina aliyense patsogolo pa zofuna zako.” - Achisanu
- "Chofunika ndi chikhulupiriro komanso kudalira." - Peter Pan
- "Ngakhale zozizwitsa zimatenga kanthawi." - Cinderella
Ngati ndinu wokonda Disney (ndipo kwenikweni - ndani sali?) Mwina ndinu wachikondi wopanda chiyembekezo.
Ndipo ngakhale Disney sangawulule nkhani yonse m'makanema awo, titha kupeza mauthenga ofunikira - mauthenga omwe angatithandize kulimbitsa ubwenzi muukwati kapena kumanga chibwenzi.
Ngati mukuwona kuti banja lanu likusowa chikondi, Nazi njira zina zomwe mungakhalire ogwirizana zomwe zingakhale zofunikira kwambiri pakupanga chibwenzi m'banja lanu.
Palibe wina amene ndingakhale bwino kuposa ine. ” - Wreck-It Ralph
Kodi mudadzitayapo nokha mu chibwenzi? Amayi ambiri (ndi amuna!) Amakumana ndi izi muukwati wawo.Amayesetsa kukhala chilichonse chomwe wokondedwa wawo akufuna kuti adzakhale ndikudzitayitsa panthawiyi.
Amakonda okondedwa wawo kwambiri kotero kuti amaiwala kudzikonda.
Pakadali pano, mwina simudziwa kuti kukondana kwenikweni kapena kukhala pachibwenzi ndizosatheka ngati mulibe kuyamika - osati kwa wokondedwa wanu yekha, komanso kwa inu nokha. Ngati simumadziona kuti ndinu ofunika, mungayembekezere bwanji kuti wina azikutumikirani?
Popita nthawi mutha kuyamba kukwiyira wokondedwa wanu chifukwa chokupangitsani kumva ngati kuti simuli okwanira. Malingaliro awa pamapeto pake angapangitse kuti muwonongeke.
Koma si mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu amene amakupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu wonyozeka, ndi inuyo. Mukuopa kukhala nokha chifukwa mukuganiza kuti palibe amene angakukondeni chifukwa cha zomwe muli. Kodi mukufunadi kudzipereka nokha kwa mnzanu?
Kupatula apo, ngakhale ubale wanu wapano utatha, muyenera kukhalabe ndi inu moyo wanu wonse. Ngati muloleza mnzanu kuti akuwoneni zenizeni, mutha kufikira pachibwenzi mwachikondi kuposa zophophonya zanu.
Kudziwa momwe mungakhalire ogonana pabedi ndi momwe mungapangire chibwenzi muukwati kumayamba ndikudzilemekeza komanso kudzikonda.
"Zinthu zomwe zikukulepheretsani zikukwezani." - Dumbo
Eileen, yemwe tsopano ali m'banja lake lachiwiri, adakumana ndi mwamuna wake wapano zaka ziwiri atasudzulana. Pomwe adamuwuza kanthu kapena ziwiri za chibwenzi chake cham'mbuyomu, sanamuuze nkhani yonse. '
‘Vutoli lidayamba zaka ziwiri zapitazo, pomwe ndidamuuza mwamuna wanga woyamba kuti ndimusiya,” akufotokoza. ”Poyamba, zimawoneka ngati akugwirizana ndi lingaliro langa. Koma popita masiku anayamba kulusa ndikuyamba kundiopseza.
Nditangopeza mwayi, ndinasunthira kutali ndi iye momwe ndingathere, koma ziwopsezozo sizinathe mpaka miyezi 6 pambuyo pake.
Kuyamba chibwenzi chatsopano sikunali kophweka ndipo kutsegula kunali kovuta kwambiri. Pambuyo pake, mnzanga wapano adazindikira kuti panali zambiri pankhaniyi kuposa momwe ndimavomera. Apa ndiye ndidamuuza zonse zomwe zidachitika.
Mwa kugawana nkhawa zanga ndidakwanitsa kusiya. Koma zinandithandizanso kulumikizana ndi mnzanga watsopano m'njira yomwe sindimayembekezera. Zomwe zimandivuta m'mbuyomu zidandithandiza kudziwa momwe ndingakhalire ndi banja labwino tsopano. "
Ubale uli wodzaza ndi zotsika. Zinthu zimachitika ndipo inu kapena mnzanu mumatha kuvulala.
