Zamkati
- 1. Sangalalani wina ndi mnzake
- 2. Kuseka pamodzi
- 3. Chitani kena kake koyamba
- 4. Chitani kena kake koyamba nthawi yayitali
- 5. Tengani ulendo!
- 6. Kambiranani za izi
- 7. Gwiranani manja
Kaya mwangokwatirana kumene wazaka 70 kapena mwakwatirana ndi wokondedwa wanu kwa nthawi yayitali pali malangizo angapo omwe mungagwiritse ntchito kuti ubale wanu ukhale wabwino komanso wokwaniritsa!
1. Sangalalani wina ndi mnzake
Nthawi zina tikakhala ndi munthu kwakanthawi timayamba kuwanyalanyaza ndipo timasiya kusangalala ndi zomwe zidatikopa kwa munthu uja poyamba. Mwachitsanzo, titha kuyamba kuyimba nyimbo ngati anganenenso nkhani yomweyi kapena nthabwala yomweyi. Ngati izi zikukufotokozerani, yesani zina mukadzakhala ndi mnzanu yemwe adzafotokozereni nkhani "yakale" yomweyo. Yesani kumvetsera mwachidwi. M'malo mothetsa nkhaniyi yesetsani kuwafunsa funso lotsatira. Mwachitsanzo, "Wandiuza kangapo za nthawi yomwe unagwera pa kavalo, koma sindikuganiza kuti ndakufunsapo, dzina la kavalo anali ndani?" Kuyanjana ndi nkhani za anzawo ndi njira yodziwira zinthu zatsopano za wina ndi mnzake ngakhale mutakhala limodzi kwazaka zambiri.
2. Kuseka pamodzi
Moyo ndi waufupi - gwirizanani limodzi kuti mupeze nthabwala nthawi zina. Pali zambiri m'moyo zomwe sitingathe kuzilamulira ndipo titha kusankha kupsinjika kapena kuchita zinthu mopepuka. Kupeza nthabwala m'malo okhumudwitsa kumakuthandizani kuti muchepetse mavuto ndipo mutha kusintha zinthu zoyipa kukhala zoyipa kwambiri.
Nthawi zina maanja akakhala limodzi kwa nthawi yayitali samasekereranso nthabwala za wina ndi mnzake. Zachidziwikire kuti mwamvapo nkhonya 500 koma zingamveke bwanji mukamisekanso? Mwinanso yakwana nthawi yoti mukwaniritse zolemba zanu zoseketsa ndikufotokozera nkhani zoseketsa zomwe zidachitika sabata ino m'malo mwazinthu zomwe zidachitika zaka 20 zapitazo. Yesani oseketsa atsopano kuti muwone ngati pali ena omwe angakuthandizeni kusintha nthabwala zanu! Banja lina lomwe ndimadziwa limakhala ndi Joke Yapachaka usiku ndipo limapempha anzawo kuti adzadye nawo chakudya ndikusinthana. Pali china chake chokhudza kumva mnzanu akumimba akuseka chomwe ndichabwino kumoyo. Sakani pa YouTube kuti mupeze nthabwala zoyera kapena mutu uliwonse woseketsa womwe umakusangalatsani.
3. Chitani kena kake koyamba
Kodi mwayamba kale? Kupita kumalo omwewo, chizolowezi chomwecho? Pakhoza kukhala kukongola kofanana chifukwa kumanenedweratu komanso kukhala kosavuta koma nthawi zambiri kumatha kukhala kosangalatsa. Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti anthu omwe amadzipereka kuti akhale ophunzira moyo wonse amakhala achimwemwe komanso opindulitsa m'miyoyo yawo yonse. Nthawi zina anthu amapewa kuyesa zinthu zatsopano chifukwa saganiza kuti azikonda kapena saganiza kuti zitha kuchita bwino. Palibe amene akuti muyenera kukonda chilichonse chomwe mungayese; Kungoyesa kuyesa chinthu china chatsopano ndichabwino kwa inu ndi banja lanu. Gwiritsani ntchito Groupon kapena LivingSocial kuti muwerenge zochitika ndi ntchito zomwe zikupezeka mdera lanu pamitengo yamalonda. Kutikita maanja, makalasi opaka utoto, zophatikizira vinyo, makalasi ophika ndi zinthu zochepa chabe zomwe zingaperekedwe.
4. Chitani kena kake koyamba nthawi yayitali
Ndi chiyani chomwe mumakonda kuchita koma osachitanso - ndi liti komaliza kupita kumalo osungira nyama ndikudya maswiti a thonje, nonse awiri? Kapena unakhala mochedwa kuti uyang'ane nyenyezi? Tikafika pazolowera nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kuzituluka koma ndibwino kuti banja lanu liziyanjananso ndi zina mwazomwe mumakonda kapena kulimbikitsa zomwe mwakumana nazo. Mwinanso pali china chake chomwe mumakonda kuchita koma simunachite bwino mumangochilekerera.
