Zamkati
- Matenda amwana wamwamuna
- Nchiyani chimayambitsa matenda a man child?
- Momwe mungachitire ndi mwamuna wosakhwima m'maganizo
Tikuwona Mwana Wamwamuna memes pa Facebook, omwe abwenzi anu akazi amawatumizira ndi chisangalalo. Amakhala ndi munthu yemwe akuvutika kwambiri ndi kakang'ono, mwina kuzizira, kapena kuti amapatsidwa mafuta athupi m'malo mwa mafuta opanda mafuta ku Starbucks omwe amawakonda.
Mutha kukhala mukudabwa kuti mwana wamwamuna ndi ndani. Tiyeni tiwone zina onetsani zikwangwani wamwamuna wosakhwima.
Matenda amwana wamwamuna
Nazi zomwe muyenera kuyang'ana ngati mukuganiza kuti amuna kapena akazi anu atha kukhala mwana wamwamuna:
- Ndi wosowa kwambiri, komanso amatha kutembenukira kumbuyo kwake nakhala ozizira mopitilira kwa inu.
- Amangodandaula nthawi zonse, pazinthu zomwe sangathe kuzilamulira, monga kusintha kwa nthawi yosungira masana, kapena kuti palibe chabwino pa Netflix. Chilichonse ndi "cholota" kwa iye, chowopsa chochititsidwa ndi wina.
- Iye samadziyeretsa pambuyo pake. Kaya ndikutsuka mbale yake pamalo odyera mwachangu, kapena kukonza m'nyumba, samachita. Monga mwana, amayembekezera kuti wina adzamtsata ndikusamalira zonyansa zonse.
- Sakhala pa nthawi yake. Nthawi yanu siyofunika. Adzaonekera mochedwa kupita kumisonkhano ndi zochitika zina. Sadzakhala kulikonse komwe mukufuna kuti adzakhale pa nthawi yake.
- Kusakhulupirika. Sanganame kuti ateteze ndikutumikira zofuna zake
- Chisokonezo. Zakuthupi ndi zamaganizidwe: amathera nthawi yochulukirapo kukonzekera pamaso pagalasi. Amanyalanyazanso zosowa za ena, ndikuika patsogolo zake.
- Ulesi. Sagawana nawo ntchito zapakhomo, kukusiyani kuti mukhale woyang'anira ntchito zonse zofunika kuti banja liziyenda bwino
- Amamva kuti anthu ena ali ndi ngongole naye
- Madzi odzaza ufulu
- Amaganiza kuti nthawi zonse amakhala wolondola ndipo ena ali ndi vuto pa chilichonse cholakwika
- Kulephera kuzindikira kuti pali zovuta pazinthu zonse, makamaka zoyipa
Nchiyani chimayambitsa matenda a man child?
Woyendetsa kumbuyo kwa wamunthu wosakhazikika m'maganizo ndiko kuleredwa kwake. Anyamata omwe makolo awo adawathandiza kuyambira ali aang'ono nthawi zambiri amakula mpaka kukhala ana amuna. Anali atawachitira chilichonse ali anyamata ndipo akuyembekeza kuti izi zipitilira moyo wawo wonse.
Ngati mwakwatiwa ndi mwana wamwamuna, mudzakhala ndi zovuta zambiri. Imodzi ndikuti mwana wanu wamwamuna akukana kugwira ntchito. Mwana wamwamuna amatha kukhala ndi vuto logwira ntchito chifukwa cha malingaliro awo okula msinkhu kwa ena.
Palibe wolemba ntchito amene angalemekeze munthu amene sangayankhe mlandu pakalakwitsa pantchito. Nthawi zina mwana wamwamuna amatha kukhala pantchito chifukwa nthawi zambiri amakhala ofulumira komanso osangalatsa koyambirira (ngati mwana) koma pamapeto pake, oyang'anira amazindikira kuti ali ndi vuto.