Gwiritsani ntchito mwayi uwu kuti mudziwe za momwe mungakhalire oyandikana ndi momwe mungapangire chibwenzi muubwenzi kapena mu banja lanu pogwiritsira ntchito izi kuti mupange kulumikizana kozama ndi mnzanu.
“Chikondi ndichoika zofuna za wina aliyense patsogolo pa zofuna zako.” - Achisanu
Tanthauzo lenileni la chikondi. Nthawi zina anthu amatanganidwa kwambiri ndi mavuto awo komanso zosowa zawo kotero kuti kumakhala kovuta kuwona zosowa za mnzawoyo.
Ngati muli akukumana ndi mavuto okondana mu mgwirizano wanu, zitha kukhala kuti inu kapena mnzanu mukumenya nkhondo, zotetana kapena zamaganizidwe zomwe zimawalepheretsa kutsegula kwathunthu.
Tsoka ilo, anthu ambiri akuchita zosiyana kwambiri ndi zomwe amayenera kuchita munthawi zoterezi. Amayamba kukankhira, akuganiza kuti athana ndi vutolo pokakamiza wina kuti achite zomwe akufuna.
Iyi si njira yabwino yopangira ubale wabwino. M'malo mwake, khalani oleza mtima komanso omvetsetsa - dziwani kuti mnzanu adzatseguka pakapita nthawi, ngakhale zitenga nthawi yayitali ndipo umu ndi momwe mungapangire chibwenzi pamene banja lanu lifunikira kwambiri.
"Chofunika ndi chikhulupiriro komanso kudalira." - Peter Pan
Ndi zachilendo kukhala ndi zokhumudwitsa muukwati wanu. Palibe amene ali wangwiro komanso mnzake siomwe. M'malo mosungirana chakukhosi, phunzirani momwe mungalankhulire za mavuto anu ndikuwonetsa mnzanuyo kuti mumamukonda komanso mumakhulupirira banja lanu.
Pezani njira zosonyezera kuyamikira kwanu - awadabwitseni ndi kadzutsa pabedi, lembani uthenga wachikondi pagalasi lakusamba asanadzuke m'mawa kapena kuphika chakudya chomwe amakonda. Ndi zinthu zazing'ono zomwe zimawerengedwa kwambiri.
Kumanga chibwenzi muukwati zimadalira momwe mumakhalira ndi chikhulupiriro komanso kudalira mnzanu. Ndipo, munthawi zovuta kwambiri pomwe moyo umakugwetsani pansi, mutha kudalira mnzanu kuti akhale nanu.
"Ngakhale zozizwitsa zimatenga kanthawi." - Cinderella
Ngakhale mukuyesetsa kwambiri, kukhazikitsa ubale wapabanja pakati pa anthu awiri kumatenga nthawi. Khalani oleza mtima komanso omvetsetsa, ndipo sangalalani ndi njira yodziwira mnzanu m'njira zatsopano komanso zodabwitsa.
Kuleza mtima kumatha kusintha ubale uliwonse, kumakuthandizani kuti musinthe momwe mumamvera ndikuthana ndi mavuto m'banja lanu m'njira yabwino komanso yolimbikitsa.
Malingaliro abwinowa omwe akwaniritsidwa chifukwa cha kuleza mtima adzakuthandizani kukhala omvera ena kwa ena. Kuphatikiza apo, kuleza mtima ndikofunikanso pakusintha, kuvala, kusakhumudwa, ndikukhala moyo wathanzi.
Zilibe kanthu kuti ndinu okonda Disney kapena ayi, mutha kukhala otsimikiza kuti muphunzira maphunziro ambiri amoyo kuchokera kumakanema a Disney.
Makamaka zikafika kulimbitsa ubwenzi muukwati, makanema awa amakopa umunthu wofunikira kwambiri ndikuwalimbikitsa kuti apeze njira zosonyezera chikondi m'miyoyo yawo.