Dzipatseni chilolezo chochita zomwe mumakonda kuchita chifukwa choti mumakonda kuzichita. Mwina nonse mumasangalala ndi chinthu chomwecho kapena mwina ndichinthu chomwe mumakumana nacho mosiyana kenako mutha kubwera pamodzi ndikugawana zomwe mwakumana nazo. Mwina ndizochedwa kwambiri kuti mupange ntchito yodzasewera hockey koma ndi nthawi yabwino kukhala wokonda hockey. Mwina mumagwiritsa ntchito makalasi ovina mudakali mwana ndipo mumalakalaka mutakhala ballerina - bwanji osatenga kalasi yoyamba ya ballet kwa okalamba kapena kutenga kalasi ya Zumba limodzi? Kuphunzira za kupita patsogolo kwatsopano m'malo ena owerengera kungakhale kosangalatsa. Kuyesanso zinthu kungakhale kosangalatsa komanso kotsitsimula muukwati wanu.
5. Tengani ulendo!
Kodi ndi malo ati omwe nthawi zonse mumafuna kupita koma simunafike? Pitani kumeneko! Kupanga zokumbukira zatsopano limodzi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yosungilira banja lanu. Kaya mukuyenda pamtsinje kapena kuyenda m'malo owonetsera zakale, ndizosangalatsa kuwona mtundu wa maluso omwe amakusangalatsani komanso zomwe zimakusangalatsani mnzanuyo. Yesani zinthu m'malo anu abwino. Ngati mumakonda zaluso zaku Europe - onaninso izi ndikuphatikizanso zojambula zamakono.
Ingoganizirani momwe zinali momwe kukhala ojambula akuyesera kugulitsa zaluso zawo. Lendi mafotokozedwe omvera omwe amapita ndi ulendowu. Nyumba zosungiramo zinthu zakale zambiri zimakhala ndi masiku oti kuloleza ndi kwaulere kapena amapezerapo mwayi kuchotsera akulu! Kodi ndinu wokonda buku? Mizinda yambiri ili ndi malaibulale osaneneka omwe ndi aulere kwa anthu onse. Khalani ndi nthawi yowerengera zambiri za mbiriyakale! Mwina mupeze buku kuyambira ubwana wanu kuti mugawane ndi mnzanu. Kuyenda ngati banja ndikosangalatsa ndipo sikuyenera kukhala okwera mtengo. Nawo mndandanda wamalo otchuka kuti achikulire aziyenda!
6. Kambiranani za izi
Zanenedwa kuti mitu 3 yomwe maanja ambiri amapewa kuyankhulapo ndi imfa, kugonana komanso zachuma. Komabe mitu itatu iyi idalowererana m'moyo wathu watsiku ndi tsiku ngati banja. Tonsefe tataya anthu omwe tili nawo pafupi ndipo ndikofunikira kukambirana zaimfa ndi zomwe timakhumba nthawi yakuchoka pano. Onetsetsani kuti okwatirana ndi mabanja anu akudziwa zokhumba zanu ndikukhala ndi zikalata zovomerezeka monga ma wilo, matrasti ndi mphamvu yokomera woyimilira.
Ngati mungasamalire zinthuzi mnzanu ndi banja lanu azitha kuthana ndi chisoni chopanikizika kwambiri kuposa momwe angadziwire okha. Ngati mulibe mndandanda wa ICE (Ngati Mwadzidzidzi) wa banja lanu - pangani imodzi tsopano. Onetsetsani kuti mukusiya chikalata chotetezeka kapena malo otetezeka. Phatikizanipo mabanki onse oyenera a banki ndi chitetezo chazidziwitso za inshuwaransi, zolowera ndi ma password. Ndikofunikanso ngati mwasunga ndalama kapena zinthu zina pamalo otetezeka kuti muuze mnzanu komwe kuli malo otetezedwawo !!
7. Gwiranani manja
Kukhudza kwaanthu ndichabwino kwambiri komanso champhamvu kwambiri. Tengani nthawi kuti musangalale ndi ubale wanu wakuthupi! Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti kungogwirana manja kumachepetsa kuthamanga kwa magazi ndikuwonjezera malingaliro abwino. Pakadali pano mutha kuganiza kuti ubale wanu wathupi wapezeka koma taganizirani, bwanji ngati pali zambiri? Funsani mnzanuyo ngati pali chilichonse chomwe angafune kuti asinthe kapena chibwenzi chanu. Amayi ena opitilira 70 akuti adagonanapo bwino atakwanitsa zaka 70.
Sangalalani! Pezani buku lonena za kugonana ndipo muwerenge limodzi. Yesani buku la Iris Krasnow, Kugonana Pambuyo ...: Amayi Amagawana Momwe Chibwenzi Chimasinthira Moyo Umasintha.