Pamenepo, adzathamangitsidwa. Izi zikachitika mobwerezabwereza, sizosadabwitsa kuti mwana wamwamuna amakana kugwira ntchito. Koma m'malo moyang'ana mkati kufunsa chifukwa chomwe sangakwaniritsire kugwira ntchito, bambo wamwamuna adzadzudzula wina aliyense:
“Onse ndi opusa. Ndine wantchito wabwino kwambiri kunjako; koma kulakwa kwawo sazindikira luso pomwe lili pamaso pawo. ”
Ngati mwakwatiwa ndi mwana wamwamuna, njira zina zothanirana ndi izi ndi ziti?
Momwe mungachitire ndi mwamuna wosakhwima m'maganizo
Choyamba, dziwani kuti simuli nokha. Ana amuna akhoza kukhala okongola kwambiri poyambilira, kukukokerani kudziko lawo. Choncho musadziimbe mlandu chifukwa chokhala pachibwenzi.
Kachiwiri, mvetsetsani kuti palibe zomwe mungachite kuti musinthe machitidwe ake osakhwima. Njira yake yakakhazikika kwambiri, kuyambira ubwana wake.
Ndipo chifukwa ana amuna sangathe kuwona kuti njira yawo yogwirira ntchito padziko lapansi ili ndi zoyipa kwa ena, samalimbikitsidwa kufunafuna kusintha.
Kodi izi zikutanthauza chiyani kwa inu? Njira imodzi ndiyo kunyalanyaza machitidwe ake. Koma izi zitha kukhala zovuta, makamaka pazinthu zazikulu monga ngati akana kugwira ntchito. Dzifunseni kuti: Kodi mukufuna kukhala yekhayo amene amadyetsa banja? Ndi ubale wopanda malire komanso wokhutiritsa?
Njira ina ndikuyesera kuti mugwirizane ndi mwamuna wamwamuna wamwamuna. Ngati ali mwamuna waulesi komanso kusamvana kapena kunyengerera komwe kwamukhudza, khalani naye pansi ndikumuuza kuti akhoza kukhala ndi chipinda chimodzi mnyumbamo momwe angachitire zinthu zake.
Chipinda chimodzi chokha. Nyumba yonseyo ndi “malo anu”. Muzisamalira ukhondo ndi dongosolo muzipinda zonse koma phanga lake. Khalani omasuka kukhazikitsa lamuloli osayitanitsa zokambirana. Ngati achita ngati mwana, atha kuyembekezeredwa kuti nawonso amuchitira.
Kuchita ndi mwamuna wosakhwima m'maganizo itha kukhala yamsonkho kwa inu. Nthawi ina, mungakonde kukambirana ndi mlangizi kapena wothandizira zaukwati, ngakhale mutapita nokha.
Sizosangalatsa kukhala pansi pamunthu wamwamuna. Aliyense akuyenera kukhala ndi ubale wachimwemwe ndi wabwino; ndicholinga chamoyo, sichoncho? Sizingakhale zopanda nzeru kuti mudzipeze kuti mukuyamba kudzifunsa ngati muyenera kusiya chibwenzicho.
Akazi akale omwe asiya amuna awo osakhwima m'maganizo anena izi: Ngati mukukayikira zanu chibwenzi chosakhwima akuwonetsa zizindikiro zakukhala mwana wamwamuna, osadzipereka kuubwenzi wanthawi yayitali.
Osangodumphira pazinthu mwachangu kwambiri, ngakhale atakhala wokongola, wokongola, komanso woseketsa. Phunzirani momwe mungazindikire zizindikiro za matenda a man child, ndipo ngati mukuwona, akuwonetsa zambiri mwa izi, dzipulumutseni nokha kuubwenzi wosasangalatsa.
Chokani ndikupeza wina. M'nyanja muli nsomba zambiri, choncho yambani kusambanso. Osataya chiyembekezo. Mupeza machesi oyenererana bwino, ndipo nthawi ino izikhala ndi achikulire.