Zamkati
- 1. Kumbukirani, munasaina malamulo ndi zikhalidwe
- 2. "Ndikumvetsetsa" komanso "ukunena zowona" sizongonena chabe
- 3. Sinthani matebulo omenyera ndi kutulutsa "mfuti zazikulu"
- 4. Nthawi zina zimakhala bwino kuchita ngati mwana
- 5. Musadzitengere nokha mopepuka!
Palibe chilinganizo chokwanira chaukwati; Banja lililonse ndi lapadera komanso losiyana. Monga gawo lakudziwikaku, zovuta ndi zovuta zomwe zimabwera zitha kukhala zosiyananso. M'malo mongoyang'ana zovuta, lingalirani malangizo otsatirawa.
1. Kumbukirani, munasaina malamulo ndi zikhalidwe
Mwina simungamvetse mnzanu nthawi zonse, komabe munanenabe "Ndikuvomereza." Kusayina chiphaso chaukwati ndizofunikanso kuposa lamulo. Ndi pangano, pangano kapena lonjezo, lomwe mwapanga ndi mboni kuti muzikondana ndi kusamalirana moyo wonse. Ngakhale kuti nthawi zonse sizingakhale mtsogolo mwa aliyense, ukwati ndi ntchito yolimbika ndipo umafuna kudzipereka ku "zikhalidwe" zija. Palibe kukayika pa izi - pankhani yaukwati, malingaliro ndi zikhalidwe nthawi zonse gwiritsani.
2. "Ndikumvetsetsa" komanso "ukunena zowona" sizongonena chabe
Monga zachikhalidwe komanso zopusa momwe zingamvekere, kumvetsetsa kuti mkazi wanu amakhala wolondola nthawi zonse ndichofunikira kwambiri pachikwati. Izi sizitanthauza kuti alidi wolondola. Koma mwambi wakuti mkazi wachimwemwe amatanthauza moyo wachimwemwe sindiwo kutali kwambiri. Nthawi zina kukangana sikuyenera kukhala nawo. Nthawi zina nkhondoyo imakhala yosayenera kutengedwa. Kapenanso, kupepesa, ngakhale ngati simukuwona kuti mwalakwitsa, kungathandize kwambiri kuwonetsa akazi anu kuti ndiwofunika bwanji kwa inu.
3. Sinthani matebulo omenyera ndi kutulutsa "mfuti zazikulu"
Kulimbana ndi kusamvana ndi gawo lachilengedwe cha ubale uliwonse, kuphatikiza ukwati. Padzakhala nthawi pamene inu ndi mnzanuyo simukhala ndi chiganizo chimodzimodzi ndi kunyengerera kuyenera kuchitika. Kunyengerera sikophweka, chifukwa zikutanthauza kuti palibe munthu amene akupeza zonse zomwe akufuna. M'malo molola kunyalanyaza kuyambitsa kusakhutira ndi kukhumudwa, gwiritsani ntchito mwayi wanu! Pakadali pano, panthawi yamtendere komanso bata pakati pa nonse awiri, pangani njira momwe mungayankhire mukasemphana maganizo. Pangani ndondomeko ya momwe zinthu zidzakhalire ngati mukuyenera kunyengerera, ndikuphatikizanso zosangalatsa! Mwachitsanzo, ngati inu ndi mnzanu mwangoyamba kumene kukangana, yambitsani mavutowo pokhazikitsa Nerf gun war kapena water balloon fight. Palibe munthu wachikulire kwambiri kuti sangasangalale ndi munthu amene amamukonda. Ndipo popeza kusangalala kotere kumakhudza kupikisana, kumatha kuloleza kusamvana komwe kwamangidwa chifukwa chotsutsana ndi kusagwirizana kuti kuthetsedwe mwachilengedwe kudzera pakuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi komanso kupikisana pang'ono.
4. Nthawi zina zimakhala bwino kuchita ngati mwana
Nthawi zina kukhala wamkulu kumakhala kovuta. Kukhala munthu wokwatiwa wokwatiwa komanso kukhala ndi udindo pachibwenzi kumakhala kovuta kwambiri. Ambiri aife timafuna, nthawi zina, kutenga nawo mbali pazinthu zosavuta zomwe timadziwa tili ana. Kuphweka uku kumatha kubwera ngati kupewa maudindo anu kapena kumatha kuseka zazinthu m'malo mongodziona ngati zofunika kwambiri. Dziwani kuti zikafika pokhala banja, pamakhala nthawi yoyenera kuti muziganiza ndi kuchita ngati mwana. Palibe vuto kusangalala ndi mnzanu! M'malo mwake, zitha kukhala zathanzi kwambiri kuti inu ndi mnzanu muzikhala nthawi yocheza wina ndi mnzake zomwe zingapangitse kuti musangalale komanso mukhale anzanu osati kuchita zinthu tsiku ndi tsiku komanso kuchita zinthu mozama. Khalidwe lotere liyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito mwanzeru, ndipo nthawi yoyenera. Kukhala mwana, komano sikuyenera kuchitika kawirikawiri mukamakhala pachibwenzi. Kuchita ngati mwana ndi kusangalala ndikosiyana kwambiri ndi kukhala mwana. Mvetsetsani mzere wabwino pakati pa awiriwa ndikukhalabe ndi malire kuti mupeze zabwino zodziwa kusangalala ndi mnzanu!
5. Musadzitengere nokha mopepuka!
Kuphatikiza pa kudzilola nthawi zina kuchita ngati mwana, ndikofunikira kuti nthawi zonse musamangotenga wina ndi mnzake mozama. Kuseketsa komanso kusewera uku kumayenera kuchitika nthawi yoyenera komanso ndi zolinga zoyenera. Kusewera pachibwenzi chanu kumatha kubweretsa kukondana komanso kuthupi, chinthu chomwe nonse mungakonde mwachinsinsi kwambiri.