Zamkati
Anthu ambiri amakumbukira chikondi chawo choyamba ndikulakalaka komanso kukonda. Koma ngati simukuyanjana ndi munthuyo pano, mutha kukhala mukukumana ndi zodabwitsazi za yemwe adathawa.
Nkhani ndiyakuti Chikhumbo chimapangitsa sugarcoat m'mbuyomu. Ndizofanana ndikukumbukira kwa toast komwe kwakhala kukukuta nyama yankhumba ndikumverera. Ndipo amakonda koyamba. Chabwino, nthawi zambiri amakhala kusefukira kwamalingaliro atsopano, osangalatsa omwe sanakhalepo otero.
Chifukwa chake tikayamba kukondana koyamba, tsogolo lathu limapangidwa ndi mitundu yatsopano. Kwa nthawi yoyamba nthawi zonse, titha kuwona moyenera malo omwe tili pakati. Ndipo monga chiwonetsero chilichonse chabwino, ngati ubalewo utha, tikufuna wina.
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Itatuluka koyamba, anthu adawona kanema mosiyana ndi omwe adayiwona akudziwa kuti sizowona. Kanema wa anthu oyamba aja anali ndi mphamvu. Zomwezo ndi The Sixth Sense. Chowonadi chitadziwika, simukadatha kuwonera kanema momwemo.
Chidziwitso chosadziwa chinakulolani kuti mukhudzidwe mwanjira yomwe simungamvekenso. Tsopano, mukuyembekeza kupotoza kwamakanema.
Mumakhalabe okayikira mukawona "nkhani yoona." Ndipo chifukwa chachilendo cha iwo, timakonda kuwonetsa makanemawo mokweza, ngakhale ngati nkhani mufilimu ina ndiyabwino.
Ndi mmenenso zilili ndi miyoyo yathu. Timapitiliza ndi masiku athu achikondi pambuyo poyamba, tikukumana ndi moyo. Timakondananso. Koma chikondi chotsatira, nthawi zambiri samamvanso chimodzimodzi.
Nkhaniyi ndiyosiyana. Olembawo ndi osiyana. NDife osiyana. Ndipo ambiri a ife timadzinyenga tokha pokhulupirira kuti ubale uliwonse wofunikira uyenera kuwoneka ngati woyambirira.
Timalakalaka kumverera kofananako komwe tinali nako koyamba, ndipo akakhala kuti kulibe, timaganiza kuti china chake chalakwika. China chake chikuyenera kusowa.
Chitsanzo
Sarah sanamvetse chifukwa chake "samatha kukhala wosangalala." Anakwatiwa ndi mnyamata wabwino yemwe amamukonda ndipo amalankhula zoyamba banja, koma samatha kumva kuti china chake chikusowa.
Atamupanikiza, adawulula, zaka 14 pambuyo pake, adalakalaka chikondi chake choyamba. Awiriwa adagawana zambiri zoyambira limodzi. Anamugwera iye, moyo wake, ndi banja lake, ndipo anali ndi chisoni ndi kutayikaku.
Amangodziwa kuti ngati iye ndi wakale wake atha kukhala limodzi, ndikanakhala loto lomwe amafuna. Anayerekezera ungwiro wowoneka bwino wa nthawiyo ndi ubale wake tsopano, ndipo potero, mosazindikira amafuna kuti chilichonse chokhudza banja lake chikhale monga chikumbukiro.
Tsopano, pokhudzidwa ndi zomwe ndimakonda kutcha madzi a chilengedwe chonse, Sarah mwachangu adathamangira kwa wakale wake miyezi yomwe adagawana nane. Kukumana kumeneku kunali kwakanthawi koma anali wokondwa.
Adayamba kuyankhula pagawo lonena za momwe "zidalili" Izi zimayenera kuchitika, ndipo atangokumana kumene, adapanga tsiku la khofi. Sarah anali wokonzeka kutha ukwati wake, kenako adapita kukamwa khofi.
Pambuyo pokambirana koyamba, adazindikira kuti wakale anali wokwatiwa. Ndipo mwamantha ake, adakhala masana akudzitama chifukwa cha kusakhulupirika kwake. Ananenanso molimba mtima kuti Sara akhale m'modzi wa iwo.
Anachita mantha. Apa amaganiza kuti amuwona ngati wokwatirana yemwe samusowa. M'malo mwake, adazindikira kuti maloto ake anali osiyana kwambiri ndi omwe amaganiza kuti amagawana.
Ndipo mwadzidzidzi mathero abwino omwewo, "akadakhala," adawululidwa pachinyengo chomwe chinali. Loto lomwe adaligwira mwamphamvu linali lalingaliro lotengera mwamuna yemwe adamupanga m'mutu mwake mokha.
Ngati mkazi wake wakale anali bambo zaka 14 zapitazo, sanalinso. Chifukwa, chabwino, nthawi imachita izo. Zimatisintha komanso kutisintha, ngakhale tikufuna kuti tisasinthe. Zomwe zidalipo, zokhala m'thupi la munthu amene amamuganiza kuti amamukonda, sanali mwamunayo yemwe adamupanga.
Ndipo inali nthawi imeneyo pomwe Sarah adatha kuwona bwino ukwati wake. Anatha kuilemekeza ndikuyamikira komanso kulemekeza kukongola kwake.
Adazindikira kuti adaweruza molakwika mamuna wake, ndikumuyerekeza ndi zabwino zomwe sizinali m'malo molola kuti ubale wawo ukhale wopambana pansi pazikhalidwe zatsopano.
Mosazindikira adanyalanyaza zinthu zazikulu zokhudzana ndi ubale wake, kuphonya kukongola kwa kavalo wamkulu poyerekeza ndi chipembere.
Osakhazikika pachibwenzi
Ndimauza makasitomala anga kuti osakhazikika pachibwenzi. Osanyengerera pamikhalidwe yofunikira kuti mungokhala ndi wina. Muyenera kukhala ndi maloto nthawi zonse pazomwe mukufuna kuti ubale wanu ukhale.
Koma muyenera kukhala otsimikiza kuti maloto omwe mumakhala nawo mwamphamvu mumtima mwanu komanso m'mutu mwanu siwochokera pachibwenzi chomwe, sichinachitikepo.
Osakakamira mwamphamvu chithunzi cham'mbuyomu chonga chowonadi chokha. Pakhala pali makanema akulu pambuyo pa The Sixth Sense. Pakhala pali mathero omwe adatidabwitsabe. Ndipo pali loto lomwe lingakhalepo pakadali pano lomwe liri labwino kuposa loto lomwe lidalipo panthawiyo.