Zamkati
- 1. Osasunga chinsinsi
- 2. Khalani pansi, ganizirani, ndikuwunika mozama
- 3. Khalani ndi nthawi yoyeretsa
- 4. Osafulatira achibale
- 5. Samalani kamvekedwe kanu
- 6. Osatengera mbali iliyonse mwakhungu
- Mawu a anzeru
Wina angaganize kuti ndi anthu osankhidwa okha omwe amateteza ana awo mopitirira muyeso, kotero kuti nawonso amakonzekera maukwati awo.
Pepani, kuphulitsa kuwira kwanu, pal koma, ndi nkhani yakale ngati nthawi, yopanda chiyembekezo ndi Shakespeare wamkulu mu "Romeo & Juliet". Kwa zaka mazana ambiri mutuwu wakhala ukujambulidwa munjira iliyonse, kaya ndi kanema, kanema wawayilesi, nkhani zazifupi, nyimbo, kulikonse.
Funso limabuka, 'Kodi tichite chiyani ngati wina ali ndi tsoka lokwanira kuthana ndi vuto lotere?'
Popeza ili ndi vuto lapadziko lonse lapansi komanso lakale kwambiri, anthu adafufuza mitundu ingapo ndipo upangiri udayenda kuchokera pakamwa kuti, ngati wina atenga makadi awo moyenera kuti akhale ndi moyo wamtendere komanso wabwino .
1. Osasunga chinsinsi
Ngati mungasankhe kubisa chibwenzi chanu pachifukwa choti mukudziwa kuti makolo anu sangavomereze zaubwenzi wanu makamaka nthawi yabwino yowawakhulupirira ndikuwadziwitsa.
Ndibwino kuti adziwe kuchokera kwa inu kuposa munthu wina. Komanso, kubisa china chake chofunikira monga izi kumawonetsa kuti mwina ndinu wolakwitsa kapena mukuchita manyazi ndi bwenzi lanu kapena mnzanu.
2. Khalani pansi, ganizirani, ndikuwunika mozama
Kukhala mchikondi ndikumverera kodabwitsa.
Zimapangitsa dziko kukhala lokongola komanso kukupatsirani mwayi wowoneka bwino kwambiri, zonse ndi zokongola komanso zangwiro.
Mumayamba kuyang'ana padziko lapansi kuchokera pamagalasi achikuda ndipo panthawi yomwe ziweruzo zanu zimakhala zosasunthika zikafika kwa mnzanu. Mwina makolo anu awonapo china chake chomwe inu, mwanu, mwaphonya. Kupatula apo, sangakufunireni chilichonse choyipa.
3. Khalani ndi nthawi yoyeretsa
Pankhani ya mafuko osiyanasiyana, zimachitika kuti mnzake, mosadziwa, anena kapena kuchita chinthu chomwe chimaonedwa ngati chonyansa, kapena mwina adachita kapena kunena zomwe zidatengedwa mosiyana.
Tengani nthawi, khalani pansi ndikulankhula ndi banja lanu, yesetsani kupeza chifukwa chomwe sakukondera. Nthawi zambiri chifukwa chake ndizabwino zazing'ono ndipo kukambirana bwino komanso momasuka ndizomwe zimafunikira.
Mukudziwa komwe mungakweretse mzere?
Ngati kukana kwa makolo anu kumachitika chifukwa cha mafuko, magulu azikhalidwe, kapena kusankhana pagulu, ndiye nthawi yabwino kuti muthe malire. Zili ndi inu kuti musayime konse motsutsana ndi tsankho lawo ndikuphwanya miyambo yakale.
Kwa ambiri a ife kuvomereza kwa makolo kumatanthauza chilichonse, koma kumbukirani, ngakhale atakhala ndi chidziwitso chotani, kapena chikondi chachikulu kwa ife, iwo, monga munthu wina aliyense, akhoza kukhala olakwika.
Ndipo ndibwino kuyesa kukhala ndiubwenzi ndi makolo anu onse komanso mnzanu amene mwasankha m'malo mokhala ndi munthu yemwe simumafanana naye kapena kuwakwiyira.
4. Osafulatira achibale
Onetsetsani kuti mnzanu sakukukokerani kutali ndi banja lanu.
Ngakhale atakhala ovuta chotani, makolo anu ndi abale anu ali ndipo adzakhala banja lanu loyamba nthawi zonse. Nthawi zina kusavomereza kwa makolo kumabwera chifukwa choopa kuti mwina mukuyandikira kwambiri kwa mnzanu ndipo pamapeto pake mudzatha m'moyo wawo.
Zili ndi inu kusamba makolo anu ndi chidwi ndi chikondi ndikuchotsa mantha achilengedwe awa kwa iwo.
5. Samalani kamvekedwe kanu
Ngati kamvekedwe kanu kali kokhwima, kapena ngati mukukuwa kuti makolo anu sakukuthandizani, kumbukirani kuti mawu okweza nthawi zambiri amatanthauza kuti mulibe zifukwa zomveka zochirikiza nthanthi yanu.
Ngati mukudziwa mumtima mwanu kuti mukulondola, yesetsani kukopa makolo anu kuti achite zomwezo. Kufuula sikungakufikitseni kulikonse.
6. Osatengera mbali iliyonse mwakhungu
Kodi muli mbali ya ndani?
Funso lomwe anthu ambiri amatha kulifunsa, 'Kodi muli mbali ya ndani?' Yankho losavuta ndilakuti 'Osatengera mbali iliyonse mwakhungu'.
Sikoyenera kuti inu kapena aliyense mukhale pamalo omwe angafunikire kusankha pakati pa wokondedwa wawo ndi banja lawo, koma ndi udindo umabwera ndiudindo.
Ngati mudakhalapo kale, kumbukirani kuti ndiudindo wanu kuwona zinthu ngati mwana wa anthu omwe adapereka miyoyo yawo yonse chifukwa cha inu komanso ngati mnzake wothandizana ndi moyo wanu komanso tsogolo lanu.
Mawu a anzeru
Yesetsani kuigwiritsa ntchito, ndikupeza zotsalira. Dziwani kuti ndi nthawi yanji yoyeserabe kapena kugwada. Palibe amene angakhale wosangalala m'malo oopsa. Kumbukirani, palibe amene ali nazo zonse, tikungokhumudwa m'moyo, kuyesera kuti tichite bwino.